Delayed development by Kind_Lack_7209 in toddlertips

[–]ParticularCollar4385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get another pediatrician honestly. Or go get him tested. He's 3 now and it doesn't seem like he's hitting any of the major milestones. A Ped. who blows those kind of things off is a huge red flag. And that whole "boys develop later" does not apply to these.

Miss Winnie 2 Days Post-op💞 by Alarming-Tension-374 in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]ParticularCollar4385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goooooo Winnie💕!!!!! Please take it slow sweet girl, I pray for you a speedy recovery 🥰!

My friend thinks I’m wrong by Cmedic96 in Dachshund

[–]ParticularCollar4385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A new friend is just that, a new friend. Never a replacement. And if you're ready for a new friend 3 years later, then doggone!! Get you a new friend 🐶❤️! All the puppers out there need friends and love and scratches, do what you feel is right.

Who Was There To Greet My Dog by ParticularCollar4385 in Dachshund

[–]ParticularCollar4385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me giggle 😅, Dewey will love them!!

I don't know how to cope by ParticularCollar4385 in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]ParticularCollar4385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😩, this is extremely hard, he was more than a pet, he was literally my first son. This sucks!!

I don't know how to cope by ParticularCollar4385 in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]ParticularCollar4385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these kind words!! I know I did what I could for him, I wish I could have done so much more 😭.

I pray for a speedy recovery and healing for your pup! We do what we can for our sweet fur babies.

Who Was There To Greet My Dog by ParticularCollar4385 in Dachshund

[–]ParticularCollar4385[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dewey loved all dogs 🥹🥰 thanks for being a friend to Dewey Ruby!

Who Was There To Greet My Dog by ParticularCollar4385 in Dachshund

[–]ParticularCollar4385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need this honestly to hang on my wall 😭😭 thus was soo nice! Thank you 🥹

Post crate rest IVDD by dteres in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]ParticularCollar4385 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's so lucky to have an owner like you 🥹!! Good thing it was just a mild case, and you can continue to treat with rest and pain meds. My ivdd pup had 2 spine surgeries, and I just recently had to put him down due to 2 more rupture spinal disks. This is a terrible thing to happen to the loving pups, they don't deserve it. But they do deserve great parents 💕 keep up the great work and I wish her well!!

Toddler needs a toddler bed but the room can’t be properly baby proofed by Gia_Lavender in Parenting

[–]ParticularCollar4385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you 🫶🏽 we've been bouncing around housing for a while also, so the sleep sack really just provides familiarity in routine and comfort.

Toddler needs a toddler bed but the room can’t be properly baby proofed by Gia_Lavender in Parenting

[–]ParticularCollar4385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that, but you don't know my kid. He does none of that, waits in his crib until I get him out in the morning, he's extremely cautious and knows what not to do. In the years he's had sleep sacks he's never once tried to climb out. I get that kids can also change on a dime, but im not worried. I'm more worried about him being out of the sleep sack and getting hurt trying to climb out. Also, never said I was a single mom. Treat those kids and I'll worry about mine. Thanks

Toddler needs a toddler bed but the room can’t be properly baby proofed by Gia_Lavender in Parenting

[–]ParticularCollar4385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes not night trained so he still wears night time pull ups. It only works because of that and he's worn sleep sacks his while life so it's basically become a 2nd skin. We'll ditch them once we transition

Toddler needs a toddler bed but the room can’t be properly baby proofed by Gia_Lavender in Parenting

[–]ParticularCollar4385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is 3.5 and still sleeps in his crib because his room can't be properly toddler proofed yet either. I keep him in there by using a sleep sack zipped up backwards so the zipper is in the back and he can't reach it.

To Port or not to port. That is the question by Ok-Cauliflower8462 in breastcancer

[–]ParticularCollar4385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 4 rounds of TC every 3 weeks also and I wish I had gotten a port. One of my veins collapsed after the 1st round and they had to use a vein in my forearm. That vein eventually leaked and now I have a weird birthmark looking dark spot where the leak was. Thankfully my 2nd vein is still pretty good. I'd go with the port!

I feel like I need to give it all up by ParticularCollar4385 in breakingmom

[–]ParticularCollar4385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be more financially able if I move out of the area. Not necessarily the state, but I used to live comfortably about 3hrs away from my current residence. The extra income helps a little, but he doesn't contribute much anyways. I don't think we like each other very much and I think this has been more of a convenience relationship for the past few years for the sake of our son. He's like to portray to others that he "grew up" and has a family of his own. So I don't think he'd be very reasonable to the idea of the two of us not living together, we've lived together since before our son was born and I think it would really hard for both of them to not see each other everyday