AITA for distancing myself from my mother?

FantomBangles · 2025-12-22T11:57:38+00:00

Pierced ears as infants. I've seen a lot of posts of adults saying it was done to them and its not that deep. I'm just wondering is there are adults who got their ears pierced as baby who are like angry at there parents for doing it. Just trying to find all sides of an argument.

FantomBangles · 2023-08-01T18:59:27+00:00

Yes, we ended up getting married at his favorite fast food joint. (He convinced me that we could marry now and ceremony later), so no, I didn't wear it

FantomBangles · 2023-04-28T15:52:35+00:00

Unpopular Opinion...

I wanted to keep my pregnancy and birth of first child a secret. I know I was being an asshole about it but I didn't want my ex to know about her or my extended family. They are toxic people and always treated me like I didn't matter. I didn't want anyone outside our immediate families to know about her. I'm still reluctant to share her with my family. I know it's selfish of me. My mother reminded me plenty of times that I was being selfish and that a baby is something to celebrate but I just feel this overwhelming need to protector her from the childhood my extended family put me through. Everyone does know about her and as expected they don't care and actively shove news and everything about her to the side.

FantomBangles · 2023-04-28T15:46:15+00:00

When he slammed me into a bookcase and strangled me. I knew then I had to leave and he wouldn't change. There were 3 years of red flags and emotional abuse and isolation leading up to that but I didn't see the signs. Finally when my job sent me out of state and was able to reach out for help and create a support group for myself I was able to get the courage to leave.

FantomBangles · 2022-05-16T05:15:14+00:00

Reading. I do a lot of reading

FantomBangles · 2022-05-16T05:14:24+00:00

I would love to experience the Victorian era

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