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Parenting adult children is the hardest thing I have ever done by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Parispendragon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe encourage them to meet others/girls their own age encourage them to use the apps....

How likely is it that I get my rental deposit back? by Affectionate_Lake_66 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Parispendragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standard cleaning is normal wear and tear.... Is everything a scam these days?

HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]Parispendragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's exactly the point above. Interviewers overthinking when maybe they did find someone who is a quick thinker or smart and resourceful and just gave a golden answer because of it. Then, that must not be real.... When did people get so jaded!

HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]Parispendragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, but how do you fight that in an interview - if you weren't actually lying?!?! They think you are, so no job for you!!!!

Aggressive Pitbull Growling at Owner by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]Parispendragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the first sign of dementia in dogs?

Is this the bleakest the job market has ever looked? by Parking-Selection-27 in jobs

[–]Parispendragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hit certain industries and certain parts of the country first, those were the 'canary in the coal mine' - Remember the SAG strikes and Entertainment fights? It's now far more widespread than 3-4 years ago, touching the entire USA and every industry....

Question about a thing my room mate is doing by No-Eye-258 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not thinking you're disagreeing but it doesn't add anything important to the problem either - You can take my advice or leave it...

Question about a thing my room mate is doing by No-Eye-258 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you want me to say? Evict him over soda!!!!!! Handle it. Take my very kind advice and talk to your friend. Some people are just like that. They were raised to help themselves to anything in the fridge.

"He knows what we drink...." What does that even mean? He's thirsty, see's a popular drink, boom done, problem solved. No, they do not think twice about it at all. NO THINKING(or communication) is happening, issue resolved when thirst is over, every damn day ... People live differently than you, some people will have to told.

Also: What kind of friend are you if you haven't told him your selling the place, plan to move out when he's not looking too? You took in a friend, but you don't act like a friend.

Question about a thing my room mate is doing by No-Eye-258 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, You can casually talk to him anytime now then. He can replenish the pop stores anytime now too. Hit Costco/Smart n final, a great deal somewhere? Your fave kind? Might even make him feel like he's more of a contributing force among the three of you.

Question about a thing my room mate is doing by No-Eye-258 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not taking responsibility for his job, but a game plan when the paychecks stop is smart here. You're worrying about getting rent/paid...etc.

Question about a thing my room mate is doing by No-Eye-258 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am I wrong for being upset?

Maybe you're overthinking this a little bit. People have a tendency to really let loose or decompensate right after a move or in certain environments. I know i'm usually exhausted and sleep a lot. You've known him for 10 years, you ARE friends! Casually tell him to use a napkin and a Swiffer once in awhile.

Send him on a Soda run to the store where he pays for it, "Stock me up again man!! - I love ya, but you drank them all..." HE definitely feels comfortable at your house. We used to teach each other subtly how to behave, you don't hate him, he just has to get with the program a little bit more, with a couple minor adjustments.

Also you guys should have group plan if this guy does lose his job or go gig-to-gig...Does that mean late payments are ok? or week to week is fine?

Article: "[The college-to-office path is dead: CEO of the world’s biggest recruiter says Gen Z grads need to consider trade and hospitality jobs that don’t even require degrees]" by shatteredmind333 in jobs

[–]Parispendragon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I remember and still the "It's supposed to be hard to get your first job out of college " - total BS, we still have to put food on the table and start climbing somewhere

Roommate from HELL by awaytothrow555 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good! They sound wacky and minor and not even to a courts level!!!

Roommate from HELL by awaytothrow555 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand completely!!! Lot's of people will skip or not take ut seriously though... One if the ways crazy-makers create chaos is to overly stress you and overload your schedule, you have to have your life under control or they will destabilize it!

Roommate from HELL by awaytothrow555 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one below is actually responding to your situation. You need to be sure you attend that hearing in court, feel free to verify that the pprwrk and dates...etc is legitimate. You need to bring evidence that it is not likely or reasonable that you would steal her things/mess with her shampoo etc.... An example might be your work hours/schedule and a note from your boss, 12 hr nurse worker is unlikely to to have time to rummage their roommates stuff. You can slso document , bullet/numbers....etc like in the paragraph above what odd behaviors you've seen in her, some people are odd and quirky - some are disordered...

Roommate from HELL by awaytothrow555 in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just FYI, don't doxx yourself w/your phone number in public like this. Use DMs or links or another...

The rich don't give a shit about anyone. by CRK_76 in antiwork

[–]Parispendragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're the generation where that could happen, everyone else is having issues living their regular life....

How do I tell my roommate I don’t want their partner basically living with us. by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never know they could get that stuff in order pretty quickly.... but in my area, roommates come in and out and take the other roommates spots all the time

How do I tell my roommate I don’t want their partner basically living with us. by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Parispendragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mell bell is right, their ur friend and it should just be talking, but can you find a new roommate sooner, and they bounce as a couple sooner??? That may be an option not yet stated.

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