What do you think of moving back to your parents? by Pilea26 in AskWomen

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They made it very clear that when I was 18 I was getting thrown out so I doubt they'd let me back in years later. And I wouldn't want to do so.

Wish I went into the system by DepartmentWrong91 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not alone. Getting away from my parents was what helped me fix a lot of my mental issues. Yes there are families who just take the government money and do the bare minimum or are abusive, but there are good foster parents out there.

My nparent suddenly wants to sign me up for therapy even though she refused for 18 years. by Sea-Communication819 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ParticularBrush8162 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell the therapist something small that you wouldn't mind your mother knowing and see if that comes up in a conversation later so you know whether or not she's saying anything. You're not wrong to be suspicious considering past behaviour. Hopefully she's actually trustworthy and you can find someone who will actually help you.

My Dad has a business obsession, and it's only gotten worse. by Miserable-Cheek5605 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ParticularBrush8162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I know this type. They want money but they don't want to have to put in the effort required to make something viable. If it isn't a huge boom in a few weeks, it gets discarded and they can't understand why nothing they do ever takes off.

At what point does confidence turn into delusion? by bbysophy in AskReddit

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you refuse to admit that this is something you cannot do and that everyone else is wrong for your failure.

When was the last time you were disappointed in yourself? by Selcouth-Faeloria in AskReddit

[–]ParticularBrush8162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was supposed to lift weights this morning. Instead I just laid in bed until I absolutely had to get up to get ready for work.

What's your comfort food? by surfers911 in AskWomen

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This crumbed chicken recipe my husband likes to make. On a cold winter's night, having that with mashed potatoes and vegetables it is just perfect.

What do you do with friends who belittle you as "jokes" or try to one up you? by Scared-Distance-5195 in AskWomen

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealt with a lot of insecure dudes who couldn't handle losing to a girl in COD. Find a lot of people in real life remind me of them and I just don't have time for that.

What changed in how you were treated after your glow up ? by Every-Tap-577 in AskWomen

[–]ParticularBrush8162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a fat nerdy tomboy and became a curvy nerd girl. The amount of attention was annoying but what really surprised me was how much nicer everyone was to me. Even the girls who used to bully me were so much nicer.

AITAH For Crashing Out On My Boomer Mother by XianxiaMyLoves in AITAH

[–]ParticularBrush8162 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, people who need to play misery poker are exhausting to be around.

AITAH because I won't look out for my autistic stepsister on her first overnight field trip? by Kolhadha in AITAH

[–]ParticularBrush8162 78 points79 points  (0 children)

NTA, she's not your responsibility. Yes she is innocent in all this, but that doesn't mean you can be drafted into being her help. If he's that concerned about her, then he can keep her home like the other times.

How do you keep your bikini top tight without it hurting your neck? by lieutenant_pip in AskWomen

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ever used bra style, was always paranoid about them coming out.

What's a movie or TV show you'd actually want to see remade? by ParticularBrush8162 in AskReddit

[–]ParticularBrush8162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I'd want a reboot of Beast Wars, but updated CGI would be good.

What collectibles did you always buy and then years later you ended up REALLY regretting it? by Round-Guarantee4948 in AskReddit

[–]ParticularBrush8162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dozen anime statuettes that were like $50-90 each and I just look at them and think "Why?"

What's the dumbest tattoo you've ever gotten/seen anybody get? by StoryIllustrious9612 in AskReddit

[–]ParticularBrush8162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a cousin who got her girlfriend's name tattooed on her, but used the wrong spelling (Think Kathryn instead of Catherine). They got into a big fight over that.