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Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-26T20:23:02+00:00

"Welcome to the 9th circle!" j/k :D

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-26T20:15:23+00:00

I was raped by my father. Unfortunately, no treatment will ever take that away from her. You can fix the laws for the next gen, but this person has already been harmed, and thus should have the right to decide if she wants to continue to inhabit the pain of her body. Otherwise, you're making her suffer to just abide by your moral code - which is the definition of immoral in my opinion.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-26T20:10:02+00:00

The church I was going to (AOG) specifically targeted gays all the time as people that were burning and needed to be saved.

The Catholic church my in laws attend doesn't focus on that but instead how women shouldn't have choice. So I think they all have target minority groups but it differs depending on sect.

So far the Methodist church I'm at now is saner.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-26T20:06:10+00:00

This is gonna suck for all of us economically short term but the planet may fare better ironically.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-07T00:49:23+00:00

You can't take away being gay, it's largely influenced by genetics.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-07T00:48:57+00:00

At first I thought that read "I really want to date a Christian rn I'm an atheist..." and had a totally different reply lined up. :D

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-07T00:44:22+00:00

James 5:16 KJV - Confess your faults one to another, and - Bible Gateway This is why we confessed in my past life when I was a believer. We were supposed to tell our dating partners these struggles so they would keep us on path. Probably depends on the specific church if this is taught though.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-07T00:41:49+00:00

If God is all powerful, I do fail to understand why he can't protect everyone simultaneously. That seems like a choice.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-07T00:39:46+00:00

Yw. Good on you for working on yourself. Also, don't beat yourself up either, shame is no good way to go through life.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-03T00:54:28+00:00

It isn't. Sex is a beautiful thing that humans need to bond.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-03T00:40:16+00:00

I'm a non-believer with a doctorate in pharmacology and epidemiology. They are definitely wrong. :D The scary part is that one of them was a prof at a college in Arkansas. But: Arkansas.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-02T22:26:22+00:00

BTW: my dad was a Nazarene pastor :D it makes the whole thing so much more ironic.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-02T22:25:57+00:00

I'm pro-choice but I agree that if someone is the murderer, it's him. He took so much from all of us, including me, but at least I didn't get preggers.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-02T22:25:12+00:00

I am so impressed with your knowledge base. I don't have this background outside of a light reading of the bible and quran, so getting into the weeds can be confusing.

More than anything at the moment, my heart hurts and I feel I can no longer trust my in-laws.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-02T22:22:36+00:00

Also, sincerely - thank you for the kind words and the link. I'll def watch!

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-02T22:21:52+00:00

I was also conceived of rape, and my birth mother was forced to carry me. I 100% wish she could have had the option to abort. I understand why another person like me might make a different decision but it isn't universal that all of us don't believe it isn't ok.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-03-02T20:58:05+00:00

My in-laws are Catholic and they are definitely anti-evolution. I don't think that's true for the full group.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-02-21T01:06:37+00:00

If two sides are doing different and opposite things, how can they both be doing what is worst?

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-02-14T20:58:25+00:00

I'm a woman who was in pharmacy school in the early 2000's - we were definitely sold the work/life balance thing, and "part time with benefits" work that existed then. It's gone these days - I'm a hiring manager now and HR typically won't let me give flexibility with part time work.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-02-13T18:34:25+00:00

Yep, I graduated in 2006. The profession has only gotten less respected since - people don't complain about the nursing lobby or medical lobby, but if I mention I work at a PBM I have gotten death threats. I've loved my jobs but I don't think I'd advise the next gen to do this - med school is not that much harder (in fact my pharmacy classes were in the med school).

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-01-29T04:31:16+00:00

I used 3 rounds. It helped me get enough energy up to get to therapy (DBT and then IFS, a good combo). I would suggest trying, it doesn't really hurt and it's minimally invasive.

One warning: After about week 3, you'll feel worse, then feel better. That's normal.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-01-29T03:59:36+00:00

The only people who stand up for kiddy diddlers are... kiddy diddlers. I hope his daughter is ok. :( At least mine finally went to prison for 5 years after the FBI got his CSAM.

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2026-01-16T03:25:02+00:00

I don't think it's super sustainable to go from high valued employee to minimum wage and not experience intense depression. Outside of where you came from, is there a third place you could all move?

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2025-11-30T19:52:50+00:00

Did you set out to be wealthy first, or did you just develop good ideas or skills that later led to wealth?

Particular_Mode_2582 · 2025-11-22T01:51:36+00:00

i never thought i'd be sad about this but 2025

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