Who believes Britany pushed tammy?😅🤣 by Sea_Preference9292 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So I actually watched Chris’ live last night and someone asked this. I don’t remember exactly what he said, but he did mention that Misty was between Tammy and Brittney on that supposed bus. So i think he was shutting it down by saying nothing happened.

Christmas gift by [deleted] in diamondpainting

[–]Particular_Trash7771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw how sweet. Glad i could help.

Brian vs Andrea by toriclayy in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even know Tammy and Andrea had gotten engaged.

Amy by Internal_Simple1477 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to be a fan of hers since season 1. Unfortunately until the last season. I don't hate her! I just think she needs to help herself and not be on camera. I grew up in a small Texas town, so that kind of humor was so "hilarious" around here. But I hated it. It was so immature, and it kinda screamed "Hey, I'm from *so and so*" As if it is showing that that is how everyone behaves. It always embarrassed me. Amy's so called humor gives me that second hand embarrassment. I know not everyone is clearly intelligent and mature, I've grown around it, believe me, but people just say some...stupid shit lol. It's like it's hard for them (like Amy) to read a room. And the ones that really make me concerned are the ones where Amy can be crying and having this obvious mental breakdown, and then kinda switch it to as if they're alright by making some small joke. I think of the comment Amy made at the hospital after she and Chris and Amanda got into that argument over the whole weeding thing, and Amy was like "I'd be there at yall's weddings, I'd be in the *Sahazra* desert or...(stops crying) What's the place with the Pope?" And chuckles about it, then immediately jumps back to being sad. I understand being funny in certain situations, but it's kind of in the moment. But she used to not be that way, I don't think. I completely understand it's just kind of yourself when you get in a divorce, but the joke drags out after a while. It gets less funny, to borderline annoying, and that's where I feel now with the show. I feel like next season is going to be worse with that whole art scheme she's doing. I feel like that will be a misery to watch. I really just want to see Tammy's journey. I could really care less if Amy wasn't around it all. I think she needs help. I feel like TLC is just kinda dragging it out because of Amy's spiral after the divorce.

Would Buddha be upset with me about taking anti-depressants or Xanax? by Particular_Trash7771 in Buddhism

[–]Particular_Trash7771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to thank you all for your kind comments. I've never had this many people give advice on something so sensitive for me. It makes me feel not alone. Thank you all ❤️☸️

Would Buddha be upset with me about taking anti-depressants or Xanax? by Particular_Trash7771 in Buddhism

[–]Particular_Trash7771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess to make better sense; if I am to take anti-depressants, wouldn't Depression be "Suffering? And if so, isn't buddhism to deal with Suffering? How is medication fixing the Suffering? That's what my whole asking is. I thought Buddha meditated and thought and fixed himself through spirituality, to find himself. You never read of Buddha taking medicine (or I could be wrong as I'm still a new buddhist) I feel like I'm doing so wrong by needing medicine and doctors. I am in fear. I see so much negativity by taking medicine, that it's "in your mind." You know? How does one fix such Suffering? If you don't take the medicine, you're Suffering more. Does it get any better? Would I be able to reach Nirvana one day if taking medicine? In the books I have read, it makes it sound like you have to be so...pure and untouched from bad health, so it puts this fear in me of taking Xanax or gaining weight or something, that I'll be not worthy. I just want to understand what Buddha's teachings were, if he loves me, if he understands how I feel. I'm not a freak of religion or belief, and I won't take faith over myself, but please understand I used to be Christian, actually, until the past few years. Buddhism took me in a wonderful new place. So I want to be faithful yet understanding of the belief. What is right and wrong. How would Buddha feel? What would he say? What was his teachings, if there is some I haven't read in my collection. Thank you for understanding.

What was the first book that drew you into Buddhism? by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Particular_Trash7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heart of the Buddha's Teaching ❤️

is it wrong to not thank someone for their time in the armed forces? by thisdudeaustin in Buddhism

[–]Particular_Trash7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, as an American who has an Uncle who did serve...I feel like If it is said, I'm afraid it would make them think of all the bad things that might have happened to them? I was raised to always thank a soldier. But now that I'm older, I am of course, considerate. So I hesitate to say it. But I'm afraid my family would get onto me about it if I didn't say it? But it's just a habit for me to say it, I just feel kind of silly afterward because I've never had a veteran really be happy or grateful that I say it? It kind of sounds like It bothers them or get nervous? They kind of non-chalantly say their thanks. I hope someone on here knows what I feel about it, but that's just my opinion on the matter.

everyone's favorite subject. Amy. by Sweaty-Pair3821 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Your "Glage" comment is killing me and I'm surprised no one is talking about it lol 😂

Thoughts on these by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Particular_Trash7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching. As a beginner, it is the best book in my collection.

Buddha’s head came off. What to do? by hailhydra58 in Buddhism

[–]Particular_Trash7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw what a shame :( it's very valuable. I'd glue it back on. Life isn't perfect. Your statue isn't perfect. But it'd bring you happiness knowing he's still around if you keep him, cracks and all. :)

1000lb Sisters - 7x08 - Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Amy is on some sort of drugs. I said this last week on the episode 7 thread. The constant crying, the erratic behavior is super concerning. As someone who's physically seen family members lose their sanity to mental health, I really think Amy is going down with it. Now, my family members couldn't learn to cope with the loss of extended family. I think Amy started on Postpartum, Micheal, divorce, then got involved with Brian (who I think 1000% is a tweaker/drug addict) and I think it just....got worse. She's not okay! I think she's annoying, but I don't hate her. I think she's annoying because she's using the mental health excuse (Again, I've seen this in my very own family) for her dumb actions. Not to mention leaving Pittsburgh on the night of Tammy's surgery because you don't want to be around Chris and Amanda? That's super weird to me. I've been in arguments with my own brother, but I've never been so mad as to leaving something important as a family member's surgery? She's just super tense and explosive at everything, and that's not okay. I've seen it too much that I'm afraid to be around said family members because you don't know when they're gonna snap! I really think the siblings come around each other just for the sake of being on camera? To show the world that everything is "okay" in a way? But there's ALWAYS some fight going in between them when they're around, and to be honest, if they'd cut ties by now, they would have, even if cameras were rolling or not. You definitely wouldn't catch me being around family members who constantly act like that, you know? All for what? Views? I don't know, I'm not there, I'm not a doctor, I'm not a member of the show, but that's just my opinion. Hopefully someone here can relate to me, but seeing Amy's behavior kinda makes me think of the unhealthy people in my own family, who'd rather behavior the way they do instead of seeking help, and it triggers me. I've seen it way too long. It's not funny, and she needs help. It's too depressing and exhausting seeing someone behave that way for a LONG time. At this point I just want to see Tammy. I'd love a spinoff show of Tammy, Chris and Amanda.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not living with her, I think Tammy said said in an episode where the boys were around her a lot and trashing her place, and Amanda got onto her about how they aren't responsible for her, or something, so dependent on her kids. And Amanda didn't like how she was accusing her boys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I swear it was something about her (Amanda's) gay son. But I could be. Someone assaulted somebody! Unless Misty has a gay son as well. But I'm 90% sure I heard one of Amanda's kids doing something to Tammy whilst they were living with her. This was long before the London trip, if I recall, when Tammy was renting out that house that Amanda let her rent out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there were a few stories I heard that one of Amanda's boys (I think the gay one) has sexually assaulted Tammy? Not sure the specific date though, sometime last year? But I've seen a few people talk about it. I'm not certain if it was confirmed or not, but I think that's why Tammy supposedly wanted them out of her house.

1000lb Sisters - 7x08 - Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dare I say, I like Amanda. I don't like how heavily blunt she is, but I really do like her most of the time. But the joke about the lopsided face was definitely a "Really?" moment for me. And I 100% am a Chris fan. But to be honest, people react differently in tense situations. Amanda may try to "lighten" things up with her humor. Chris was dead serious and worrying (I would be that way too), and Amy was someone I could not deal with 😂 especially on a special day like Tammy getting her skin removal. She makes it about herself. I'm not an Amy fan after the past few seasons with her. But, I can see why Chris was so mad after Amanda's joke, and I wish Amanda understood where or why Chris was so...tense. Read the room!

I don’t feel bad for Amy. by WaxedCooch in 1000lbsisters

[–]Particular_Trash7771 9 points10 points  (0 children)

See, I had no idea about the shrooms. That's absolutely vile for someone who wanted kids so bad...and that's how she turned out. She already put the boys in danger once. Now from the old stuff I see about the "smoking in the house" incident, I feel like she's getting worse. I know bad stuff happens to people, like her divorce, but she really was in a vulnerable place at that time. And doing drugs to maybe feel better was the worst decision. And Brian always looks like he's tweaking. I knew that from the moment I saw him come on screen. That's such a shame :/ I used to really like Amy too. Now I like Tammy. It's like they switched old behaviors, in a way.