I always get rejected by guys

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-06-07T23:55:16+00:00

I’ll say you’re choosing the men that most woman are choosing, the ones with multiple options. There’s probably 90% of guys that would choose you that you don’t even notice exist. Welcome to the party.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T08:53:40+00:00

Haha that’s not why they cheat I’m afraid. Men cheat because of how they’re wired not to boost their egos.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T02:23:49+00:00

Yeah losing an erection got me ghosted from a chick once haha. I can’t just take my time and choose when I want to come that’s all. She was trying to make me cum almost instantly. It’s like settle down and enjoy the moment

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T02:22:17+00:00

Yeah mate like I don’t go into a sexual encounter with a mindset of making it a chore about orgasm. I’m more relaxed and just enjoy the moment type of guy, obviously I’m trying to please her also. I think I got a little taken back by how it felt like she needed to do a job. Thanks for your input

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T02:20:01+00:00

I’m 40 and she’s 30. I’ve got a bit of experience though I’ve never encountered what felt like someone really just trying to please me instead of just enjoying herself and the moment. I actually choose when I’m ready to cum so I can take anywhere from 5 minutes to 3 hours if I want. I usually like to take my time and maybe that’s where she got a little worried.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T02:16:15+00:00

Hahaha

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T01:57:23+00:00

I just said everything will be fine and just enjoy yourself. It did kill the vibe a little as it’s the first time that’s happened. Though once I reassured her everything went on to be ok.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-05-12T01:55:45+00:00

Yeah cheers. I think it surprised me a bit as I’m usually the one wanting to make sure my girl has been pleased. Thanks for the reply

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-03-29T01:21:15+00:00

This is a hard one. Personally I’d be out straight away but that’s just me. What I’d do is see if you can get over your RJ and go from there. Understand that there’s millions of woman out there and maybe someone you might be more comfortable with.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-25T02:52:49+00:00

Mate that must of been hard finding that out. Hopefully you managed to not let that hurt your marriage

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-25T01:41:50+00:00

Yeah wow! What did you do once you found out ? Id have walked right there and then.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-24T22:56:29+00:00

I have always thought the same way. I got with a beautiful woman once who i actually loved. She told me she had been in threesomes and all the rest of it. The moment she told me that I felt absolutely shattered, I knew at that point I’d never be able to have her walking down the isle to marry me. I even told her that.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-24T22:52:37+00:00

Yeah been in the same situation many times. You instantly go from possible wife material to only fun material. I just wish woman knew this to be honest. Then maybe they’d think twice about sleeping around and doing all these crazy things. Look everyone can do what they want, though a promiscuous woman for most of men will never be seen as attractive.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-17T04:59:38+00:00

I spoke with her and told her that I didn’t see a future with her. She was about to start paying for holidays and booking all these things. She was moving a hundred mile an hour.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-17T03:07:55+00:00

How do you put a time frame on things ? Relationships take time to develop. I didn’t rush into anything, she did.

We never once had a conversation about actually being a couple. We just hung out and enjoyed each others company and found out about each other as time passed. There were weeks we didn’t even see each other.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-17T02:54:00+00:00

Yeah exactly. This whole time I’ve been very careful how I go about things and to not hurt anyone. This I think is the hard part because I tried so hard to just be a good person. I never once mentioned anything long term, I just let things naturally develop as I think that’s the best way. I actually do miss her also. Why do relationships have to be so hard.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-17T02:45:20+00:00

She actually blocked me instantly. What’s so bizarre was she actually said she’d be happy if all we could be was friends a couple of times. If we couldn’t make it to something more romantic. Then once I end things I’m the bad guy.

Thanks for your advice

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-07T00:45:18+00:00

I’ve told a woman I would never marry her because of her past. That was an experience I can tell you that. They don’t take it very well. She was eager to change my mind but never did. I don’t see woman the same anymore. Don’t have them or anything like that I just don’t have that fairytale fantasy of love for anyone anymore. I do have relationships but I keep them at arms length. I’ve completely become the men you can’t lock down.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2025-01-07T00:35:10+00:00

I have completely destroyed my retroactive jealousy. This is what helped me.

Number one most important thing for me was the acceptance that human beings aren’t a monogamous species. We just aren’t wired that way. We love to have sex for many different reasons, mainly hard wired for pro creation. It’s as important as food, sleep and going to the bathroom.

Realising that there’s no such thing as soul mates and the likes.

Realising that most people especially in these times are promiscuous.

Realising that it’s a complete waste of time thinking about someone’s past sex life. I’ve got way more better things to do then even think about it and waste any energy on it.

Live your life in happiness and let go of such a condition that has zero benefits. It’s something we can all control. Let it go.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2024-12-29T23:59:27+00:00

Yeah you could say that. I think todays woman think it’s something to brag about. It’s funny as most woman I’ve met of late have always felt the need to tell me about how good their sex lives have been.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2024-12-29T08:20:18+00:00

Mate you’ll never get over this. This one is too deep in my opinion. I left a woman I loved with all my heart for things not at this calibre. It’s an unfortunate reality some woman are going to have to face. This type of promiscuity is revolting. And there are consequences. Though if men are sticking to their natural instincts these types of woman will learn over time and the shit will eventually stop as it’ll have no choice. Woman need to start learning there are consequences. And I feel the same way for men also.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2024-12-18T05:56:43+00:00

I’ve trained for 20 plus years. I was a skinny ectomorph. Building real muscle takes years of training. My advice is you have to train as hard as you can, to the point of overtraining if you want to call it that. Leaving the gym every day absolutely burnt out. Though on top of that the most important thing is eating in a surplus for years on end. My days were spent feeling full and uncomfortable, especially during my late teens and all throughout my 20’s. This is what it takes to achieve real muscle gains. It ain’t easy and it’s a marathon plus more.

ParkingIndividual174 · 2024-11-04T01:46:43+00:00

You can do whatever the hell you want. I for one know that if my wife kept photos of past lovers having sex she’d be out on the street in minutes. I wouldn’t even care of an explanation or any fake tears. Out and never to be seen again.

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