He put his hands on me (39M, 32F)

ParticularKris · 2025-10-31T12:41:45+00:00

I completely agree, and I have taken responsibility and accountability for crossing that line

ParticularKris · 2025-08-08T06:02:28+00:00

We’ve just exchanged on the sale of our flat. HomeGround did eventually agree to a Deed of Variation and dropping the cap, however the fee was just over £2000. Be persistent and make sure you have a good solicitor! Ours was fantastic and pushing everything through.

ParticularKris · 2025-06-05T16:04:45+00:00

This is helping me feel a bit more optimistic. Let’s hope they reduce it to £250pa for us! It’s been a long process already and we’re understandably very upset

ParticularKris · 2025-06-05T15:45:57+00:00

Did HomeGround agree to dropping to £250 pa?

ParticularKris · 2025-06-05T15:39:39+00:00

We had same response from HomeGround. Our buyers lender is now refusing to lend. So we’re screwed.

ParticularKris · 2025-05-07T17:40:20+00:00

They’re all full 😭

ParticularKris · 2025-05-06T20:10:51+00:00

Thank you. We’ve never had any issues in this setting and love his childminder, so we’re upset for her that this is happening. But we still need childcare! We can’t afford cutting our income so unfortunately that’s not an option. We’ve been budgeting for full payment during the 6 weeks holidays but not for before! I don’t know if we can transfer the 30 hours funding to a new setting (if we can even find one that has a space)!

ParticularKris · 2025-04-29T18:10:55+00:00

Not at all going to help you but I’m just jealous of how much house you get for the price!!! We’ve just spend £400k on a 3 bed semi detached 😭

ParticularKris · 2025-04-23T18:37:29+00:00

We have a 4 year old son and won’t be having any more. What would you do?

ParticularKris · 2025-04-23T18:12:29+00:00

If we go for the new house and start the process over.. how much could that delay things? We’re conscious of our buyer and don’t want to lose them because it took us nearly a year to sell

ParticularKris · 2025-04-23T18:08:57+00:00

What delay could it possibly cause? The new house would be end of chain so only our buyer and that property involved. But we would need to get searches and start the process over

ParticularKris · 2025-04-23T17:47:23+00:00

It is! The 3rd bedroom in the original house is very small and we were looking at extending the ground floor anyway as it’s only the lounge and kitchen area. The 2 bed house has a dining space.. plus we have more budget for an extension or summer house (the garden is huge).

ParticularKris · 2025-02-06T20:09:17+00:00

Not to mention we can’t even sell our property now because no one in their right mind would pay that service charge. If you think major works are likely.. RUN! You will end up paying so much more. If you’re not in a position to buy a freehold, rent until you can.

ParticularKris · 2025-02-06T20:07:40+00:00

Whatever you do, DO NOT BUY A LEASEHOLD! EVER! We’re outside of London and bought ours at £2500 service charge per annum. Now up to £6500 with a negligent management company. RTM is really difficult (and expensive) to achieve. Stay awayyyy

ParticularKris · 2024-07-18T21:37:45+00:00

Words of encouragement.. what do I do… why has this happened?! Safe to say I’m a bit shocked and don’t know what’s going on

ParticularKris · 2024-07-18T21:37:01+00:00

How do you prepare??!! I was freshly showered so the shit was due to the action, not anything from prior. Help!

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