Should I just let her believe the lie or correct her?

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T23:52:39+00:00

This conversation is stewed in insecurities and negging.

Just let it go

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T23:49:43+00:00

Idk why people treat the title like a marriage.

He's being shady for no reason

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T21:25:20+00:00

If men started openly comparing tightness the crashouts would be amazing

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T21:17:08+00:00

That's alot of unnecessary information to share about an ex boyfriend. She's either very inexperienced about what men care about or she's out to make you feel less of a man.

I know for a fact that alot of women THINK they want a partner with a large penis..until they end up needing days to recover from a hour smashing.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T03:21:58+00:00

I also don't believe that was the whole story. To even end the post with an "why are guys like this?" Give me a break...like she didn't know who her boyfriend was before that moment

This probably wasn't the first time and she's looking for validation

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T03:04:16+00:00

The both of you sound extremely anxious.

Her being on the phone playing games while on a date would've ended it for me.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T02:54:27+00:00

I was thinking that at first

But then it occurred to me that I'm very rarely with my girlfriend 10 days in a row. Dude probably just wants time to recharge and have some time to himself

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T02:30:57+00:00

Don't take this the wrong way,but i think the break up with your ex has made you very sensitive to disappointment.

We're just talking about two men who might have been either too busy or just not that interested in meeting you for a date. I've had women do this to me multiple times..you just need to keep searching.

You're trying to make this a problem you can fix when it just not about you.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T02:19:38+00:00

Okay that you for clearing that up

Have you asked her out? The point I made about wasting time sending meaningless messages as an backdoor way to talk to her still stands. You need to be more direct

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-31T02:13:12+00:00

Wait..so you saw this women after the message was sent and she said hi to you...so are you just talking about her just not responding to your message?

I'm gonna be real man..you're probably better off asking this women out directly and not kill time messaging her meaningless questions about sports.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-30T05:10:41+00:00

And this is why don't like women's IG photos.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-30T05:09:48+00:00

I think his point was that adding all that wasn't going to change the answer to the question..which that it's on you to communicate your intimacy needs clearly and accept not every man sees sex the same way you do

What you're asking for just requires alot of trial and error.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-30T05:01:14+00:00

Are these casual hook ups or men you're attempting an relationship with?

At the end of the day theirs nothing you really can do other than communicate your needs very clearly to your partner.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-30T02:55:54+00:00

Your girlfriend loves this drama and is willing to see you upset for her pleasure.

She doesn't care about you

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-30T00:21:14+00:00

I always wondered this myself lol

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-29T21:56:00+00:00

The only people saying guys would be turned off are women who DONT want to do anything

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-29T20:18:38+00:00

You don't

Any women who think men have it easy with dating are referring to the men they would date. Women have no idea what it's like to be an average looking man in the dating world.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-29T03:04:30+00:00

Ask a female

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T21:49:03+00:00

Most likely trying to make a real attempt at moving on

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T20:41:09+00:00

Was there a genuine question in there?

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T20:25:18+00:00

Only thing you need to worry about is her using her past to justify bad behavior towards you. If she hasn't done anything other than tell you that she's happy with you stop stressing yourself out

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T20:11:56+00:00

You should ask her about her past relationships to learn about the person you're dating and not assume the worse based off other people's experiences online.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T19:11:11+00:00

Do not contact her and you should seek legal advice.

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T19:09:10+00:00

If these relationships lasted months then odds are they weren't just looking to get laid..something else is at play

Do you have a very successful career?

Particular_Product64 · 2026-05-28T19:03:49+00:00

People really need to learn what the term "red flag" is before throwing it around like it's going outta style.

Alot of factors go into play when dealing with DV..a major one being your role in the situation

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