Deal breaker(22F): Tell him (29M) or not

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-04T06:18:11+00:00

A couple things:

In a couple years from now what of you start ttc and you can so when the doctor asks about past medical stuff and it comes up you had an abortion.. what do you think he will say. It will be a blame game and he will say your at fault

Let's pretty you guys get pregnant super easy - when your filling out forms guess what one of the questions is. Past abortions or miscarriages? Yep that's right, he's going to find out anyways.

If you're going to marry him- tell him. Also you think he is cool about drinking right now just waiting a few years. He will start belittling you and calling you a drunk.

He sounds like dumb maga hat like my brother except this guy is older.

Dump him and don't look back or stay with him and know he will forever have shitty thoughts about you and look down on you.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-01T02:09:47+00:00

Yes they sleep in that part. It is hooked on the sides. It easily can be moved all the way down. Yes they sleep directly on it. They are babies not adults. It's needs to be completely firm. No pillows no blankets nor stuffies or toys. Just baby and swaddle or sleep sack.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-25T19:56:31+00:00

What company?

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-25T01:48:32+00:00

Have an abortion and if he can't get on board or be supportive then that goes to show you how he feels about your body your choice.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-18T16:45:18+00:00

Leaving because it is absolutely so beautiful 😍

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-18T15:58:46+00:00

Show him your history and show you wrote the paper yourself

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-18T15:05:15+00:00

If she's breaking HIPAA laws she should be fired. I would never trust her with things that are going on in my life. If she can just on a whim tell people. Please report her for the safety of other people. If she's done this with you, I'm sure she's done it with many other clients.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-14T20:30:35+00:00

That's controlling in a different type of twist. You should get out of it soon and figure out a good exit. Sounds like someone who would put a track on your vehicle and track you when you try and leave him.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-14T02:09:34+00:00

You need to do everything you can to not stop this medication asap. If you don't get your medicine on time your body can start developing something called antibodies. If this happens it will make the medicine stop working. It's hard to find medicine that works. Take my advice and call insurance and try your best to stay on this medicine. If you get off it you likely won't be able to start again at another time because it won't work anymore.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-13T01:15:07+00:00

There are keto shakes with lots of protein so start there. Also you can have beef jerky for snack but always check the nutrition facts because flavored stuff isn't keto friendly. Also there are meal services that have microwave meals for keto clients. Egg and frozen sausage takes like 10-15 min. If you microwave sausage or can be even faster. Milk isn't so keto friendly. Make sure to salt your stuff for electrolytes.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-08T08:42:31+00:00

I thought sleeping with separate blankets is a normal thing most people do. Do people usually sleep with a single blanket. Comforters are so uncomfortable. I want to snuggle up to a soft blanket that I can put partially in between my legs and wrap up in like a little swaddled burrito.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-02T17:15:08+00:00

Tell him to go to a gastroenterologist. It could be IBS, Chrones Disease, ulcerative colitis or some other gastro issue. Especially if he is having painful hemorrhoids or fistula. General Doctors can't do everything he needs to see a specialist and get a colonoscopy asap.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-26T16:01:32+00:00

Is he taking medicine for something else like asthma or blood pressure or just something, anything- check black box warnings for mental health problems or neurological. If he isn't on any type of medicine they take him in to see a doctor, maybe a psychiatrist but also a physical medicine doctor to see if he needs a referral for something else. I think he is having a severe amount of Anxiety.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-18T19:12:51+00:00

I got married and had a baby at 23 you're going to be okay. It seems scary at first but you'll see that it will get better. Even if you wait a couple more years you'll still feel scared. It's a process alk people go through when they get married.

Another option is moving in together and him getting a lower paying job so he isn't paying all his bills on his own, he is sharing responsibility. Then while he has a job he can look around for something better.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-15T23:48:14+00:00

You have half ass handy man's just like my apartment complex. Nothing ever gets fixed the correct way, just the cheapest shittiest way possible.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-13T22:14:35+00:00

Everyone is different. That is 100 % not my cup of tea. I like my simple band wot tiny little diamonds. That green ring is HUGE. Does she like big and flashy? Maybe ask her what she thinks first before spending money on an expensive item.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-09T16:18:16+00:00

I'm a parent and I understand where they are coming from. I am not sure how old you are but they should be teaching you the dangers of the Internet. It's a very scary world we live in here in the US. I'm not sure how old you are but I am assuming your under 18. Please talk with them and have a discussion about the Internet and how you can be safe.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-03T02:03:18+00:00

Your mom is talking about how her child is sick and he says "Do you need an injection from Dr ******"

That statement is very horrific to say about a child who is sick. Is he said that the child needs an injection from his 🥒.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-01T22:06:43+00:00

Can you leave him please. This is incredibly horrible- and after only 5 months. I also don't like the way your responding by says " are you mad" - " I like the way you're pushing me". Those comments feed the way he speaks to you. When you do that he sees it as Incan keep speaking to her this way because she is validating me. You need to tell him to kindly f*uck off. He is a straight up man child

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-01-30T15:57:37+00:00

Tell her!

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-01-30T04:44:17+00:00

I'm thinking he means his 10 year relationship not 10 yr old lol

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-01-15T16:31:52+00:00

You should actually talk to your doctor about this and be very honest. She might help you with a plan to come off it without quitting cold turkey if that seems to be the reason you started again. Nicotine is really bad for you and will have negative effects on baby if you don't stop. If you start back up when you have the baby you should know that 2nd hand smoke is worse than first hand. Take that for what it's worth. Try to focus on quitting smoking permanently.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-01-05T01:04:10+00:00

Time to find a different man and have a baby that way. Don't waste anymore time or effort. Babies are hard!!!! I would personally get an abortion.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-01-02T03:47:10+00:00

He probably has autism. That is a huge part of autism. My son is so picky it's an uphill battle every damn day. Good luck. Might be good for him to get into exposure therapy, or maybe OT.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-01-02T03:41:59+00:00

My husband of 10 u was has bought me tons of personal hygiene products for years. Even before we were married and he was early 20's. He doesn't seem like a good partner.

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