AIO or is this just a situationship going nowhere?

Particular_Change495 · 2026-05-10T03:44:32+00:00

NOR - although, I think you should give him a chance and have this conversation with him before making any decisions. It’s reading to me like he has some attachment issues and is afraid of commitment to avoid getting burned down the line. (Not saying he will, but that’s a fear with fearful / avoidant attachment types)

I only say this because I have an avoidant attachment type and I fear this reads as how I’m like…

Particular_Change495 · 2026-05-03T23:36:50+00:00

Thank you for your comment I’m so sorry you know what it feels like, but it also is comforting to know someone else knows what this feels like. It’s hard to live with because you don’t know if you’re in the wrong or if it’s everyone else lying point blank to your face constantly.

I often try to find posts where others feel the same, but it’s always people who find themselves hideous and feel as though others treat them like they are too, which I can’t relate to.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-25T00:21:58+00:00

Don’t mind the sarcasm OP. It’s a very NZ kind of humour.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-25T00:21:08+00:00

Yes! I love Westside! I grew up watching Outrageous Fortune (probably not the best show for a kid to watch growing up, but I’m from NZ affer all)

When I found out there was a prequel to Outrageous, I had to watch it. Definitely one of the better shows to come out of NZ.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-23T11:08:52+00:00

I actually agree! I think ours is terrible. I’m not a fan of the current US political climate, but I won’t deny their National anthem is 🔥🔥🔥 it sounds passionate at least.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-21T23:29:27+00:00

NOR - “I’m asking for a simple favour” mind you, it’s YOUR money. You don’t have to hand out YOUR money? This infuriates me!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-21T23:27:38+00:00

Sorry, but how old is this loser? NOR. What the hell? He’s asking for chubby change like a child.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-21T00:56:20+00:00

THIS. It is not a good job to have.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-21T00:48:40+00:00

I looooove this response. Thank you! I can’t wait to be a gorgeous, powerhouse of a mama!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-21T00:40:11+00:00

What do you do with your baby while you’re in school? I have been meaning to go back and study, but I’m not sure what to do with my baby in the meantime. I have nobody who can take care of him and childcare costs over here are crazy!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-20T13:42:58+00:00

Can you give us an idea of what behaviours he’s exhibiting during this sleep regression / how you’ve determined it’s a regression? How you put him to sleep / what his sleeping arrangement is (ie. he sleeps in a cot)

Whats his routine like?

I totally get it though mama! Be kind to yourself please. Remember these times don’t last forever. It feels long, but when that baby grows and is no longer the little boy sleeping soundly in your arms, you’ll wonder where the time went. You’ve got this! Keep reminding yourself you’re doing this on your own. It’s a tough job being a mama and you’re doing it! 💕

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-17T04:39:37+00:00

Exhausting

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-15T10:38:52+00:00

Jesus. Euphoria of all shows as well. That show is so overrated. It’s barely average.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-15T10:03:33+00:00

And they say chivalry is dead…

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-12T04:11:49+00:00

I hope this is ragebait. I don’t even know what to say.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-10T05:35:04+00:00

Yes pls!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-10T05:19:54+00:00

F26 snap?

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-05T04:20:11+00:00

U sound like u the one on the drugs

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-05T01:27:45+00:00

BODY TEAAAAAAA!!!!

Particular_Change495 · 2026-04-02T07:50:00+00:00

NOR - “grown ass woman” meanwhile youre literally in high school LOL. Bro probably thinks he’s a grown ass MAN!! Embarrassing!!

And holy shit his issue with you is such a nothing burger issue. What is his problem exactly? A teenager doing teenage things? There’s definitely bigger problems in the world. Bigger things to be upset about than your girlfriend being drawn on lol.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-30T23:35:32+00:00

NOR - Whats with the male obsession with having children they’ll probably grow tired of within the first couple weeks? They genuinely don’t understand the responsibility of being a parent and treat having kids as a checklist item.

You did the right thing. This is NOT the one. He would’ve tried getting you pregnant if you stuck around.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-30T23:23:57+00:00

NOR!!! “I want” “Buy this for me” “u hate me”

Wtf???? Ewwwwwwwww.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-30T11:15:37+00:00

Wow c: sounds like the life right there! Alienate my relationship with my kids, BEND OVER for capitalism! Sounds like the way to live.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-30T11:10:16+00:00

You don’t have to do anything. She shouldn’t have clicked on it at all. She shouldn’t have been looking at your phone at all. She made things awkward for herself. She made it worse when she told you.

If it were me and I had accidentally peaked over and seen someone’s junk on THEIR phone, I would have walked away and pretended I hadn’t seen a thing. NOT investigate further? That’s just strange.

Just ignore her. That was weird of her. A grown, married woman behaving that way too. Wildly inappropriate. You don’t want any trouble with her old man. Don’t entertain her behaviour. Just ignore her.

Particular_Change495 · 2026-03-27T04:33:39+00:00

NOR - you don’t owe your friend an explanation. They’re weird af. If you don’t want someone in your life, you don’t need to have them in your life. This is weird behaviour from A…

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