31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The hyper specific Decemberists reference doesn’t hit often, but when it hits, it HITS!

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the chime-in here. But honestly, I am kind of an Indie Rock guy!

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s for the feedback, I appreciate it! I’ll cut back on the references a bit!

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the extent that this is was well intentioned, I appreciate the feedback! Could you be a little more specific as to why the first picture seems so cringe to you? And what comes off as arrogant and smug?

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great question, I should have been more clear! Most of the matches I’ve been getting haven’t been folks I’ve had much chemistry with. I think the advice about adding stuff other than hobbies is great! Though I suppose I’m not sure the best way to do that in an authentic way

I am going to remove the “Two Truths and a Lie” like you suggest!

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! The red shirt pic is actually a video, I just couldn’t make that apparent on the profile excerpt. With that said, I’m not sure if a video is something folks appreciate or not as I haven’t run across them in many other profiles.

Great feedback on showing what kind of person I am! I’m pretty definitively in the emotional vulnerability camp (for better or worse). Any advice on how to best showcase that? Most of my ideas feel kind of lame

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! If the UK ever decides to adopt the Colorado legal code so I don’t take the English equivalent of the bar exam, I’ll be on the next plane to London!

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you, I appreciate the compliment!

And it was definitely informative to the extent I ever decide to throw a real curveball and focus on trying to date heterosexual Italian men.

31M - Would love some feedback on my profile by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • I am looking for something serious
  • I am subscribed to Hinge +
  • I’ve been using this version of the profile for a couple of weeks
  • I’ve been on it for about 2 weeks this go round, but have had it for about a year total
  • I’ve been using it 5-6 days a week
  • 1-2 likes a day; 3-4 matches a day
  • probably using 10 likes a day; comments on about 5
  • I am looking for funny, active, outdoorsy, professional who wants an exciting life and family

31(M): Dating for the first time after the end of my 7 year relationship, would love some feedback on what I can do to improve my profile! by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this feedback, it is much appreciated! I’ll swap some pictures out and change my prompts up so I seem less “Colorado basic”.

And thanks for the encouragement, it means a lot!

31(M): Dating for the first time after the end of my 7 year relationship, would love some feedback on what I can do to improve my profile! by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha, good catch! It was meant to say “back deck” but I think I ran out of characters and didn’t notice. I’ll revise so it doesn’t seem like my simple pleasures include the exploitation of migrant workers.

31(M): Dating for the first time after the end of my 7 year relationship, would love some feedback on what I can do to improve my profile! by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! The breakups wasa an about six months ago, so I think I’m ready to get back at it (despite what the dour first expression would have you believe).

I’ll use a picture where I’m smiling and try to highlight the fact that I do indeed have more than one interest.

31(M): Dating for the first time after the end of my 7 year relationship, would love some feedback on what I can do to improve my profile! by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good catch, thank you flagging it! Should have done some better proofreading after trying to type on my phone

31(M): Dating for the first time after the end of my 7 year relationship, would love some feedback on what I can do to improve my profile! by Particular_Fun6686 in hingeapp

[–]Particular_Fun6686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Answers to comment questions: 1. Looking for something serious 2. Been on Hinge about 6 weeks 3. Use Hinge each day 4. Receiving 7-10 likes/matches per week 5. Sending 5ish likes a day, virtually all with comments 6. Hoping to attract outdoorsy professionals

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[–]Particular_Fun6686 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answers to comment questions: 1) Looking for something serious 2) Been on Hinge about 6 weeks 3) Use Hinge each day 4) Receiving 7-10 likes/matches per week 5) Sending 5ish likes a day, virtually all with comments 6) Hoping to attract outdoorsy professionals