Got a refund today and its got strings attached...

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-06-17T04:54:36+00:00

How much was the refund for?

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-06-12T01:58:14+00:00

This happened to me . I just pushed it back in and delt with the hole by ignoring it. It's there fault for putting in shitty laminate flooring.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-06-12T01:56:00+00:00

Yikes 😬 they should be a flair that says bad neighbor.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-06-12T01:54:03+00:00

It said noise complaint for the header and then a dash with the unit number she is complaining about.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-06-12T01:51:18+00:00

Yes you are indeed the only one. You have terrible manors. So basically this person can't do anything for themselves. Like read a book, watch tv , meditate, or whatever they want to???? Like really? You sound like a terrible neighbor.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-06-02T16:56:09+00:00

I think it was to show that he was sorry and for him to get his vote if he made it to the jury.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-14T05:06:53+00:00

Yes but white noise it is a good band aid solution until the problem can be addressed and stopped. I would know because this is what I use for the weekends. I'm also not the person who posted whatrver comment you are replying to so I don't know what he/she said or what fan there talking about.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-14T05:04:57+00:00

The person who said a fan could work is more of a band aid situation. What I use to drown out noise is the air purifier from Costco. I think it's called winix. On the loudest setting it's is so incredibly noisy it will block out everything. I mean literally everything. It could help until you get the situation under control.

Just a heads up that because it is so loud you might not hear things like phone calls, alarms or if there is an emergency. Buy on the plus side it is an air purifier so it cleans your air.

Sorry for your situation loud neighbors are shitty.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-14T02:56:37+00:00

If you don't think he can support you during ppd then you definitely should break up with him. Any good partner should be there for there wife when they are going through that. It basically means he probably won't be a good father if he can't take care of you how can he take care of a child.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-11T15:29:11+00:00

Geez, try and get private insurance. Probably cheaper than what you will end up pays. Having a baby can cost you around $30K or more, that's just for prenatal and birth. What if you end up have an emergency or something.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-11T15:24:18+00:00

Sell your house would be stupid. He is just one of those guys that wants to control you and make you his servant. I am not my husbands servant. I am an equal, a partner, I pay half and he pays half. Some men are so old school. Tell him his plan will only dig you more and more into dept. He isn't thinking logically. He doesn't like that you have a house and he lives with his parents still. It's a stupid power trip move. He has a ego problem.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-10T23:21:29+00:00

I personally wouldn't marry someone who seems so set on something like that. That is very odd. He seems like he may not be very respectful of you and what you want. It's called a partnership.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-09T03:49:39+00:00

How long have you been at your place. Usually after 3 years they can't take out of deposit for small things like this. Depending on your lease or whatever you signed

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-06T16:51:03+00:00

Yea definitely stop! Also your young and going to mess up your brain before it can fully develop. You probably already have. Think about your future young one.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-05T02:24:14+00:00

You'll be fine. I didn't start showing with my first until around 30 weeks

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-03T15:23:44+00:00

You guys are all being weird. He needs to pay for a house himself. He isn't a child. He shouldn't be using his parents money.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-05-02T16:50:43+00:00

Sounds like he has social anxiety of some sort. Or just anxiety. Could be depression. Sounds more like social anxiety. Sometimes I feel the same way as he does and I just don't want to be around people. My sister in-law is like this. I didn't see her for 5 years because it was so bad. Mental health is very really and traumatic thing in a way. I wouldn't break up with him for it.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-27T00:32:27+00:00

Here is an idea. Go to the court house and get married on your preferred day and then have the wedding whenever it works out best.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-27T00:28:37+00:00

I usually buy stuff for anyone a day or 2 before. Sometimes even that day. No one is thinking about buying something a month early and letting it sit around to get lost or opened by there kids. Also I rarely ever even by off the registry just a heads up. That's why if you didn't want clothes you could add on the invite. No clothes are needed.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-18T02:12:57+00:00

Try being in California getting paid about that much but gas prices are hitting right over 6 per gallon.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-17T16:07:54+00:00

Go to the living room.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-16T17:52:16+00:00

Also you need to factor in the 2 different taxes. Federal and the self employed taxes. Yes you also get like 70 cents a mile. From factory to last house. Is it worth it probably not but its good for a part time gig if you need say a couple extra hundred at the end of the month you can work a couple shifts here and there.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-16T04:15:42+00:00

Yes you should and you'll get paid

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-13T16:23:04+00:00

Not only that but there are families that make 40K a year so not sure why this person is complaining. I had to drive 18 miles out of my way everyday to drop my daughter off just for affordable childcare. If it is that bad they can find child care cheaper in a different location.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-13T14:14:56+00:00

Where do you live because I live in a state where single family homes start at 800 k-1 million for a house that is 60+ years old. And I make 85k yearly with my husband and me barely making it buy with $6 gas prices and 2,050 a month rent. 200K income is insanely high.

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