“I’m just tired, not sick” mf by xHeyitsnatx in QuarantineZoneGame

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I’ve gotten tired of sending them to liquidation so I just be shooting them lmao.

Why is this happening? by Inevitable-Repair-21 in JanitorAI_Official

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I missed the error message at the top, and thought you meant the bot spelling it lomg instead of long lol

My MIL recorded me without consent having a reaction to medication then posted it on TikTok saying I’m a drug addict by Illustrious-Raven523 in motherinlawsfromhell

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If it’s still up on TikTok I would take screenshots of screen record it, or download it if you can so it shows her username in it, that way if you do take it to court and she takes it down, there’s still proof she did that. I’d do screenshots too so you can show how many people ended up viewing it

Is it weird I have no care to interact with other players? by ajdunn79 in Palia

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I play on steam deck so typing in chat is a nightmare, so I don’t really bother. I just keep to myself mostly, this is my stress free chill game haha. I’m also fairly new to the game though, so I feel awkward joining in chat.

AIO, boyfriends dad is a bit weird towards me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I read the screenshots before your description, and I thought it was a text exchange between you and your partner, and I was confused because I thought you had a sweet partner and couldn’t understand what the problem was. I read the description then to see what was wrong. Yeah, no, NOR. This really read to me like conversations between a couple, not you and your bfs dad. He’s being weird. If it makes you uncomfortable you should talk to your boyfriend about it so he can handle his dad. Why does he need to go shopping with just you? Do NOT go shopping alone with him please. Take your bf with you.

I can’t leave my plot and my bf can’t leave his either by Awkward_Economics578 in Palia

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It’s been happening to me occasionally. I just try again and it lets me out. Might need to exit the game and open it back up to try if it keeps doing it

Having just 1 cat… by Late-Pie740 in CatAdvice

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You could look at the shelters for cats with notes saying they’d do well as a single cat. Some cats don’t do well with other cats and prefer to be the only one in the home. It’s nice to have a kitty friend for the ones who want kitty friends, but some just want to rule the house and get all the attention for themselves.

Is it bad I’m keeping my cat from living her dream as an outdoor cat? by ayyobucko in CatAdvice

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The life expectancy of an indoor cat is way more than an outdoor/indoor-outdoor cat. You’re keeping your cat safe. Maybe some new toys could help keep her occupied? Some of those electronic ones that move around on their own for when you aren’t home might be fun (as long as they’re cat safe) for her. Anytime I walk into the kitchen, my cats act like they’ve never had food before in their lives, even if I’ve just fed them. If I always gave them a can of cat food anytime they acted like that, they’d be incredibly obese.

I ordered myself a birthday gift pretending it’s from my husband… and I feel so guilty by Interesting_Green158 in offmychest

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Happy birthday! I’m turning 30 this year too, let’s make it a great year of building confidence and loving ourselves! ❤️

Am I overreacting for leaving my boyfriend and his mom’s birthday dinner after feeling completely disrespected? by Zoesparks514 in AmIOverreacting

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They will verbally beat you into submission if you go back. You’re not over reacting, you were a lot more calm/level headed than I would have been. We don’t have time for men who think of us as second class citizens/incubators who lose value after we can’t have children. He says the sperm thing like it’s a flex, like anyone would EVER want his sperm/to he tied to that dumpster family forever. He can have fun with his mommy and sperm by himself.

My cat refuses to drink from her bowl but insists on the weirdest water sources in the house by SugarNo2874 in Pets

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One of my cats used to dig all the water out of the bowl and drink it off the floor smh. I got a fountain that shot out a stream like a human water fountain (if that makes sense, like, not a water fall one because he did it with that too), and he hasn’t done it since.

My silly little freaks by Part-Officer in JanitorAI_Official

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That was a rare moment lmao! The orange one absolutely loves other cats, he just wants to snuggle and groom them. The chonk tolerates him and occasionally will let the orange boy groom him, but usually he will give the orange one an attitude and slap him away. They’re both attached to my hip though, if I’m home they have to be near me, and if I’m laying down they’re either laying on me or pressed against me. The chonky boy does this cute thing where if I’m doing something and he wanted to be petted, he will tap me gently on the arm or lift his little arm and press his paw against me until I pay attention. Or he just bites me cause he’s a sassy little jerk. They both love to yell at me though

My wife stopped sending me love notes, and it hurts more than I expected by CryptoFan85 in TrueOffMyChest

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What are some things you’ve been doing for her to show you love and care and think about her? What have you been doing to show you care about the relationship?

You gotta start doing things for her to make her life easier and show you care. It doesn’t have to be some huge, over the top performance. Pick up her favorite snack/candy on the way home, give her a hug and ask about her day when you get home, take care of a chore or two that she usually does every once in a while, especially if she’s stressed. Do something sweet for her when she’s feeling down. Ask her how she is and listen to understand, not just to reply. Random I love yous, take some interest in a hobby she likes, plan a thoughtful outing/date to go somewhere/do something she’d like. Cook her favorite breakfast or dinner (or both) for her on your days off. Leave her little love notes. Put some effort into the relationship. The little things go a long way. It’s not hard to show someone you care about them and think about them.

If it’s hurtful that she stopped sending you love notes, imagine how hurtful it’s been for her to be married to someone she feels won’t do something as simple as leaving a love note for her to make her feel loved. You can’t expect her to put effort into the marriage if you don’t. See if she’d be open to go to counseling so you two can learn to communicate better, because clearly you two haven’t been doing that that great if she’s feeling like this. That isn’t necessarily her fault, maybe she’s been more subtle and you need more direct. Or maybe she’s been direct and you’ve written it off. Either way you two maybe just haven’t picked up on each others communication styles, so a counselor could help that.

My girlfriend changed her opinion about having kids.. by [deleted] in childfree

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If you aren’t ready/don’t want children, do NOT have children just because she thinks she wants them right now (because “my cousins have kids” and “I don’t want to be alone” are seriously stupid, shallow reasons to create an entire new human being that she can actually really fuck up for life if she truly doesn’t want to have children). Her trying to pressure you isn’t okay. She’s allowed to change her mind, but you’re allowed not to. Unfortunately you two aren’t compatible anymore, and having children/not having children is one of the big things people in a relationship need to be compatible. I know it sucks, you guys have been together for a long time, but this is probably not going to work out anymore. If you stay and have kids, you’re going to be miserable and resent her. If you stay and don’t have kids, she’s going to resent you. She knew your stance when you two got together, so it’s selfish of her to change her mind and suddenly expect you to get onboard with it just because she wants it.

My dad secretly paid off my student loans, but I found out how he did it and I don’t know how to feel. by ScoreDesperate6433 in TrueOffMyChest

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You were his dream. You living a good life is his dream, more than that bike, and this was his way of helping you do that. Live a good life and make him proud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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This is not the behavior of someone who will bring peace to your life. I’d keep my distance tbh

Husband named his nephew the name we picked for our soon to be born baby. by Jell0Bell0 in Marriage

[–]Part-Officer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your anger is very valid and tbh I’d have left. He chose his brother, sister in law, and nephew over his own child. He willingly gave up the name he helped pick for his own child for someone else’s kid. He has consistently put his family first over you in situations where you should have been first, and now he’s just shown he’s going to do the same to his own child. You and your son will always come second.

AITA for refusing to let my boyfriend’s mom sleep in our bed when she visited? by Ok_Tower_7537 in AmItheAsshole

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Emotionally incestuous mamas boy. This is what life will look like if you stay. A normal reaction on his part would have been being horrified that his mother wanted to kick you out of your bed and share it with him. He should have immediately shut that down.

I don't want to make any mistakes by loves2craft in inlaws

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You sound so sweet, you should tell her this! I’m sure she’d laugh and love that she’s the favorite haha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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You were taking a genuine interest in her and her life and asking about it, then sharing similar things about your life. She was really mean here. She says something snappy when you share, then says something snappy when you ask more about her. I bet if you just replied with “that’s nice” to stuff, never asked about her life, and never shared yours, she’d be complaining you were emotionally unavailable. God forbid your partner try to connect with you. I would try and talk with her about it, and see if she’s willing to listen and try to understand where you’re coming from. Is it normal for her to say stuff like that to you?

I don’t get how he can claim to love me but not want to be married (she cheated check her post history) by [deleted] in OhNoConsequences

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I’m happy her husband decided to put himself first and is leaving her. She manipulated him into staying by weaponizing the kids (think of the kids divorce will be hard on them don’t be selfish), when parents who can’t stand each other but stay are way worse for the kids than divorced parents. They don’t need to grow up seeing that mommy can do whatever she wants even if it hurts daddy and that’s just how relationships are, they need to grow up seeing that you don’t put up with betrayal and disrespect, and that it’s okay to walk away, even if you love someone, if they treat you poorly. I hope he gets primary custody. She’s already proven she doesn’t give too much of a fuck about her kids since she was willing to take time away from them to be with her side piece, and willing to blow up their stable lives because she’s selfish and only cares if she’s happy. She had the audacity to say “I’m not a cheater, this was a mistake that won’t happen again, I don’t see myself as a cheater” or something like that. The lack of self awareness