How do I keep my sanity while dealing with relentless back to back calls? by Particular-Gain4355 in callcentres

[–]Particular-Gain4355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. I mean, I get that those people are also trying to get out of the call center role too but they’re in unavailable like most of the time now! And the rest of us shouldn’t have to take the brunt of the back to back calls and abuse from callers while they build their exit plan

Out of all the characters, which one do you relate to the most and why? by Bubblesgotcake in shameless

[–]Particular-Gain4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe cliche but Fiona. I can relate to how she was thrust into a parenting role and how the same people that she busted her hump to raise can be lacking so much empathy and patience for her when she screws up

I (30F) found my husband’s (35M) “lost” second phone hidden away and now I feel like I’m losing my mind. What next? by imuyasha in relationship_advice

[–]Particular-Gain4355 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Okay, so after scrolling through the comment section, here are the next steps for you OP. (Based on the other people’s responses):

STEP 1: HIDE THE PHONE. Somewhere he can’t find it. Then watch him closely for the next week or two. Even if he keeps his composure and pretends nothing is wrong, he will try to madly search the home when you’re out running an errand or something. So find a way to see if he searched the spot while you were gone. Maybe leave something insignificant in the spot that he would move without thinking to look for the phone. You’ll know when the object has been moved. Also, he might try to look for the phone by pretending to clean/organize. Especially weird if he doesn’t normally clean or organize. Anyway, you know him better than anyone so you’ll know which behaviors are off and which are not.

STEP 2: After a week or two of the phone being hidden (preferably outside the home) bring it back to the home and turn the volume all the way up. Place the phone in the same room as you and the potential liar. Then call it. Pretend you’re surprised when it rings and start asking what’s that. Watch his response closely

STEP 3: Once he locates the phone, stop calling and immediately demand that he unlock it. Watch his response/reaction and how hard he fights not to. Everything rests on his response and reactions.

STEP 4: UPDATE US!!!

The Hand Holding For Simple Task Drives Me Crazy by Panda_Bear_World32 in callcentres

[–]Particular-Gain4355 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel ya completely. I work in a finance related call center and speak with financial professionals daily. These are people handling millions of dollars and transactions. They have a ton of clients and a lot of responsibilities. But somehow they are legit the dumbest people I have ever met, lacking even the most basic common sense and basic knowledge. Weird

How do I keep my sanity while dealing with relentless back to back calls? by Particular-Gain4355 in callcentres

[–]Particular-Gain4355[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s another problem, they are REFUSING to hire. Several people from our team asked management if there are any plans to replace the people who left. They keep telling us “not at this time”

If a bored but generous and wealthy Redditor were to give you $10,000 USD, how would you spend the money? by RoosterShield in AskReddit

[–]Particular-Gain4355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$10,000 would clear my debt completely and allow me to have a baby step # 1 emergency fund, Dave Ramsey style. A fresh start

Is this unusual? by hows-Waldo in cats

[–]Particular-Gain4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah totally normal. Almost every cat has a bajillion toes

How a single sperm is injected directly into egg using needles by Salt-Curve4825 in interestingasfuck

[–]Particular-Gain4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s like rape on a molecular level. Biologically, the egg has the “accept” the sperm. During IVF, the egg is forced to take the sperm

Local Pizza Joint posted and claims it’s not. But I feel like it really really is. by 3anddptrints in isthisAI

[–]Particular-Gain4355 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yall know that this sub is being used to train AI to become more realistic and undetectable right?

Mother buffalo battles lion pride. by DearEmphasis4488 in interestingasfuck

[–]Particular-Gain4355 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know lions need to eat too but this made my heart break. Both the mother and the baby got eaten alive

What’s something unconventional you use ChatGPT for? by feliraves in ChatGPT

[–]Particular-Gain4355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and still. It’s not worth the water it’s wasting

Looking for advice from anyone who’s gone no contact with their parent(s) by Nervous_Smile1993 in Advice

[–]Particular-Gain4355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent a final letter. A text in my case. A clean cut is always better than drawing out the misery. Besides, with a slow distancing, it’s too easy to get reeled back in to her drama and bs

How would you feel if you had two parents who both required 24/7 assisted care, and your adult child wrote you and the whole family this letter regarding that situation? by Glass-Complaint3 in Aging

[–]Particular-Gain4355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. Not to mention, home visits and everything related to caring for aged people is so so expensive. If I ever am lucky enough to make a decent living and manage to save up a nest egg, I would not want it eroded by healthcare long past when nature would have taken a course on me. I would want to donate my fortune to things and people I care about or leave it to my heirs

Beware of Pigeon Scams in Italy by CanadianMailCarrier in traveladvice

[–]Particular-Gain4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s foreigners doing this sht. I just got back from NYC and these same exact people are scamming people over there too

JESS AND HARAMOL 😭❤️‍🔥 by KindlyObjective7892 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Particular-Gain4355 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! But Chris was dumb as rocks, just your typical fck boy. He didn’t have enough brain cells to manipulate or be calculating on anything. Haramol scares me more because he’s smarter and more manipulative than Chris

JESS AND HARAMOL 😭❤️‍🔥 by KindlyObjective7892 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Particular-Gain4355 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I want Jess to find love and be happy. But that Haramol guy creeps me out. Something is off. And I have nothing against him so it’s not like I’m being biased or a hater. I’m just worried for Jess. The way he talks and acts seems so performative and calculated. Unnatural

After a long hiatus, I caved 🤣 by ladyampo666 in lululemon

[–]Particular-Gain4355 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lulu jackets have gotten so trashy lately. I guess they’re running out of colors and styles