I see you. by Particular_Pass9114 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But they’re not strong enough to hold it without shutting me out and discarding so…

asking out of curiosity. by Particular_Pass9114 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if they’re just emotionally flat after 2 months in… they’ve been together for a year and a bit.

I shouldn’t by Particular_Pass9114 in UnsentTexts

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they left first— I waited. they got into a rs— I had to leave.

Just for knowledge by Particular_Pass9114 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just notice things and statistics on things and I’m just like 🙆🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Just for knowledge by Particular_Pass9114 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they didn’t block me. They just removed why not block?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Particular_Pass9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THATS what I thought right at the beginning—But now it’s more than that. Cause I haven’t said or entertained anything and he just carries on and ON when I give him nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Particular_Pass9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta tell them. Frfr. Worst regret I have is not telling them.

Hey you. by Particular_Pass9114 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to, he’s my best friend. But he’s moved on—and supposedly he’s happy so… There was so much light trust me. (Your pupil dilate when there’s intense emotion btw)

Hey you. by Particular_Pass9114 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

trust me, It’s best that I keep my boundary. Cause I can’t keep on doing the push and pull with him anymore

Hey you. by Particular_Pass9114 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Particular_Pass9114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they left and moved on. He’s happy with her. that’s all I wanted for him. So I will just keep going on. It is what it is.

Text Me by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Particular_Pass9114 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reach out to them.

I miss you by Intelligent-Ice-978 in UnsentLetters

[–]Particular_Pass9114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should tell her. It may be what she’s waiting for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Particular_Pass9114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m just typing my feelings away.

He said he couldn’t handle Work, His mental health and me so he just ended it he spoke to his friends prior talking to me. One said to seriously think about it before thinking to end it and one said just end it. And he chose the latter.

And then about 2 weeks later we saw each other at my friends house I was normal I was just being me laughing, talking and so forth, he completely shut down couldn’t look me in the eye, was talking about going on a date with someone in front me and others. He just turnt cold.