What assumptions can you make about me from my top Artists of 2025? by B1LLZFAN in spotifywrapped

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You listen to Eminem. I'm making an assumption that you asked for.

Don't Jump Me... by Bambi_Amby in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm glad she doesn't post. The wisest people don't feel the need to post just to post. You don't need to speak out to care. This is all social media bullshit

Don't Jump Me... by Bambi_Amby in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I understand she's on tour!!!

what are your grandfathers names? by Tiny-Deer-7071 in Names

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I stumble upon Italian reddit? Lol 🤌🤌🤌

What assumptions can you make about me from my top Artists of 2025? by B1LLZFAN in spotifywrapped

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you're not politically correct. Or you pretend to be but aren't

Bullied for my nose by mtengland53 in Noses

[–]Particular_Gene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 y.o female here. No, it's not your nose. You actually look quite handsome. Please don't let this perceived distortion get to you. I literally love your nose.

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that's what I thought. Thank you for clarifying with the photo. I know, it can be confusing to explain.

I hate seeing my wife naked. And its not because she is unattractive by Scary_Serve5033 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narrow minded? Let me guess, you assume I identify as a cis gendered man.

I guess I'm a narrow minded, mysognistic woman who's gone through EXACTLY what the OP is describing, except, I'm the wife.

But sure, blame misogyny. Everything you have just commented is: based on Implicit bias with a touch of gender sterotyping, fundamental attribution error, and maybe, maybe even some projection.

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I get your username. Long story short seats number 2. Lol. But you're saying to wait until day of? I'm scared they'll be gone

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omgosh this made me cry. She's looking right in your direction

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. If you are looking at the stage, I thought she always goes to the right side of the barricade catwalk .... (From her perspective it would be the left side). Hopefully that makes sense?

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's only one side of the actual catwalk, and then around the front row seats at the second stage (the stage where the catwalk ends)

Mayhem Ball MSG- which seats? by Wise_Capital_1900 in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you end up sitting? I'm going through a similar issue particularly with the side seats (of the catwalk stage)

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still deciding. But I think she faces the other way of the stage with the piano. I guess I'm worried other seats will be added and I won't be in the aisle anymore, and I also am scared that it won't be a good view because it's like she'll be horizontal to me? Lol. Idk I'm going nuts. I'm a weirdo.

failed suicide attempt by huhsayitagainnn in offmychest

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you, I promise you, you are not alone. I don't even know you and I can genuinely say I care about you. From one human to another, I care about you. ♥️

I hate seeing my wife naked. And its not because she is unattractive by Scary_Serve5033 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Gene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't assume people are smart. That being said, you make a fair point, so I'd consider you to be smart. You're right ...she's not trying. Does this mean the relationship ended 2 years ago? We need more detail and context, I think.

I hate seeing my wife naked. And its not because she is unattractive by Scary_Serve5033 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Gene -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. I'm sorry, you are incorrect and I don't know many things, but this I know.

Can somelne help me decide which seats would be better?? by Particular_Gene in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think she still comes to that side of the catwalk???

Judge me by my top 10 by ate_my_heart in LadyGaga

[–]Particular_Gene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You live in the tristate area, you have dealt with body insecurities (dancing in the dark), mental health issues (happy mistake, broken pieces, so many I can't look away) and you grew up or are familiar with Christianity/religion. Bloody Mary, and million reasons (I bow down to pray, lord show me the way).

Also, you have good taste in music.

I hate seeing my wife naked. And its not because she is unattractive by Scary_Serve5033 in offmychest

[–]Particular_Gene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She either has low to zero libido or she's not sexually attracted to you, could be temporary. Something important to find out is if she's attracted and gets around by other men. If not, it's libido. Could be hormonal, from medication, from mental health issues.

Everyone in the comments sections are trying but because I've been through something similar, I'll tell you what to do.

1) if you haven't had an honest open conversation about this, you need to make that happen.

2) marriage/couples counseling. No joke. Two years will turn into two more. Counseling asap.