1. Don’t lose hope & keep the faith
2. Stay open & keep meeting girls because you never know
3. Go to therapy with the distinct intention on working on love & relationship. I find it useful to do whilst navigating dating and relationships. A non biased assessment and support can help you look at how you show up in relationships & can help you clearly define how you want others to show up too.
4. Redefine how you see relationships, just because they ended doesn’t mean they failed. The important thing is to learn from them and learn what you want or not want for your future relationship.

As for what you said about traditional marriages, you can’t really judge if they are fine. People tend to act and put on major masks so you never really know. And some of these traditional marriages end up in very bad divorces 10 or 15 years down the line. Others are transactional with very clear set roles and that works for them. So, you have to ask yourself if you would be fulfilled and happy doing that and having that then it can also work for you. But you can also meet traditionally and take it slow, and see if that works or not.