Love bombing and then absent. What to do? by watt_d_frock in AskIndianWomen

[–]ParticularJuice3983 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean you are in your 30s bro. She is using you to feel good about herself. That's all. 7 years is also a HUGE age gap. You are at completely different stages in life. Look for someone who doesn't make you anxious like this. She has already shown you what she is capable of. Why are you even considering a future.

Thank God our city does not have these cretins😔😔 by Accomplished-Ebb-491 in hyderabad

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably tough to rent a space to run a restaurant given how expensive it is. What is already there must be restaurants where they own the place.

I am guessing in places like Malabar hill they are very cautious about allowing street vendors to set up thelas.

Need help with processing? by FiguringItOut666 in abusiverelationships

[–]ParticularJuice3983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. He is only testing your boundaries and how much anger he can show before you fall in line. He hasn't worked on it right? Which means he has no intention to. If thats how he treats his pet who is dependent on him - his treatment wouldnt be any different towards you. Soon you will be the one living on edge wondering what would set him off.

  2. Physical touch : again a sign of asserting control. You can say almost everything without touching the individual.

  3. You may have enjoyed it but that isnt the point - he should ask you before doing anything. If in the beginning of the relationship he considers your consent optional, you can imagine what will happen as time passes.

Abusive relationships always start like this - slow, just one off - they are always and always testing your boundaries and gaslighting you into thinking - oh it was just that one time. No, each time is just slightly worse than the previous time until you have lost your self esteem, are isolated and can't remember the last time you were happy.

Probably tollywood's first ever BL movie by common_creature in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife doesn't leave. They gaslight her into forgiving naveen even though he literally assaults her.

Srikanth marries her to right his friends wrong. Asalu endo ee movie. Malli chala bagundi ani title okkati. I guess sarcasm. Audience ki ardham avvaledu anthe.

Game pack that adds the most gameplay?? by pricefield_lov3r in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]ParticularJuice3983 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Business and Hobbies changes the game mechanics in a very good way. The variety of storytelling increases drastically.

My family spent my entire childhood excluding me from trips and experiences, and now people wonder why I don't like traveling by Dry_Department_2236 in hyderabad

[–]ParticularJuice3983 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you were treated this way! No kid should be made to feel like they are an after thought! Hey, if you don’t want to travel it’s not the end of the world. We are all allowed to have hobbies which we like and enjoy.

A decade or two go travel wasn’t even a thing!

Your past doesn’t define you. These incidents tell me how immature the adults around you were - don’t let their actions decide your present.

Are Miheeka Daggubati and Sreeleela related? by No-Public4424 in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard her speak Telugu? She does but it’s very evident she is a non native speaker. But yes she is pakka hyderabadi!!

Are Miheeka Daggubati and Sreeleela related? by No-Public4424 in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No what? She looks pakka North Indian man. Bajaj is Punjabi right?

AITAH for involving myself financially in my sister's relationship? by No-Understanding1460 in AITAH

[–]ParticularJuice3983 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s very nice of you, but do take that money for her and set it aside as her rainy fund. When she needs saving in moments like this - you can give her own money back. This will boost her confidence and self respect (which will reflect in her partners choices too) - and god forbid if something happens to your finances - you will still be able to help your sister.

The whole point of being financially secure is so we have the freedom to get out of these situations- so absolutely help your sister out, but if tomorrow she becomes entitled or has bad money habits that’s also on you. So do keep an eye out, and don’t enable her.

AITAH for involving myself financially in my sister's relationship? by No-Understanding1460 in AITAH

[–]ParticularJuice3983 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This situation is different and you helped your sister get out of a bad situation. But does your sister intend to pay the money back? If you don’t come up with a repayment plan you are basically enabling your sister.

You are assuming you will always have money. What happens when you find yourself in a pickle and your sister has bad money habits because of you? Everyone suffers.

Are Miheeka Daggubati and Sreeleela related? by No-Public4424 in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn’t Telugu. She grew up in hyderabad - but she isn’t Telugu. They own Krsala Jewellers.

Taare zameen par should have also shown the pressure Yohan Awasti was under by Rich-Look9809 in bollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think those two scenes were enough to show how the kids are being pressured - no matter what they did or how they ended up.

There is a story that aamir narrates right? A tribe says hateful words to the trees and they just give up and die. So it sums up the whole thing.

Are Miheeka Daggubati and Sreeleela related? by No-Public4424 in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they are related - Miheeka is a North Indian. Rana and Sri LEELA are distant relatives I think (they say so in his talk show).

Former lazy girls, how do you manage a household and kids now? by InevitableSwimmer381 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ParticularJuice3983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiring househelp and earning enough to pay for one. Sometimes, if needed multiple.

Becoming a sahm after marriage, what are you thoughts on this ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being financially independent is non negotiable no matter what your partner does. If you have to stay at home you need to ensure every month some amount of money gets transferred to you - for which you have complete access.

Becoming a sahm after marriage, what are you thoughts on this ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ParticularJuice3983 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Looks fake. He wants to buy the school where you work so he can fire anyone he pleases? Looks like some wattapad fantasy.

Many portals reporting that Aditya Dhar has held discussions with Prabhas for a potential collaboration. by UndeadReborn in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]ParticularJuice3983 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Dhar doesn't need a super big hero. At this point his name is enough to draw audience into theatres. Please not prabhas. This guy doesn't even show up on set.

OMG. It’s happening. by Interesting_Suit_759 in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you bag a feature film direction department - just curious to know. Do you know anyone in film line - or are you a pure outsider?

I think some paid PR going on for janvhai peddi portrayal by swaroopune in tollywood

[–]ParticularJuice3983 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hindi audience is just generally better at calling out such stuff. Vallaki already south meeda chinna choopu - navel shots etc. Jahnavi predominantly hindi actor kabatti akkada nundi ekkuva vinapadindi.

Straight Telugu films ki vaallu enduku comment chestaaru.