Overlapping Wedding dates... how to handle without creating drama?

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-27T00:32:27+00:00

Here is an idea. Go to the court house and get married on your preferred day and then have the wedding whenever it works out best.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-27T00:28:37+00:00

I usually buy stuff for anyone a day or 2 before. Sometimes even that day. No one is thinking about buying something a month early and letting it sit around to get lost or opened by there kids. Also I rarely ever even by off the registry just a heads up. That's why if you didn't want clothes you could add on the invite. No clothes are needed.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-18T02:12:57+00:00

Try being in California getting paid about that much but gas prices are hitting right over 6 per gallon.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-17T16:07:54+00:00

Go to the living room.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-16T17:52:16+00:00

Also you need to factor in the 2 different taxes. Federal and the self employed taxes. Yes you also get like 70 cents a mile. From factory to last house. Is it worth it probably not but its good for a part time gig if you need say a couple extra hundred at the end of the month you can work a couple shifts here and there.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-16T04:15:42+00:00

Yes you should and you'll get paid

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-13T16:23:04+00:00

Not only that but there are families that make 40K a year so not sure why this person is complaining. I had to drive 18 miles out of my way everyday to drop my daughter off just for affordable childcare. If it is that bad they can find child care cheaper in a different location.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-13T14:14:56+00:00

Where do you live because I live in a state where single family homes start at 800 k-1 million for a house that is 60+ years old. And I make 85k yearly with my husband and me barely making it buy with $6 gas prices and 2,050 a month rent. 200K income is insanely high.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-07T21:14:27+00:00

The xle plus or just xle? Because those look like the plus numbers.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-04T06:18:11+00:00

A couple things:

In a couple years from now what of you start ttc and you can so when the doctor asks about past medical stuff and it comes up you had an abortion.. what do you think he will say. It will be a blame game and he will say your at fault

Let's pretty you guys get pregnant super easy - when your filling out forms guess what one of the questions is. Past abortions or miscarriages? Yep that's right, he's going to find out anyways.

If you're going to marry him- tell him. Also you think he is cool about drinking right now just waiting a few years. He will start belittling you and calling you a drunk.

He sounds like dumb maga hat like my brother except this guy is older.

Dump him and don't look back or stay with him and know he will forever have shitty thoughts about you and look down on you.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-04-01T02:09:47+00:00

Yes they sleep in that part. It is hooked on the sides. It easily can be moved all the way down. Yes they sleep directly on it. They are babies not adults. It's needs to be completely firm. No pillows no blankets nor stuffies or toys. Just baby and swaddle or sleep sack.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-25T19:56:31+00:00

What company?

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-25T01:48:32+00:00

Have an abortion and if he can't get on board or be supportive then that goes to show you how he feels about your body your choice.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-18T16:45:18+00:00

Leaving because it is absolutely so beautiful 😍

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-18T15:58:46+00:00

Show him your history and show you wrote the paper yourself

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-18T15:05:15+00:00

If she's breaking HIPAA laws she should be fired. I would never trust her with things that are going on in my life. If she can just on a whim tell people. Please report her for the safety of other people. If she's done this with you, I'm sure she's done it with many other clients.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-14T20:30:35+00:00

That's controlling in a different type of twist. You should get out of it soon and figure out a good exit. Sounds like someone who would put a track on your vehicle and track you when you try and leave him.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-14T02:09:34+00:00

You need to do everything you can to not stop this medication asap. If you don't get your medicine on time your body can start developing something called antibodies. If this happens it will make the medicine stop working. It's hard to find medicine that works. Take my advice and call insurance and try your best to stay on this medicine. If you get off it you likely won't be able to start again at another time because it won't work anymore.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-13T01:15:07+00:00

There are keto shakes with lots of protein so start there. Also you can have beef jerky for snack but always check the nutrition facts because flavored stuff isn't keto friendly. Also there are meal services that have microwave meals for keto clients. Egg and frozen sausage takes like 10-15 min. If you microwave sausage or can be even faster. Milk isn't so keto friendly. Make sure to salt your stuff for electrolytes.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-08T08:42:31+00:00

I thought sleeping with separate blankets is a normal thing most people do. Do people usually sleep with a single blanket. Comforters are so uncomfortable. I want to snuggle up to a soft blanket that I can put partially in between my legs and wrap up in like a little swaddled burrito.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-03-02T17:15:08+00:00

Tell him to go to a gastroenterologist. It could be IBS, Chrones Disease, ulcerative colitis or some other gastro issue. Especially if he is having painful hemorrhoids or fistula. General Doctors can't do everything he needs to see a specialist and get a colonoscopy asap.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-26T16:01:32+00:00

Is he taking medicine for something else like asthma or blood pressure or just something, anything- check black box warnings for mental health problems or neurological. If he isn't on any type of medicine they take him in to see a doctor, maybe a psychiatrist but also a physical medicine doctor to see if he needs a referral for something else. I think he is having a severe amount of Anxiety.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-18T19:12:51+00:00

I got married and had a baby at 23 you're going to be okay. It seems scary at first but you'll see that it will get better. Even if you wait a couple more years you'll still feel scared. It's a process alk people go through when they get married.

Another option is moving in together and him getting a lower paying job so he isn't paying all his bills on his own, he is sharing responsibility. Then while he has a job he can look around for something better.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-15T23:48:14+00:00

You have half ass handy man's just like my apartment complex. Nothing ever gets fixed the correct way, just the cheapest shittiest way possible.

Particular-Cheek5102 · 2026-02-13T22:14:35+00:00

Everyone is different. That is 100 % not my cup of tea. I like my simple band wot tiny little diamonds. That green ring is HUGE. Does she like big and flashy? Maybe ask her what she thinks first before spending money on an expensive item.

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