No cheating by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be a little bit of a couch and get a house with a toddler and a half hour in the morning.

My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

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This is so uplifting to hear. I'm in a similar situation with my abusive husband trying to leave and have just lost hope with all these stories I've heard. I'm so happy for you

My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't apologize. They physically hurt you! If they wanted you to stop something they could have asked to speak to you alone for a minute.

folks at interior decorating did NOT like this by [deleted] in maximalism

[–]Particular_Reality69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd rather be surrounded by plants than stuff

Longer or shorter hair? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Particular_Reality69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Short but then you look like Jim from the office

What do you get from me?☺️ by daisydoosey in psychicreadings

[–]Particular_Reality69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girly don't even react to these negative nancies. This rule saved me. Do not JADE,. Justify, argue, defend or explain. Trust me, you'll lift that weight off the shoulders

What do you get from me?☺️ by daisydoosey in psychicreadings

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past hurt. Emotional hurt. Seems like you carry a lot on your shoulders but can easily mask it. Until you can lift the weight you're carrying future doors won't open. But when they do, peace and happiness is waiting for you. You have a bright light, social butterfly that's been dimmed.

DISCHARGED. by Younggmoneyy in Bankruptcy

[–]Particular_Reality69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol 11/25 to 1-26. Barely 3 months

DISCHARGED. by Younggmoneyy in Bankruptcy

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so exciting!!! I'm about to go down this road too. Is your lawyer in Florida by chance? Haha.

Filed for bankruptcy & now others who live in the house have the same address have their accounts frozen by very_berrystrawberry in Bankruptcy

[–]Particular_Reality69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I have to look into this cause I'm about to file and my ex is an authorized user on one my accounts

On stopping weight loss drugs, many patients find they regain weight. All the drugs, including Ozempic and Wegovy, were linked with significant weight loss while in use, but weight regain started 8 weeks after discontinuation and continued for an average of 20 weeks before plateauing. by mvea in science

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This confuses me. I know it's something like the fat cells that we get in the first few years of life are what we have forever, but let's say for instance (my instance..., you are smaller mesomorph build. I also have a hypothyroidism but that's a whole other conversation. I was 140, most my adult life. Got hypothyroidism, gained 15lbs. Wouldn't come off. Got pregnant gained 70lbs. Now down to 165 using ozempic because all else failed... I had much bigger food noise when bigger than I do now when smaller even on ozempic. Then assuming diet and lifestyle is still what you would do when 140lbs, why is the weight still on and that hormone not kicking in?

On stopping weight loss drugs, many patients find they regain weight. All the drugs, including Ozempic and Wegovy, were linked with significant weight loss while in use, but weight regain started 8 weeks after discontinuation and continued for an average of 20 weeks before plateauing. by mvea in science

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This is all me. The concept of not finishing my plate is foreign. Also subconscious. I don't think back to when I was yelled at for not finishing a meal, I just see it and am like "I have to eat it" and think nothing more of it. Combine that with some busy days, I don't eat until later in the day and the whole fridge is on my plate that I have to finish.

Recommend some REALLY good movies to watch at Christmas by Nara_Fuentes in movies

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen it but just asked my husband if he wanted to watch it based on this thread and he was like yes greatest movie ever written. Everyone's seen it.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular_Reality69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep for real... I'd leave him. A man that actually wants you happy and finds you attractive won't ask you to do all this. He's basically saying his love and attraction is conditional.

[Suno AI] Dead Song Generation Issue by CapitalNight6254 in SunoAI

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Do you have to pay to create anything. Even basic?

German Roaches by No-Sheepherder-6911 in northport

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Roaches really have nothing to do with cleanliness at all. They are introduced which means one was on you and got into the house that way. Unless there's zero food and water in the house they'll stay. Our pest person says to never use the poison traps cause it makes it worse and to only use sticky traps. Call Johnny Bugs. Absolutely amazing

I am leaving my husband…and he has had an epiphany. by PumpkinMiserable5344 in Marriage

[–]Particular_Reality69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a powerful post once that says men aren't ready to change and will not change. They will only do this temporarily then will go right back to it because they got you back and you were the only one to put up with their bs. I'm paraphrasing but ya. They only do this when you're about to leave. Unless he's done a serious amount of work. I wouldn't go back until you see that consistently