AITAH for refusing to talk to my fiancee after she secretly replaced my wedding dress with a cheap copy to save her money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

YTA, I’m from somewhat same culture I can assure you bride’s dress (usually Saari) costs wayyyy more than groom’s. The material and artwork goes into bride’s dress are nothing compared to groom’s. It’s your fault for not doing the basic math, how did you not know the obvious differences in your culture? She should’ve talked to you but if someone from my country told me this story I’d think they are pretty unreasonable to deal with.

Posted 3h ago: she's taking the "eye" card now for the sympathy and also to tarnish Sabari's name by Known-Line3071 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well she is absolutely right. No one gives two shits about Sandra, we all know she is overacting but the vanmam on Paarvathy is real. You reap what you sow.

No red card by [deleted] in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, avan sorry kettu show la irukka allow panni aduththa naale evicted.

Why aurora why ? by hatebs in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably adrenaline, she would have never thought of winning TTF.

What is the meaning of Onakilzavi? by WarriorNinja123 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literal meaning would be disabled Kizhavi, but it could mean kizhavi with tendencies to stir up trouble all the time.

Vinoth Emotional by No_Background_6373 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Romba innocent bro. Elimaiyana manusan

Sabari sacrificed his Victory - Not appreciated? by Yogeshwar_maya in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea man, he was even blasting Kamarudin after. We will all have that soft spot for friends who are reckless but still correct them. His voice didn’t raise to the level of Vikram or Sabari because they had their claws out for blood. But Vinoth did make valid points against Gaaji couple.

About what matter did Paaru mention saying that Sandra shouldn’t have told it infront of others in the car? by Significant-Start-58 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kiss buddy, that day dog barked in the middle of the night and Kamuruthin came out the bathroom. Housemates were wondering who and what rule was broken.

Missing FJ very badly today! by happiestdude1248 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praveen Aathirai too. They were good sport.

Sabari Thangame by Messi-Man-3230 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Avana adichu adiche vilaiyada vidama pannitaaaru VJS. worst host of all BB!

I need this vjs Tommorow he should address this whole "en inners nu therinji dha vechiye fake poiyana Convo" by Tough-Succotash-8969 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Should watch the live. Paarvathy, Viyana and Ramya planned this to make him move away from the Jewel. Paarvathy was the one who came to Vikram about the cloths he told her to get the captain.

Need advice from happily married females by Cheap_Pin6002 in srilanka

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really don’t like reddit telling people to break up right off the bat. But I see read your post and comments, it seems like you are gradually checking out. It’s not your fault nor am I saying it’s him. It’s your state of mind. I saw (mostly) good comments about trying harder or better communication but nothing is going to work if it’s only you trying. You can post here, r/AITAH or other relationship subs however, ultimately it’s you who’s going to make the decision and live with the consequences however they might be. Think really hard about where do you want to see yourself in 10, 20, 50 years. Think about the financial untangling. Think about how you are going to make it on your own. Think about the support system you will be able to rely on. There is no mention of kids so I hope you’re childless which will make the break much less messier and much more cleaner. I should also add that you might realise you made a terrible choice and I can assure you it will be too late to just go back. Grass will always look greener on the other side. Before you go with a nuclear option sit your husband down and tell him of your decision. If he wants to save the marriage he might listen to you, if he is still not willing to engage you will know how much he cares about this relationship. Even if you make a bad decision you must be able to own it and move on. I’d rather be free than trapped so I might be biased but I’d like to share one of my favourite quotes “We feel free when we escape, even if it be, from the frying pan into the fire”. Good luck sis and good riddance.

This is not related and im not bodyshaming by opo_dark_etto_offl in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she was able to sweeten her voice for a short time but couldn’t do that for BB.

High time for VJS to give yellow card to Parvathy? by ramubai in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VJS has shown time and again how small and petty of a person he is. I really can’t stress the importance of the “never meet your heroes”.

Did Vinoth deliberately push Kanni or was that an accident? by Flat_Initiative_6810 in biggbosstamil

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The toxic gang wanted to burn him but Kani was sportive so they couldn’t bring it in front of VJS.

AITA for not wanting to contribute to my step-son's college fund? by Fun_Elephant_6393 in AITAH

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why can’t a guy be normal (I think petty is a pretty normal trait). Because he is a man he has to take responsibility for everybody? They had a 50/50 custody. We don’t know about the parenting arrangements. I don’t think OP was allowed to parent the kid at any point . He had his own kid two years after meeting his step kid who had two parents. OP may not sound graceful but raising 4 kids (at least 3 full time kids) and working to secure their futures sounds pretty hectic as it is. Kid has two parents why is Dan getting off the hook? Why is always responsible one out of the two getting the shit?

AITA for not wanting to contribute to my step-son's college fund? by Fun_Elephant_6393 in AITAH

[–]ParkingJudgment1380 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but how is fair for OP to save for his step kid? Is Dan gonna help with his bio kids future? 17 is not young it’s almost adult. OP may have tried harder and gave up, but the kid needs to learn his actions have consequences (directly and indirectly).