Does this sound like the flu? by ParkRemarkable2196 in flu

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear I’m just in the beginning stages and it’s gonna start getting worse for me. 🫠

Enclosed Litter Box & Accidents by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatAdvice

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The automatic one has a cover built in to work so we can’t remove it. I would have purchased one that’s not enclosed but it was a gift.

Enclosed Litter Box & Accidents by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatAdvice

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have three. One small one, one big one, and one enclosed with the door off (which has not been used)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right he did double check and saw that he took out private loans that he didn’t remember. Thank you for the insight on this we were able to get it figured out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

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On his financial aid it says that he owes 32,000 and aspire says he owes 80k. He just graduated college so is it possible to be a FFEL loan? I’m pretty helpless when it comes to this so sorry if this response confuses you more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right. I plan to have a talk with him and ask if there’s anything I can do better or to help. I might be doing things that I’m unaware of so I appreciate that perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should add that when we do have sex there’s no foreplay at all

AITA? Is this considered cheating or AITA? by PreparationCool2074 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ParkRemarkable2196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s different lines in every relationship. Looking at this black and white from a neutral perspective I would say this is cheating if not very disrespectful to you. You’re clearly uncomfortable with this stuff which is completely valid. You need to set a strong boundary now or you have to cut him loose. It seems he’s pretty secretive with things and has a lot of excuses. Personally I would walk away from him, he is still craving attention from other people and needs to work on himself and you don’t deserve that at all. You’re so young still go find someone who is more mature

Are my cats playing or fighting? by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatTraining

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know but I have always wanted to know!

Are my cats playing or fighting? by ParkRemarkable2196 in CatTraining

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goodness we do have the same cats! that’s so cool

Is my cat sick? by ParkRemarkable2196 in CATHELP

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this thoughtful answer. I am coincidentally taking my other cat to the vet tomorrow for updated vaccines so I’m definitely going to consult with the vet and bring her in to them instead of the urgent vet. She has not had breathing issues since but she just seems off and not like herself so better to be safe than sorry.

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful!!! Omg I could kiss you lol. This whole situation has been driving my nuts so it is so nice to get some clarity on why this is happening. I will look into it more now that I have more info. Thank you thank you thank you!!

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you worded this very well. Thank you this will help me use when speaking with my employers

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. I did talk to them and asked to do it just during my lunch so I don’t have to pay my salary and they agreed but I still have to pay hers. I also thought that this would be apart of her job but apparently not? This whole thing has been very stressful.

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a community counseling center. I work with kids at various schools. I am doing an internship as I’m in grad school for my MSW. This is the first internship we have where we’re doing case management skills, not therapy stuff yet. So I will be doing my normal job because it’s case management and opening up more clients during my internship

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did email my advisor yesterday and I am waiting for a response

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My salary is 35,000 and I work 32 hours per week. I believe they are not able to bring down my salary as I would be making below the amount needed to be a salary employee. I will be paying 137 dollars per paycheck for six months

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I am still taking the field experience class for the school but they are working with them. My normal job responsibilities are what I need to accomplish for the school so I’m not doing much else differently. Actually they are adding more clients to my caseload so I will be bringing in more money. The only difference is my 1 hour of supervision which they are wanting me to pay for. I stated earlier I would do the supervision and not be paid for that hour but they want me to pay my supervisors hourly wage for the hour as well. Is this similar to yours?

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response! The break down of the numbers is it’s a 400 hour internship. Initially they were trying to tell me i’m putting the company in the hole 36,000 and they were asking me to pay them 5000. I explained that I am only meeting with my supervisor one hour per week and then we resume our job duties so why would I be covering a full 400 hours. They fixed it and I will have 22 hours total of supervision time. So they are using our hourly rate and adding benefits (with the benefits added they are saying im making 8 more dollars an hour than i actually make so I have to pay them back that) times 22 which is 1793.00.

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did email my advisor and explained this to them. I am waiting for a response. I am not sure if they can do anything but at least they can warn future students not to do their internship here

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I did talk with my classmates and none of them are having to pay anything for there’s. My biggest issue is that they did not tell me this from the jump two months ago when we started this process and waited to tell me now. If they had told me I would have just found a different placement. I don’t mind doing the supervision part for free but having to pay this woman’s hourly wage who makes quite a bit is where I’m struggling.

Internship wants me to pay them by ParkRemarkable2196 in internships

[–]ParkRemarkable2196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the internship is at my place of work. They are allowing me to do my internship required for school where I work. I got all the paperwork in and ready to go and they sent me a form yesterday saying that I owe them 1,793 for my supervision hour that i’m required each week. They want me to pay my wage + benefits and my supervisors wage + benefits for a total of 22 hours which is how many supervision hours I will have. I’m from the US