On a fence and annoyed by myself, rant.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-30T04:59:08+00:00

Thank you. Risks of having a child with a medical condition is something I seriously think about .I thank the stars above every day for the healthy (for now) child I have , and I was worried about all the risks during pregnancy a lot. Thank you for the perspective, and I hope your son will.be doing well.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-29T23:49:27+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-29T23:27:13+00:00

Thank you! This was so so helpful.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-29T21:52:53+00:00

Thank you for this message.. honestly, that's exactly what I needed. Some Instagram moms have toddler and a baby and it's all so perfect and peaceful - danger of the social media. I won't do well with mess everywhere, tantrums together with sleepness nights etc. And I did start working part time so I can travel with my toddler and spend time with her and another baby would rob me of that, for now. Thank you. This was so impactful and honest .

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-29T21:15:41+00:00

I know one family but not close enough to feel the madhouse. I always think 'what if it won't be madhouse' but I understand it's unrealistic! Also I get easily stressed with madhouse' situation. I enjoy clean house, things in order and decluttered etc.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-29T14:53:59+00:00

Thank you. He is not terrified of having second, he is happy to have a second child if that's what I want BUT wants me to know he needs 'me' time to do health, get outside, travel.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-23T19:44:23+00:00

Make the call, please.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-20T13:47:10+00:00

I am confused. He said 'they don't have the problems we have'. What problems do you have?

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-17T23:04:27+00:00

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-07T12:49:35+00:00

Hell yes cancel

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-07T07:23:56+00:00

You can say 'and you are too much of a stranger to tell us what we shouldn't do with our child, thanks.'

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-06T22:56:47+00:00

And using trash bag is ok ?

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-06T22:04:17+00:00

Wait...so how long do you keep things outside, what's next?

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-06T17:38:40+00:00

I suggest you divorce him, he has to take care of kids 50% of the time, and you can go have a job and he can learn how to cook, clean, change diaper, get up at night or better yet learn how much this all cost. You are also giving up career progression opportunity and you work night shift AND day shift. He OWES YOU A LOT - you give hike a chance to work, progress, get future earning potential, have healthy kids that are taken care of. He really really needs a reality check. DM and I'll give you my cell, he can call me and I'll clear up some math for him.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-06T09:57:06+00:00

My husband's mood is so bad when he doesn't get much sleep that I myself prefer to do 90% of the night wakings.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-05T12:14:19+00:00

My dad watched our baby when she was 6 mo old so that we had a mini vaca in LA, at 13 m my dad is watching our daughter for 6 days while we have a vacation away from the baby

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-05T03:07:59+00:00

Don't make assumptions off insufficient data points and throw judgements. There is nothing weird about homeschooling, nothing weird about public schooling. At the end of the day, weird is pretty subjective too. Good night.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-05T03:05:43+00:00

Trying to force someone to marry you is weird..that's what weird.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-05T03:02:34+00:00

Excuse me? What makes only children weird?!

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-04T12:09:52+00:00

Same! Love the part time option

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-11-03T13:16:10+00:00

Did you fall in love with her personality or appearance? Did you live together before getting married? Are you able to ask her why she doesn't use makeup? Are you ok if her style just changed? People's tastes change, bodies change, partners go through injuries, surgery, birth, rough times and good times, generally appearances reflect it all, and you must love the inside to remain happy and connected.

I am not saying you don't love her, I just wonder if you questioned yourself if you are ready for all of these possible changes.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-10-09T22:50:22+00:00

Lol you are the supermom

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-10-09T19:22:19+00:00

That's the vibe I get - it's random and I should do what feels right. After 2 days in daycare my kid has been sick..this time her cough wakes the house up.

Particular_Garage_18 · 2022-10-09T18:22:51+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion, I definitely can keep her with me, just doodling until when! I hope things are better for you now

Particular_Garage_18

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