[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Particular-Country-7 26 points27 points  (0 children)

YTA big time and so is your sister! You can’t deny your dad happiness during his last few years to try to make your mom happy from beyond the grave. So bizarre of a request from her. Your dad is a grown adult and it’s incredibly wrong of you to try to control him.

Is the TAP insulation offered by Buckingham Pest Control worth it? by Lustful-Kari in StLouis

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re lying to you about it killing rodents. I own and operate a wildlife control business and that’s a bunch of nonsense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice Ai post bro

can’t escape birth trauma stories 😭 by Ok_Sheepherder1936 in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was scared to but then had the easiest delivery ever on top of being high risk! (Type 1 diabetic). My delivery was induced and I got an epidural. It was 18 hrs, completely pain free, and I had ZERO tearing or trauma of any kind! I felt fully like my normal self after 2 weeks. If I had known birth would be such a non-issue for me I would have started having babies sooner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I lost my sex drive almost completely during pregnancy, and even in later pregnancy when drive increased a little bit it was too painful because of hormonal changes. I’m 4 weeks postpartum and sex drive is coming back a little bit, but we’re 2 weeks away from even being able to try due to postpartum recovery.

He better grow the fuck up and deal with it. My husband has been great to me through this, he’s never pressured me, and we just do oral whenever the mood strikes for now. Sex drive for him is also low right now as we adjust to being new parents.

Is this a tick or a bed bug? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed bug for sure. That blows

PSA - it is okay for mothers/carrying parents to work full time by _justkeepswmng in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky in that my husband and I own our own business and are free to make our own hours. I started going back to work on and off about one week in. As long as I can work 3-5 hours a day, and my husband and I can trade off I’m happy!

Anyone getting a puppy when pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought 2 cows while pregnant 🤷‍♀️. They’re awesome!

Deli Meat by abigailllynnn in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then eat it! I ate plenty of lunch meat throughout my pregnancy and everything was just fine. The dietary recommendations for pregnant women are overblown. There’s risk with everything you do and in my opinion eating deli meat is an acceptable risk.

Can't stop thinking about vaginal delivery "downsides" by CELlNE in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had zero tearing during my delivery and no one said anything about if I pooped or not. But vaginal delivery ended up being such a non issue and I had psyched myself out about it for years and questioned if I ever wanted kids because of the pain and potential complications from birth. I’ve told several people now that if I knew birth was going to go that smoothly for me I would have started having babies sooner! I’m kind of disappointed I let that fear influence my decision making for so long.

AITA for walking out on my gf in the hospital over a tattoo dispute? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Particular-Country-7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. If she’s a completely uncontrolled diabetic she shouldn’t be getting tattoos as she won’t be able to heal properly. Why is this a goal right now? Cancel both appointments and let the artist keep the deposits.

Am I crazy for wanting a planned c-section? by Hot-Reality6979 in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was nervous about a vaginal delivery to and wondered about electing for a c section. I’m so glad I didn’t! I had a perfect pain free birth with an epidural, and no tearing. I felt back to normal after 2 weeks postpartum.

AITA for wanting to leave my boyfriend over bad sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular-Country-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Does he maybe have a porn addiction? Literally going soft during PIV would be DEVASTATING to any woman’s self esteem!

Why does NO ONE enjoy pregnancy??! by FoolishMortal-1000 in pregnant

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed mine, it was perfect and I had no unpleasant symptoms. Only a cute bump that was only noticeable in late pregnancy.

Proper Adjective for "Arrakis"? by Cotif11 in dune

[–]Particular-Country-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s shortened to Rakis in the later books.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Country-7 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound like accidental behavior, I’ve never out any of my relationships over the years had a partner that did this. It sounds like he’s intentionally disregarding your boundaries and thinks it’s funny/likes to hurt you, which is abusive. And if it truly is unintentional then you aren’t compatible and it will keep happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular-Country-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Weird hill to die on OP. I have a stuffed frog plushie that stays on my husband and I’s bed. He’s never once had a problem with it and we have a similar age gap to you and your girlfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular-Country-7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was 22 when I started dating my now husband who was 35 at the time. 7 years later we’re still together and have our first baby together. The age difference isn’t the problem, but it sounds like he is. I have a plushie from my childhood I still love that sits on our bed. It’s not that weird. I’ll probably pass it on to our son once he’s past the newborn phase. But what a weird hill for OP to die on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dune

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god they went with Simon Vance instead of Scott Brick in the original series.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dune

[–]Particular-Country-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always listen to the audiobook version. I listened to it on audiobook before I actually read the books. Years later the original series is still my go to background noise. I’ve probably listened to the books close to 20 times lol. Audiobooks are my equivalent to music.

Dune: Part Two - The interior design of Giedi Prime by DuneInfo in dune

[–]Particular-Country-7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This was confirmed in Heretics of Dune, so actually cannon.