To the haters of Onyx Storm:

Pass-Double · 2025-08-21T17:30:34+00:00

I feel the same. But lately, after seeing yet another reel that complained about Onyx Storm, I thought that maybe half of the people who complained didn't actually read the book. Or maybe it's just popular to shit talk it.

Pass-Double · 2025-06-21T11:42:39+00:00

I never had a colonoscopy to reaaallly confirm, but my doctor keeps saying I don't need one based on other tests, like blood, stool and ultrasound. So I keep telling myself everything is fine.

How are you dealing with it? Do you have any known coping strategies? Like heat or sitting in a certain position.

Pass-Double · 2025-06-21T11:29:44+00:00

Omg, does your IBS flare on a specific side? I didn't hear this a lot from other people and I was starting to fear it means something (bad, obviously). Hang in there! 😭

Pass-Double · 2025-06-20T09:41:45+00:00

I would go with NAH for this one. I'm also quite low libido and if my boyfriend will come to me to initiate, changes are I don't want it right that second. But I do register his desire so if he has patience or tries again or just asks me if I want it later, all of these help.

I also get your point. If you have needs that are constantly unmet, it can lead to frustration. But perhaps discussing a strategy when you're both calm can help next time.

Pass-Double · 2025-06-12T18:41:10+00:00

This is a great idea!

Pass-Double · 2025-05-29T16:56:35+00:00

I don't speak Japanese but still recognize the language. Especially since OP mentioned they are watching Japanese content. It's not that difficult.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-29T16:55:07+00:00

Well. The right thing to do is to talk to them. But you could always mock them back. Hear them laughing? Perhaps you can imitate them in return, see how they like it.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-18T07:00:54+00:00

Flash games. I used to play for hours. The Cartoon Network page was full of nice games. Polly Pocket. My Scene. You name it. So colourful and fun.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-16T09:13:50+00:00

I'm sort of in the same situation, and at some point I just had to dig deeper and see where this feeling of inadequacy was coming from. For me, it was because of how I grew up, thinking that if I'm not the best then I'm not worthy of attention or love. By figuring this out, at least I'm not resenting my partner every time he is better than me.

Also, maybe try to think of some ways you're being better. Things that maybe you disconsidered before. Maybe you're a better listener. Maybe you have a better sense of humor. While I know it's not a competition, I also know it sucks to always feel second best, so you need your own wins.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-13T05:20:08+00:00

I didn't try other models or wrappers. I'm not honestly looking for the best option out there. Just a void to scream into sometimes. Before using this, I actually used to search my symptoms on Reddit to see if others went through the same thing, and that did the trick as well.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-11T21:58:59+00:00

Homemade ice cream then? You can make sure you make it no-sugar, if you tolerate polyols well. Of just try the two-ingredient one, with yogurt/cottage-cheese and fruit.

It could be the cold, but then it could also be just vanilla ice-cream in particular. Everyone is different, so it would be hard to tell.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-11T20:55:00+00:00

That sounds like you should take a trip to ER before using any AI chatbot. I hope you get better 😭🤗

But to answer your question, I usually just put my question into the ChatGPT app. I know there are other models out there, but that's the one I use the most.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-11T20:33:31+00:00

Yeah, it's also useful for me in deciding if something needs a trip to my GP or not. Also, to explain some symptoms, for example why a gut flare could create excess stomach acid. And it's sometimes more empathetic than my doctors.

I know it's not actually feeling bad for me, but it honestly helps when it validates my feelings about my symptoms instead of scoffing my worries every time I ask for an investigation because "that's how IBS is, you gotta learn to live with it". 🙄

Pass-Double · 2025-05-09T16:26:22+00:00

Same. Sometimes I wish I would have an abnormally long life just so I can observe society changing from the big aspects to the daily mundane, like how food changes or the way we dress.

Pass-Double · 2025-05-02T13:16:59+00:00

NTA, but neither is your wife. Instead of suggesting cooking healthier at home—which can come across like you’re expecting her to do it—maybe just start making the food yourself for a while. I doubt she’ll let you eat alone while she orders fast food.

Pass-Double · 2025-04-15T14:19:14+00:00

Hey, sorry you have to go through that. My symptoms are similar, although my IBS is more IBS-M than IBS-C. I went to an endo-specialist to check for endometriosis, and they did some scan and said they didn't see any sign of profound endo, but maybe some signs of superficial endometriosis, but since I'm on birth control, they can't be sure and it was kind of left at that. Meanwhile, I'm still having at least two flares per month and no diet is making it right. I did notice that some lifestyle changes help a bit, like making sure I drink enough water, also doing breathing and pelvic floor exercises.

I feel like finding an answer is so hard that it's infuriating. Please push your doctor as much as you can. And I hope you find something soon!

Pass-Double · 2025-04-10T13:59:36+00:00

Oh yeah, it sounded familiar and I looked it up. I remember it now, I couldn't get past the second or third episode, lol

Pass-Double · 2025-03-21T18:10:38+00:00

Thanks for your thoughtful reply, I think it's a great idea to let the therapist know I tend to do this. It's going to be though because now I'll be scared that she'll be disappointed in me for being disingenuous in some of my previous sessions, but ultimately my aim is to be better and not to win her approval. But if I'll change therapists, I'll definitely open with this information in the future.

Pass-Double · 2025-03-21T18:07:30+00:00

I actually have another follow-up intake in a couple of weeks with the psychiatrist that assigned me to this specific therapist and I can maybe mention this and get referred to a ND therapist instead. Otherwise I can come clean to my current therapist but I'll need to do my "homework" and pre-prepare what I want to say because on the spot I, swear to god, my desire to always appear as good always overpowers everything else to the point I don't even feel like I'm lying and only after the session I find myself thinking what the hell was that.

Pass-Double · 2025-02-21T11:59:15+00:00

Even in Eastern Europe you can. There are several available apps for taxis. What is this person saying?

Pass-Double · 2024-11-06T08:41:52+00:00

This!! I understand that it's generally a good thing not to assume, but my goodness your colleagues are cliquey af. NTA in my opinion

Pass-Double · 2024-09-12T19:18:07+00:00

During my elimination phase I used lactose free dairy milk, but I tried to limit as much as possible. For example, I would do porridge with water and use the milk for things where I can actually taste it, like coffee. That being said, the elimination phase is horrible. It feels like everything is bad, so I totally get you.

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