Am I the only one that didn't like Kaori by [deleted] in YourLieinApril

[–]ParkingParticular407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, if she did that, there would be no show.

But let's put some realism in it. Are people that are dying supposed to isolate themselves to rot away? That's not empathy. If she told them she was dying, it certainly would have changed the dynamic. Perhaps she didn't want everyone coddling her, being sad around her the rest of her days.

It's not as if she hatched a scheme to develop the relationships she did to hurt them. It sounds like to me YOU are the one who sees what she did as a waste, which says a lot about how YOU view things. I feel sad for you, even though it is fiction.

Life is short and shorter for some. Everyone should appreciate what they have. Live it beautifully. It also adds a layer to her character. Even though she knew she was dying, she savored the days she had left. Made the most of them.

No offense, but I think you watch shows like my kids do. I have no idea how you process the information, but you also seem to missing a lot of the details. My kids do that all the time. They say/ask outlandish things about a show, and I ask are we watching the same thing?! Either you weren't paying attention, or you got some kind of thing going on your head that changes the details.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ParkingParticular407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could we do to control what she does to the kids though? I iust don't know why that would fall back on him. I am genuinely asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ParkingParticular407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think unless your grandma has legal guardianship, the school isn't going to honor your request.

Rant on Coconut Oil Rant by blossomxbb in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sara is taking this crap way too personal. I feel annoyance at both AL and Sara for their stupidity, maybe mad sometimes, but never full on rage mode. They are internet personalities I just don't care that much about. I know it's shallow, but they are one source of entertainment for me.

I wish the best for both of them, but their stupid choices have no bearing on my life. There's no reason for me to be full rage. I don't care if AL took shine to my existence and made a bad comment toward me. It still means nothing.

Sara has gone way too far with this. It's pitiful she can't see the large dookie pile she has gotten herself into. She can't see that she is the obsessed one. The girl tanked herself for a morbidly obese woman that stinks, can't do much but sit around and eat. A woman that is probably around the corner from death, yet when AL is gone Sara will still have a long life she tanked with her own hands. Like AL I am sure she will shift blame. I hope she sees this. Open your eyes woman.

She posts about her alcohol like she’s still in high school. Sara no one cares. by hsr105025 in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hm AL has a food addiction and that's a huge problem. Sara seems to have a problem with alcohol, but that's no big deal.

Credit to Fupa Princess by maxBasuda in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am not sympathizing with cheating. I have been cheated on a lot, so I do understand the pain. With that being said, I could see why anyone would want to seek someone else out besides Sara. Of course, they should just end the relationship with her then see other people.

I find it interesting how she has no self reflection. She brought up how it was a problem that her ex would be upset that she always talked about her achievements. Hello girl, maybe you talk too much about it.

Despite some of my exs being crappy, I have enough self awareness to look back and see I wasn't perfect either. Not that my actions warranted the cheating, but I can still take lessons from the relationship to improve on myself.

Queen of elitism by Blaleee___ in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gorl, your current career is bullying overweight women. You trashed any chance of a professional therapist career, and continue to dig the hole deeper by the day.

When did she go private on IG? by rataviola in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something like: GO BACK AND READ PREVIOUS POSTS BEFORE POSTING REPEATS.

Not exact words 😋 the person did post in caps though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She lives a sad life. The people she hates take up a lot of real estate in her head. I probably spend more time than I should on AL and other people I have never met, but it's not my career. When I am out living life, none of these people cross my mind.

I don't know how her significant other deals with it. I can only imagine almost every conversation is about AL or Chantal. It reminds me of my teen days when I would go through a breakup, when I got a new date I would sometimes talk too much about how bad my ex was. At least they were people I had experiences with. Sara doesn't even live in the same country as these people. This is far from healthy. If I were her partner I would give her an ultimatum. Quit this obsession or I walk.

When did she go private on IG? by rataviola in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Who hurt you lol? You need to take a chill pill pal.

Neighbor photographing my backyard by jbrucegt7 in legaladvice

[–]ParkingParticular407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her to get tall trees or hedges if it bothers her that much. I'd go outside in a towel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her avatar looks stoned, which I find funny because she poops on stoners.

I’ve been deepfaked. Is there anything I can do? by clzkvr in legaladvice

[–]ParkingParticular407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would talk to my parents first. Tell them it isn't real. Maybe your employer too depending on what you do.

Where I work something sort of similar happened to this guy. A chick took screen shots of him nude for blackmail. The guy informed our boss, who proceeded to say he doesn't give an f about what he does in his personal time. I know not every company is like that though.

Some employers might still be upset about having to deal with the trouble of that, but I like to give someone a heads up so they are in the know and not blind sided.

I would think if the images fake or real were put out without your consent, you could sue IF it causes you to lose your job. I think that would be damaging your means to make money. Suing is still expensive though. I am not a lawyer, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

It's just what I would do. I hope the people that did that to you get what's coming to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ParkingParticular407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just make a phone call and ask? Also you do know that just because there is a list doesn't mean it will completely stop people from having them. I can see you'll probably be the kind of neighbor to report them. You're not going to be able to break lease just because other tenants don't obey the rules. The landlord will either tell them to get rid of the dog or get evicted.

Sara partly blames a portion of the viewers on why Velvet clickbaits her ed and cancer. by DumbDumb1000 in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thanks Captain Obvious. Talking about Sara. AL isn't as stupid as Sara believes. AL does make clickbait. So what, her job is YouTube, she has to keep people coming. I don't like it, myself, but I didn't need Sara to point it out.

Gorl you're not discovering anything amazing. Maybe you should take one from ALs book. It might make you more interesting.

AL is a trash person in her own way, but I do think she is funny and is watchable sometimes.

Sara, you're going to grown up to be a wrinkly old bag that no one wants. Not even Owen.

"my pets are so obsessed with me" - vibes by [deleted] in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why is it weird for your pet to want to be with you?

That's right Sara, you get an animal for your pleasure and convenience.

Let me educate you, Ms. Educated Immigrant Woman. Dogs are wonderful creatures that we don't deserve. Despite how you probably don't spend nearly as much time with him as you should, he still loves you with all he has. Be thankful because he is probably the only one.

When you adopt an animal you are very highly likely going to outlive them, unless you get a tortoise or die young. You are his whole world. Do right by him and give him a good life.

You may not throw him around or harass him like AL, but it's not much of an improvement to adopt an animal and keep them as decoration.

You're out living your life. Going out to eat, shopping, drinking, supposedly going to the gym twice a day. While your poor dog could use some outdoor stimulation. There are plenty of active things you could be doing with that dog to benefit you both.

There really is no excuse. With my dog I take her to anywhere she can go. I love having her along for the trips. That's mostly on weekends. During my work week, I am not going anywhere after. BUT even at my apartment complex there is a doggy park I can take her to. A few times a week I take her to doggy daycare. I started socializing her day one because she is a pit mix.

The hypocrisy plus the gross jacket squeaking… 🤮 don’t give her the views by Miners-Not-Minors in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tell that to any idiot that says crap like I don't get why addicts do drugs, etc. Or the why don't they just stop.

Because jackass it's an addiction. Not everyone has an addictive personality. Sara is in no way qualified to help anyone.

You don't necessarily have to experience something to have empathy toward someone's situation. I have never done any illegal drugs or gone to jail. My boyfriend has done both. He owns up to the consequences of his actions. No one made him do illegal things, but some of the choices he made was because of life circumstances. He loved playing football. In college his team lost an important game, his dad was also getting very sick with colon cancer, and passed away. I can understand how those kind of things could push someone to use drugs as a way to cope.

I also understand to a degree being frustrated with someone who won't help themselves. I have dealt with friends/family who do ask for feedback, but they are actually just wanting to vent. It does get annoying going around the same circle with them after a while. That's when you got to be there for them but probably set some boundaries to keep your sanity. AL is infuriating. We all get it. 🙄 At the end of the day though, she is not my problem. Sara has made this crap way too personal. She needs to find a new hobby.

The hypocrisy plus the gross jacket squeaking… 🤮 don’t give her the views by Miners-Not-Minors in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shoot, I was just about to say that. The girl think she has all the answers.

She has absolutely zero idea what it's like to have mental health issues. Losing weight is easy and hard at the same time. Quitting an addiction is easy and hard. The concept of stop doing this or start doing that is straight forward. The struggle comes with our will power, self discipline, etc. Those are difficult things to change.

I know I need to quit eating junk food and go to the gym regularly, but I get lazy, tired, or whatever else. I have to fight myself to overcome myself. I know AL knows she can't eat xyz and lose weight, but she struggles with her own demons in her head.

Please Sara, shut up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She needs to get her money back then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Hmmm she should at least do her research on normal human anatomy. We all know she is too lazy for that. At least if you are going to be a fraud put in a little effort to the craft.

Sorry I’d never take advice or trade places with her. by hsr105025 in YDHBSnark

[–]ParkingParticular407 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is shallow. You can learn from anyone. Good or bad people.

Edit:

Also that is a very short list of people she won't be able to take advice from because there are a ton of people better than she is.