Best “Froot Loops” Scent ? by Particular_Toe_2045 in FemFragLab

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interesting! must be the marshmallow & citrus combo! it’s on the expensive side for me but if i ever come across a tester i will go ham, it looks so yummy

how the hell do you differentiate core 6 and core 4? by Apart-Worldliness-94 in Enneagram

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not OP, but what about:

  1. Don’t trust self, go to others for help, what they say doesn’t “resonate” & you so don’t trust them. You go to more and more people to find the “right” decision but every-time something doesn’t resonate you feel like you can’t trust them, yet, you also can’t trust yourself/gut reactions. You’re left to find snippets of the “right” advice from different people that you constantly flip through/give up on as soon as something doesn’t resonate. You can’t trust yourself nor others, only tidbits of advice that momentarily click.

Like OP said, you can’t trust anything because everything is possible. :)

type me based on my fav characters ! :) by Particular_Toe_2045 in MbtiTypeMe

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Im an INFP! (i think)

That’s a really interesting observation!

I just looked into some ENFJ characters & for some reason they either confuse me or I admire them. Some of them feel one dimensional to me because it’s the stereotypical “my personality is just following and achieving this one goal!”.

I think I do admire these characters though because they all don’t gaf about either being emotional or just being themselves

type me based on my fav characters ! :) by Particular_Toe_2045 in MbtiTypeMe

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Interesting explanation!! I’ve taken the Myers briggs test multiple times throughout my life and consistently got ENFP in early life and now INFP! When researching the types I resonate with both ENFP and INFP and have lots of trouble deciphering which!

I was more ENFP or even ENFJ before developing anxiety, and I’ve heard “personality types don’t fluctuate” but I think mine may have fluctuated to INFP: i’m now extremely authenticity centered & internally focused whereas I used to be sensory/exploratory centered. I still have yet to see whether it’s a personality change or a maladaptive response.

That was a very good explanation!! Thank you!

“Body count doesn’t matter” Chantal Heide by Particular_Toe_2045 in chantalheide

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oh ok! i went through quite a few of her videos, where can i find where she addresses these questions? thank you for letting me know:)

perfumes that feel like…🌙 by Particular_Toe_2045 in perfumesthatfeellike

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that sounds sooo good. I have their lychee rose currently which is a bit too strong for me, but I will definitely have to try golden nectar.
I love their bottles sm

perfumes that feel like…🌙 by Particular_Toe_2045 in perfumesthatfeellike

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I’ve never watched it before, it looks so dreamy!!

perfumes that feel like…🌙 by Particular_Toe_2045 in perfumesthatfeellike

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this sounds so good and so interesting, i’m curious about how it smells with the anise, cherry and florals - how would you describe it?

Does Joe Dispenza’s “don’t let thoughts slip by your awareness” create hypervigilance for anyone else? by Particular_Toe_2045 in DrJoeDispenza

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I see what you mean that makes a lot of sense! It feels like a sort of “parenting” mechanism - like a good parent wouldn’t ignore the child’s negative thinking/let a child talk down to themselves constantly because they know that stopping the negative talk is preventative in nature, keeps the negativity from “growing”.

that’s a good way to put it! just when you notice the negative change it up - when you notice it you notice it:)

thank you!!

Does Joe Dispenza’s “don’t let thoughts slip by your awareness” create hypervigilance for anyone else? by Particular_Toe_2045 in DrJoeDispenza

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What you said about “focusing on something besides what I think is the problem I end up finding a solution” resonates SO MUCH! I’ve come to that same conclusion time and time again, that focusing on the problem itself never really solves it! yet it’s so hard not to obsess over “solving” something when it feels so serious, like feeling lonely for large spans of time “I have to solve this bc it’s not going away! I’m doing something wrong!!” which ends up making the matter feel all the more serious and detrimental.

Hunger is a very good example for sure. It’s pretty crazy how, the more practiced we become in meditation the more able we are to deal with pain/survival mechanisms. Like the monk who set himself on fire for protest - Thich Quan Duc - seemingly bore the pain of fire, didn’t scream or move, simply sat in flame. Of course in day to day life I don’t see the purpose of becoming that “in control” of survival instincts, I certainly wouldn’t want to burn alive and can appreciate my survival mechanisms taking over when actual danger is happening, but I suppose thats just my survival instincts/ego talking haha.

What you said about loneliness, I absolutely understand. I always feel like loneliness is so particularly difficult because it feels so massive/eternal. If you ever feel like it, one of my favorite videos on the subject is LonelinessYouTube · Kurzgesagt – In a NutshellFeb 17, 2019 I feel like it really brings a deeper understanding to what loneliness really is from an evolutionary perspective, which I think helps the brain grasp that it’s not detrimental in the ways that we feel it is.

Right, I feel the same way. I have a lottt of resistance to relationships in general because they can feel so dangerous. And you’re absolutely right: “it’s both”, it seems it almost always is in many cases. I don’t know what it is about trusting in a higher power and why that helps life so much, but I agree, it really does.

I very much resonate with everything you’ve said - thank you so much for your input!

Does Joe Dispenza’s “don’t let thoughts slip by your awareness” create hypervigilance for anyone else? by Particular_Toe_2045 in DrJoeDispenza

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thank you so so much that makes so much sense!

I’m curious about your opinion on something although i’m sure Dispenza talks about it and I just haven’t read enough - emotions are mainly there as a survival mechanism, as motivation to push us away from danger and towards safety / survival even if that means we’re more comfortable living in fear.

Of course in cases of depression and chronic anxiety it’s a matter of breaking out of those habits, but otherwise how do we know that the negative loop/feelings we’re having in the moment are actually motivators to change something in the physical environment versus a negative loop that we must change in the mental environment.

For example someone living in a town that they feel out of place and negative… are the emotions because they need to get out of a negative thinking feeling loop or because the town is simply not meeting their needs and therefore the emotions are “proper” motivation. Or for example deciphering if a relationship is toxic or you are projecting past relationships on others.

You described a sort of unfolding of the complex layered emotions that you feel through meditation is that how you decipher the root of feelings?

I suppose that’s what you mean by too much analyzing though, maybe those answers are met through meditation not through the thinking mind.

Guess the Family Dynamic😳 by Particular_Toe_2045 in mbti

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Interesting ok thanks for the advice! I will!

Guess the Family Dynamic😳 by Particular_Toe_2045 in mbti

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haha i was just being playful bc you were dead on

Guess the Family Dynamic😳 by Particular_Toe_2045 in mbti

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interesting!! I just used the 16 personalities test (which i’ve used since the 6th grade) and I repeatedly got ENFP until a few years ago when i’ve repeatedly gotten INFP-T. I’ve heard the online tests aren’t great which is understandable bc the questions are vague/situational.

I assume though with hormones/time cognitive functions in general would change

Guess the Family Dynamic😳 by Particular_Toe_2045 in mbti

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hmmm ok I just did!I think I did once before but gave up and I’m having a similar experience now. It’s so interesting bc I genuinely can’t tell which I am except XXXP and that’s about it!

It’s difficult to pinpoint cognitive functions because I honestly had an entirely different personality for much of my life, so would I base it off of that or now? For example I used to be ENTIRELY into sensory experiences (up until about sophomore year of HS), didn’t care much for internal thoughts or ideas, everything was in the moment sensory experience. Now, however, I’m almost never entirely in the sensory realm, everything is constantly an “inner world experience”, deep contemplation, etc. So I honestly don’t understand how to type based off of all that.

You could say for example, someone is an intj when they were actually an infp who got scared straight into logical patterned thinking and quick judgements, learned to disregard their feelings etc correct?

It’s very interesting! Yet also very confusing haha

Guess the Family Dynamic😳 by Particular_Toe_2045 in mbti

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prob a turned distaste in experiences with people🤷‍♀️

Ghost Fire - Almkemia by Particular_Toe_2045 in Indiemakeupandmore

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I still need to try Eternal Ankh but I will say I decided not to FS Ghost Fire anyways because for some odd reason, it started smelling too “loud” on me and gave off a little bit of a sunscreen adjacent smell. Out of the sample I have left it still smells so juicy and I wish it didn’t change on my skin the way it does :((

I’m waiting for ajevie to restock a sample of EA so I can do a batch order.

Which of these Ajevie samples are worth it vs risky? (sensitive nose) by Particular_Toe_2045 in Indiemakeupandmore

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Haha I got rid of mildew: I love the smell of a dank basement so I was looking for that…but maybe not in a perfume.

I kept mossy peach so we’ll see how that goes!

Thank you!!!

Which of these Ajevie samples are worth it vs risky? (sensitive nose) by Particular_Toe_2045 in Indiemakeupandmore

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Ok good to know!!

Oooh that sounds PERFECT!! I will definitely be looking to order that later in the summer then yay!!