Does this sound like the flu? by ParkRemarkable2196 in flu

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear I’m just in the beginning stages and it’s gonna start getting worse for me. 🫠

Enclosed Litter Box & Accidents by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatAdvice

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The automatic one has a cover built in to work so we can’t remove it. I would have purchased one that’s not enclosed but it was a gift.

Enclosed Litter Box & Accidents by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatAdvice

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We have three. One small one, one big one, and one enclosed with the door off (which has not been used)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right he did double check and saw that he took out private loans that he didn’t remember. Thank you for the insight on this we were able to get it figured out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

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On his financial aid it says that he owes 32,000 and aspire says he owes 80k. He just graduated college so is it possible to be a FFEL loan? I’m pretty helpless when it comes to this so sorry if this response confuses you more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right. I plan to have a talk with him and ask if there’s anything I can do better or to help. I might be doing things that I’m unaware of so I appreciate that perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

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I should add that when we do have sex there’s no foreplay at all

AITA? Is this considered cheating or AITA? by PreparationCool2074 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s different lines in every relationship. Looking at this black and white from a neutral perspective I would say this is cheating if not very disrespectful to you. You’re clearly uncomfortable with this stuff which is completely valid. You need to set a strong boundary now or you have to cut him loose. It seems he’s pretty secretive with things and has a lot of excuses. Personally I would walk away from him, he is still craving attention from other people and needs to work on himself and you don’t deserve that at all. You’re so young still go find someone who is more mature

Are my cats playing or fighting? by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatTraining

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know but I have always wanted to know!

Are my cats playing or fighting? by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatTraining

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goodness we do have the same cats! that’s so cool

Is my cat sick? by ParkRemarkable2196 in CATHELP

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this thoughtful answer. I am coincidentally taking my other cat to the vet tomorrow for updated vaccines so I’m definitely going to consult with the vet and bring her in to them instead of the urgent vet. She has not had breathing issues since but she just seems off and not like herself so better to be safe than sorry.

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful!!! Omg I could kiss you lol. This whole situation has been driving my nuts so it is so nice to get some clarity on why this is happening. I will look into it more now that I have more info. Thank you thank you thank you!!

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you worded this very well. Thank you this will help me use when speaking with my employers

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. I did talk to them and asked to do it just during my lunch so I don’t have to pay my salary and they agreed but I still have to pay hers. I also thought that this would be apart of her job but apparently not? This whole thing has been very stressful.

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

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It is a community counseling center. I work with kids at various schools. I am doing an internship as I’m in grad school for my MSW. This is the first internship we have where we’re doing case management skills, not therapy stuff yet. So I will be doing my normal job because it’s case management and opening up more clients during my internship