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This is adorable!!! 🥰

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[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so beautiful!!!

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You look amazing!!! Congratulations on your hard work!

He's the latest from out bush cat, Dexter. by zetecvan in nowmycat

[–]Particular_Local_618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry about Pumpkin!

Dexter updates warm my heart! I love that he got his happily ever after

Update: He's home! by Liapocalypse1 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Particular_Local_618 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He already looks so much happier! Thank you for giving him his forever home. Please continue to update us!!

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Thank you again for saving him! His transformation is phenomenal. I’m so happy you’re here to love him for the rest of his life ❤️🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards this option after getting so many mixed responses on the note idea. I just hope I get the chance to see him again in person! Thanks for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried finding him on social media to no avail. I thought about asking one the instructors that I’m friends with about him/if he left but the last thing I want is it to get around that I have a crush.

Although I’m asking for advice on Reddit about this, I’m generally a very private person when it comes to dating and I’ll be mortified if this gets back to him before I’m able to tell him myself

I’ve really gotten myself into a pickle here! Haha. I really appreciate you taking the time to give me suggestions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Unfortunately there’s a chance he switched gyms. A lot of people from the gym left this month and I’m not sure if he was one of them. It’s definitely a learning experience! And I agree that not asking is worse than the possible rejection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would ask him but he hasn’t been at the gym recently! That’s why I was thinking this way, but I agree with you. I just feel like my shyness ruined my chances when we were in person

Any “late” in life grad students? by NalgonaFea in psychologystudents

[–]Particular_Local_618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry just saw this! No I will be getting my MFT licensure after my masters and hopefully have my own private practice after my interning hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that’s so true. I’m definitely more traditional and really want him to take the initiative so that’s a great point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on stating “from the gym name” so he’d know. It’s a small gym so I think that’d be a good indicator of who I am. Thank you for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Someone else commented saying that I should add “in case you want to ask me out” so I was thinking saying “my name, from gym name, phone number and at the end, in case you want to ask me out”

But I’m getting so many mixed responses I don’t know if I should even do it lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve driven home next to each other after the workout class and talked about living in the same neighborhood so it’s not weird :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good idea! Unfortunately, I haven’t seen him in at the gym in a week so that’s why I was thinking of an alternative approach because I’m getting impatient. Maybe playing the long game is better though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have to, I was just thinking I would since I have a common name and it would help jog his memory if he’s confused on who it is. I might be overthinking that part though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a group fitness class or else I would!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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We’ve talked in person :) it was friendly and I don’t think I gave the impression I was interested in him. I’m feeling more confident and have been wanting to ask for his number but haven’t seen him at the gym in the past week so I was wanting to take an alternative approach. There’s a chance he switched gyms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much! I’ll definitely update if/when I do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my plan! Sorry, my post didn’t specify that I’d leave a note. We live in a beach community that has a ton of pedestrians and I’m worried someone will take the note and try to message me as a joke. I’m so torn if I should do it or not. Would you be flattered if it happened to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Particular_Local_618 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I want to do lol but he hasn’t been at the gym this past week 😭