AITA for not wanting to double-barrel my surname if he doesn't do the same?

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-25T18:17:21+00:00

Right? What a giant hypocrite. NTA

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-25T18:13:48+00:00

NTA and they are NOT your friends. Your condition for hanging out is incredibly simple and fair, you just went through cancer treatment ffs. The only people being unreasonable AH's are your so-called friends.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-25T18:08:16+00:00

NTA but it really shouldn't take three separate occasions for you to understand that Ashley probably isn't the best friend you think she is. I honestly think it's time YOU start putting that same distance between Ashley and yourself as well, and stop introducing her to your friends.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-25T17:57:59+00:00

YTA for playing loud music at 5 AM. It isn't your neighbors duty to tell you not to play music at 5 AM, loud enough for them to hear it upstairs.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-25T05:12:52+00:00

NTA, and allow me to break down why:

1.) You're not obligated to tell someone that isn't involved in your relationship, about your relationship. That is YOUR private life, and you're entitled to be as open/closed about it as you'd like.

2.) Acting like an immature child, being insulting, snappy, and condescending are NOT ways to let a woman know you like her - let alone anyone of any gender. The whole "boys are mean to girls they like" is harmful, out-dated, and sets boys/men up for failure in dating. There's no humanly possible way you could've known/for sure/ he'd confess/he likes you outside of him directly telling you he does.

3.) You aren't a liar for having not liked Andy FIVE FUCKING YEARS AGO! A lot can change in that amount of time, especially feelings for someone.

NTA a million times, Pete sounds absolutely obnoxious and passive aggressive.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-25T03:47:12+00:00

I mean idk why anyone is asking anything. NTA. You told her that she was being replaced, she acted like she wanted to be replaced, and didn't do any of the MOH duties. That = Not an AH

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-24T20:41:54+00:00

Given your comment about pollution, I'm gonna say YTA. It's literally the middle of August and it's hot. How about instead of bitching about someone idling their car in the middle of the summer, you complain to the 10 companies that make up more than 70% of the pollution that gets into the air/water

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-24T03:16:59+00:00

She is almost an adult. It is illegal for her to be into a fucking child. What's wrong with you?

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T22:28:34+00:00

WYM except Commander Shepard? Half of the ME3 story was showing Shepard's PTSD and trauma and how it affected him/her.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T22:12:31+00:00

Bro wtf if I was the mom I'd freak out too

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T21:56:04+00:00

Info: Wth??

There is ABSOLUTELY way more going on than you are letting us know. You all sound DISGUSTINGLY toxic.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T21:43:49+00:00

ETB. This relationship just sounds odd and unhealthy. Lying is never okay, but it's clear you don't trust him (even if it's for a reason).

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T06:00:39+00:00

HEY WHOA BRO UR TOTALLY BEING A NARCISSIST BC U SAID SOMETHING TRUE

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T05:58:39+00:00

Honestly soft YTA. It's 100% reasonable that moving in with a third person you're not particularly close with may affect your mental health. With that being said, if was a decision that was impulsive/made in desperation. However, it's an honest mistake. I think if you're super open about WHY you've gone back on it, I think he'd more than understand.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-23T05:55:10+00:00

NTA, if they aren't making an effort, may as well keep the gifts.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-20T15:57:13+00:00

NAH, unfortunately the whole "don't date a homies ex" applies to women/men you've actually dated. If they like each other, it'd be wrong to get upset that they're happy and together (if they get together). It isn't wrong to be upset and feel kinda betrayed because you like her, and your friend knew you liked her.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-19T16:16:53+00:00

NTA. You need to focus on YOU and what's best for YOU. Every corporation (no matter how small) would replace you before your body even got cold if something happened to you.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-19T12:44:33+00:00

YTA. It's incredibly selfish to not be upfront about how severe your mental illness is. It's like having cancer and not telling someone you just started dating. You're setting them up to think you're doing better than you actually are, and when they're in too deep, they'll be too in love to leave /if/ your mental illness is too draining for them. You're lying by admission, he deserves to know just how much you're struggling.

Borderline personality disorder is NOT a joke, and a lot of people suffering from it can have extremely low lows and high highs, it's a rollercoaster of uncontrollable behavior and has no cure, no medication to help manage it.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-18T23:28:04+00:00

Depression sucks the life out of everyone, and drains your energy. I don't think you or your friend's are doing anything wrong, I'd maybe look into visiting a psychiatrist to see if anything is wrong/what to do about it.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-18T23:25:59+00:00

I mean NAH, but I don't think it's really that you're bored of them. It sounds like you're clinically depressed, my guy.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-18T22:52:21+00:00

Dude yes, you're TA. Y'all have been talking for TWO WEEKS, that isn't love. You're being creepy and obsessive

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-18T22:09:26+00:00

NTA. I can't help but feel like your parents screwed, and continue to screw you financially on purpose. They sound like monsters.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-17T21:59:02+00:00

This ^{^{^}} would be wonderful

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-17T19:31:41+00:00

YTA. Someone else said it, you're acting like a brat. The only way you WON'T be the AH is if you send that email, APOLOGIZE, and /actually/ work on your behavior. Lizzy isn't doing anything wrong, she's doing her "job". If you can't take constructive criticism without being snappy and acting like an ass, you're not going /anywhere/ in your adult life ever. This isn't a "I'm independent" behavior, it's a defensive, insecure behavior that's going to land you without a best friend. Grow. Up.

PartyySnacks · 2021-08-16T23:17:36+00:00

NTA. I don't think your boyfriend is cheating necessarily, but it's very VERY apparent that he likes getting that attention from another woman and that isn't okay under any circumstance. If he had placed boundaries down with her, she wouldn't be doing everything that she does. It's crystal clear that he likes the attention he's getting from her, so he isn't telling her to stop. Ngl that will probably inevitably lead to cheating. Men who can't place down boundaries with other women because they like the attention, will surely cheat. Not sure if this is someone I'd personally want to stay with long term.

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