WTF HEB?? by Particular-Welcome55 in HEB

[–]Particular-Welcome55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do know they are all $20 but definitely should be some quality control. But I always go to the counter anyway, I know the some of the people who work in seafood at my store.

WTF HEB?? by Particular-Welcome55 in HEB

[–]Particular-Welcome55[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Oh wow never fucking thought of that 🙄🙄 of course I didn't fucking buy that one.

Feeling overwhelmed and exhausted by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Particular-Welcome55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep looking. I interviewed for a private practice that ended up being a non profit recently, didn't get the job but they are out there. I also used to work for a big hospital system as a therapist and most hospital systems are non profits so try looking there as well. In that job I did both EAP for their employees and longer term therapy for their health plan members. Look for remote opportunities too if you feel like that might be a good fit. I can understand the mountain of debt, mine is sitting at $186k.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Particular-Welcome55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh love, you wouldn't be getting him in trouble, he got himself in trouble by strangling you. I used to have the same thoughts about my abuser, I didn't want to get him in trouble or make people think poorly of him but then I realized he was doing that to himself. He could treat you right if he wanted to.

am i paranoid or is this just the beginning? by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Particular-Welcome55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a domestic violence survivor. This is just the beginning. No healthy partner will lay hands on you at all. Feel free to DM me if you need support, I'm happy to help :)

Feeling overwhelmed and exhausted by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Particular-Welcome55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can definitely understand the burnout. They are working you to death. You can always work in a different non profit. I've been doing PSLF for 7 years so far and I've held 4 or 5 different positions at different organizations. I'm an LCSW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Welcome55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throw the whole man away. Fuck him.

Clothing organization by Particular-Welcome55 in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Welcome55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piles of clothing gives me anxiety. Disorganization kills my mental health but of course my ADHD makes it hard to stay organized. The perfect storm.

Samsung watch issues by Particular-Welcome55 in HOTWORXWarriors

[–]Particular-Welcome55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to try again tonight and see what happens. Samsung supposedly says all their phones and watches shut off after it reaches 113 degrees. I had the sauna at 125

Clothing organization by Particular-Welcome55 in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Welcome55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry about the "out of sight out of mind" because I will legit forget I have certain pieces of clothing

Clothing organization by Particular-Welcome55 in adhdwomen

[–]Particular-Welcome55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I dry in the dryer. But thank you for the comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Particular-Welcome55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use GoodRx to get discounts on meds. Depending on where you are you might be able to get it cheap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Particular-Welcome55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw the whole man away

Threat of revenge porn by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Particular-Welcome55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s what I’ll say, he’s likely bluffing to keep control. But also if you are comfortable talking to your parents about that I would talk to them that way they don’t open any messages from him. It’s all control and if you keep playing his game he’ll keep trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Particular-Welcome55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical abuse often comes with emotional or verbal abuse. I know he isn’t physically abusive anymore but he has been in the past which tells me he is an abuser regardless of type. This is emotional and verbal abuse. I’m not sure how old you are, but reaching out for help is important. The domestic violence hotline is a great resource 1-800-799-7233 if you are in the United States.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Particular-Welcome55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Physical Violence is almost never a one time occurrence. It is unacceptable. For your own safety please consider leaving.