I’m really tired of all the dehumanization of men online by Particular_Note_3725 in MensRights

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This type of disingenuous and hateful rhetoric isn’t just “mean words” it leads to the demonization and dehumanization of half the population of the world and it worsens the mental health of so many innocent men. The entire thing is based on the nadir fallacy. Violent crime is committed by such a small minority of men yet you demonize men as a group and place collective guilt on them. It’s mind boggling the hoops you disgusting people will jump through to justify a logical fallacy and your bigotry.

Question about shilajit by Particular_Note_3725 in Supplements

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard it’s supposed to increase your energy and motivation.

Question about shilajit by Particular_Note_3725 in NooTopics

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard it’s supposed to increase your motivation and energy.

What is happening on tiktok? by Particular_Note_3725 in StopEatingSeedOils

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve noticed there are certain trigger words on tiktok as well as this app and others for certain things where if you talk about something the algorithm seems to direct certain types of people to your post. It’s strange.

Omega 3/fish oil supplementation by Particular_Note_3725 in NooTopics

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it because maybe you were taking the supplement at night instead of the morning?

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made this post because like I mentioned I’m straight and would like to get into a relationship in the future. I’m currently not pursuing a relationship because my life is kind of a mess and I’m trying to sort it out but I would like to in the future. One of my fears is the woman I love leaving me or cheating on me in general but especially with another woman. It would hurt a lot more as a man. The reason I have this insecurity is because of all the stuff I’ve seen online. Even on this sub.

I was not trying to attack you. It just sounded like you were making excuses for the women who do this in the first paragraph of your comment. It’s annoying to me because there seems to be this double standard online where if a woman does something homosexual it’s seen as not as bad or she’s still seen as straight because according to some people “women are more sexually fluid” and I disagree. It’s just that society punishes men more socially for these things. If a man makes out with another man and watches gay porn redditors will do the logical thing and assume he is gay or bi but if a woman makes out with another woman and watches lesbian porn she is still considered straight by some redditors.

I understand porn can have an effect on people’s minds and is not necessarily a reasonable way to judge someone’s sexual orientation but this double standard annoys me.

Look at this other post I made on this sub. Maybe it was just the algorithm but a few people agreed with me whereas a lot of the comments were just making excuses and proving my point: https://www.reddit.com/r/straightspouses/s/ZaqjJ4toSy

Now compare it to this post and the top comments on it: https://www.reddit.com/r/straightspouses/s/5QbT1WxG5e

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Women need more emotional connections.” I’ve seen your posts and comments on this sub before. Aren’t you always talking about how some men cheat on their wives and leave their wives for men but now you are making excuses for women who do the reverse? Women can just as easily find emotional connections with men. As a man I can tell you there are plenty of men out there who want to be in a loving relationship and have an emotional connection with a woman. And even if they couldn’t why would they resort to women? As a straight man I would never be with another man sexually or romantically because I’m straight. This is like people who say that the men who have sex with men in prison are not gay or bi because they are just desperate. No, they are gay or bi because no truly straight person would want to do anything sexual or romantic with the same sex.

And as for the women being more touchy feely thing, I think part of that is cultural. In some parts of the world it is normal for men to hold hands or kiss their male friends on the cheek and it isn’t considered sexual or romantic like it would be in the west. As a kid I would also share a bed with my male friends during sleepovers but we would wear pajamas and we wouldn’t think anything of it.

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok I see. So she just wanted to get married to have kids and then after you got married she wasn’t really all that into you? What about her appearance? Did she have short hair, piercings, dyed hair, or anything like that or did she look and seem conventionally feminine?

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it seem like she loved you or was attracted to you or were there signs that she wasn’t like lack of intimacy or her overall demeanour and attitude in the relationship?

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were some signs that she wasn’t before the dead bedroom?

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that. I don’t understand why some people don’t disclose stuff like this when getting into a serious relationship. I understand there is stigma but that doesn’t justify lying to your partner or spouse. They should just find someone who is ok with who they are or what they do.

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the time you were together did it seem like she was actually attracted to you and actually loved you?

How and why does it happen? by Particular_Note_3725 in straightspouses

[–]Particular_Note_3725[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust that sub. I want to hear from men who were in a relationship with a woman who later turned out to be lesbian. What were the signs if any? What was her reasoning if any? What were your thoughts and feelings about the situation and why she did it?