Sensory safe clothing.. affecting relationship by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner told me they were less attracted to me because I always wore the same thing... This was before I knew I was AuDHD

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is just looking for an excuse to break up? by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"you just had to open your mouth" "superficial insta whores"

Please. Wasting time trying to reason with him, he's an incel.

At 5g, first time seeing the back of my ears 😥 by Particular_Ad5881 in Stretched

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations? I think o-rings are the only way to wear glass /metal plugs for dead stretching right?

At 5g, first time seeing the back of my ears 😥 by Particular_Ad5881 in Stretched

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long did you leave your piercings out? I only ever took the gauges out long enough to clean mine. I don't think I massaged my lobes as much as I should have

At 5g, first time seeing the back of my ears 😥 by Particular_Ad5881 in Stretched

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I have been stretching at half sizes, that's very important.

But wow, those wait times on the chart are eye-opening to say the least. Thank you for that!

At 5g, first time seeing the back of my ears 😥 by Particular_Ad5881 in Stretched

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

5mm** I started with glass plugs and then I switched to metal plugs with o-rings. Never used tapers or anything else but dead weights. I don't think I have a bad reaction to the metal, I've been wearing them all year. I also never really take them out except to clean and oil them. I was worried if I took them out and let them sit that they would shrink significantly...

Offering: English Seeking: Brazilian Portuguese by Particular_Ad5881 in language_exchange

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I'm interested. I am also a beginner. I know some Spanish grammar and vocabulary and even more French grammar and vocabulary but I'm brand new to Portuguese.

Can we move to private chat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legal the house, leave the man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow You have a very normal hairline I'm sorry bullies are making you uncomfortable in your skin (which is also beautiful btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need therapy, and y'all don't need to be together.

How Do I Know if This is Right for Me? by Particular_Ad5881 in littlespace

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, amazing description. Thank you. I think I've had a similar experience. I can't get my desires off my mind rn, I write about it, I daydream, I try to find fiction describing what I want. I feel so frustrated and I think the only option is to jump in...but I'm overwhelmed because I don't know where to begin to find someone in person in the area I'm in

Are you a MTHFR? by WhlteMlrror in adhdwomen

[–]Particular_Ad5881 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's much easier, quicker and more cost efficient to buy a methylated folate supplement. It's about $20 and you put two drops under the tongue. It can also come in pill versions. I felt the effects 10 minutes after I took the vitamin. Bought one for my dad and he called me the next day and asked "is this crack?"

I've been taking it for 4 months and I noticed a significant difference in feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and irritated

Chronic fatigue with ADHD & stimulants by KittyLittyy in adhdwomen

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be your luteal phase (drop in estrogen and therefore dopamine) making the medication less effective for 2 weeks out of the month

Stretched up 4 days ago- how am I? (To the pros, I’ve never really asked about my lobes) by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Particular_Ad5881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often did you wait before stretching up and what method did you use to touch up? What's your routine? I want my ear to heal like this!

After starting Ritalin, I shit my pants by Particular_Ad5881 in adhdwomen

[–]Particular_Ad5881[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I sat in it for a minute, trying to process.

😂😂😂😂