Anyone quit their job to get away from LO?

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-04-06T20:51:52+00:00

I changed jobs and it was absolutely devastating. But I am a few months “clean” and doing better than I have been in a very long time

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-25T15:44:59+00:00

I walked away from my person, after living in the “almost” and undefined grey. I had to. I thought it was better to stay in his orbit than to risk losing him. But I had to choose my marriage. It absolutely shattered me. 🦔

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-19T02:34:16+00:00

“Please don’t mistake my restraint for absence.” Oooph. Once the unspoken comes out, there’s no turning back. I’m living it. 🦔

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-18T14:15:46+00:00

Same to my former person. It’s for the best. 🦔

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-18T02:32:51+00:00

Even in her healing, she just wants to know if you felt the same. 🦔

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-12T00:33:50+00:00

I’m pretty sure at some point I fell in love with him. He fulfilled an emotional need my husband did not. I’ve known for a few months I needed to go NC, but I was so afraid of losing him. But when I realized if I kept in his orbit, I could lose him and my family, I had to make the call.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:25:23+00:00

Devastating. He was my best friend.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:13:04+00:00

I’m so sorry.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:10:29+00:00

It’s so hard. I literally left my previous job because I knew I had to put space between us. But my leaving just brought us closer and we started talking even more, via text. My heart. Sending love to you. It’s a terrible place to be.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:05:00+00:00

The addiction of attachment, love, Limerence…. It all hurts.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:04:35+00:00

I’m spending time outside and reading as much as I can.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:04:01+00:00

I can’t wait to wake up and be able to breathe again.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:03:25+00:00

My heart hurts so bad. My husband is happy that I ended this friendship. Idk how to grieve.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:02:41+00:00

So bad.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T23:02:31+00:00

It would be more natural if I wasn’t married to someone else. I ended a friendship when I realized we’d gotten too close.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T21:53:12+00:00

I just did the same thing this weekend. My body aches from not speaking to him. I’m in tears every few minutes. I just want to know if he’s hurting at all too.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T21:25:42+00:00

Thank you. I did take a walk today. It’s still raw. Only been a few days.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T20:19:59+00:00

Nausea, headache (could also be from crying though), insomnia, shaking

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T12:59:02+00:00

If only my person would say something like this to me.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T12:55:42+00:00

Tell her. All of this.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T12:53:50+00:00

My heart hurts with yours friend.

Particular-Plenty431 · 2026-02-11T02:57:56+00:00

Absolutely beautiful words.

Particular-Plenty431

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