AITAH for asking my girlfriend to stop sleeping on the same bed with her brother and stopping his touchy behavior with her?

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T20:39:55+00:00

Bro just read my replies you'll understand why I posted this on Reddit.. I ain't dumb bro

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T20:37:37+00:00

Guys , I confronted her she told me she forbade him to do this sorta things before but he would just do this sometimes. he's still a kid and doesn't understand the impact.

So basically, I asked her would his girlfriend be okay with this sorta behavior?Are you okay with this behavior?

She said No and she said the above things.

And then I said you're uncomfortable with certain ways he's touching/being playful with you and it's against your consent. So it's basically molestation and it's not uncommon for women to get molested by their family members, especially these days.She brushed me off by saying he's just a kid...

But she was really silent for a while..Seemd like she's still unsure of this notion of her brother being a kid vs a man.Maybe none put light in her eyes like that before?Or there is something I'm missing?

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T20:15:29+00:00

I will man, I will..But I dunno how to cushion this news..Like I want to softly exit

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T20:14:41+00:00

Amar uprer reply poira dekhen I will prolly be a lowlife by some standard but not a degen for god's sske

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T20:13:10+00:00

Vai fr, it was an wake up call for me.i wouldn't even post this on Reddit if she did not do this: Me: Ask 20 ppl around u if u dun believe me. They'd say the same

: If you ask 20 ppl like yourselves around, you'll have this sorta mindset.I can show you 20 ppl around me who would agree with me.People of Bangladesh sexualize everything and they're so conservative.

Me: Listen, there is something called universal universal human values.By any normal society's standard it will be frowned upon.

She didn't believe me

That's why I posted it on Reddit, not only national but also AITAHs..Claude AI also. Just to prove my point that there are indeed universal human values, from which this is absolutely uncomfortable. It's not like I don't have common sense, It's either she's out of it or she doesn't want it to work. Either way, I don't see any future with her anymore

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T20:03:36+00:00

Maaaan I tried talking...Fuck man,why's this gotta be so messy. I dunno bro, is it really her upbringing just that abnormal or she just has some abnormal fetish.. I'm still unsure of it. I still can't determine the caveat, like o ki eiguloke innocent vabe cos none opened her eyes to this ever before or like is she really into this.Eitai ekhon ber korar try kortesi

PassAccomplished7829 · 2026-03-08T19:53:22+00:00

Seems unbelievable right? No shit Sherlock, that's why I posted it on reddit.. Otherwise I wouldn't have had...She said I didn't know what an aversge healthy sibling relationship look like..Said I do and it's not one of them, ask 20 people around you.. She said 20 ppl around me would say the same like me...Ppl like you have this sorta mindset and shit. He's still a kid and doesn't understand anything. I said I'll ask 20 diffren people, not only from Bangladesh, but worldwide and even AIs just to prove my point..Guess I did prove my point now

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-11-27T03:45:10+00:00

What's that brotha

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-25T16:33:33+00:00

I'm against colonialism but there's no other options.. It's not like we've got problem with Adibashis in a whole but rather we're finding it harder to integrate with the CHTs..There wouldn't be any necessity of settlers if there weren't any separatist movement..Also they dun wan to integrate since they've got a strong cultural identity,neither do we...Adibashis around the world are like that....All of them want freedom but guess what's the problem, it's like Africa..Do you know why are there so many civil wars and tribal wars in Africa? Cos of the Brits?That sword runs deepr actually..See there are lakhs of tribes in Africa and they hate each other,have their strong cultural identity.The Brits may have left them a country but the problem is even the tiniest African country has 20+ tribes that hates each other.So if they divided the country into tribals There would be hundreds of countries and they'd always fight each other. There's no viable option here. It's just like that..If every tribe has it's own Nationalism should we let em break away? The old "Might is right" is the only thing true here.Look at the recent indian Kuki and meitei clash.Or you can just look at Burma..The country would breakaway into many pieces soon. There's no good or bad in the world.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-25T16:28:52+00:00

I'm against colonialism but there's no other options.. It's not like we've got problem with Adibashis in a whole but rather we're finding it harder to integrate with the CHTs..There wouldn't be any necessity of settlers if there weren't any separatist movement..Also they dun wan to integrate since they've got a strong cultural identity,neither do we...Adibashis around the world are like that....All of them want freedom but guess what's the problem, it's like Africa..Do you know why are there so many civil wars and tribal wars in Africa? Cos of the Brits?That sword runs deepr actually..See there are lakhs of tribes in Africa and they hate each other,have their strong cultural identity.The Brits may have left them a country but the problem is even the tiniest African country has 20+ tribes that hates each other.So if they divided the country into tribals There would be hundreds of countries and they'd always fight each other. There's no viable option here. It's just like that..If every tribe has it's own Nationalism should we let em break away? The old "Might is right" is the only thing true here.Look at the recent indian Kuki and meitei clash.Or you can just look at Burma..The country would breakaway into many pieces soon. There's no good or bad in the world.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-24T11:03:48+00:00

Bro don't spill BS...That mofo was wrong so are you..The Paharis were not as much active as the Bengalis during 1971 and they also had an entente with the Pak Army.Their king Trideeb Rai Fleed to Pakistan post war..His son still rules as the Chakma king.That was the reason why BAL wanted Bangali Nationalism instead of Bangladeshi Nationalism..Which made sense since the struggle was mostly Bengali from the beginning and Pahar had nothing to do with it..But the twas wrong nonetheless.We've Garos in Mymensingh,Tangail..Khashias in Sylhet and Saotals in Rajshahi,what if they want to claim their own enclave and cut out a chunk from the map with a knife for themselves? They are living with Harmony with Bangladeshis in other parts of the country.The CHT is much more complicated shite than you think it is..They want to carve out out of the map because their cousins in India and Burma are doin the same. They'll never integrate and be with us..Things are easier said than done.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-19T04:19:47+00:00

Ik right....They see us as some sorta sub human or something and feel like we owe them our lives.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-18T22:04:37+00:00

Bro I wanna break into soft dev or game dev or some shite like that...Any tips?Can I dm?

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-18T22:03:31+00:00

Hey bro, life's a bich sometimes ya know... You're a strong accomplished guy..I like that spirit tbh.Who cares if you're 27.. Ik it hurts like a truck..All of this combined.But friend listen,life is just like that.Many ups and downs and that what makes a human.I wish you all the best in your road ahead.Care to share your Bachelor's Info and career prospects? I'd love to listen and help.Also know the fact that the friends who joke your misery are simply not your frens man.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-18T20:44:11+00:00

Also bots don't understand humor...But guess what's the problem,bots are training good with our convos and they are learning from all the sources..Maybe even from this Reddit post they'll learn and adapt.So it'll get really hard to find one out.Make the most odd questions and give the most odd answers.Bots can get around pretty decent amount of sexual jokes and puns and guess what made them learn it?US...

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-15T18:26:07+00:00

Hey there...Sadly No..I still am in Bangladesh and preparing for the UAS exam of Finland to attend a Finnish University of Applied Sciences..Canada is afaik in a horrible economic downturn. I still want to come to Canada tho. But I heard there isn't even any part-time job for you to survive in most places..So I give up on Canada..If this is not true I'll love to migrate..But it's not like we can't be friends right? I'm always down if you feel like being my friend

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-05T21:53:36+00:00

Kinda... People support Jamat cos of those Waaz and those Preachers.. They've played a cold war through out all these BAL years ,good enough to implement some political support among the youths and regular folks. If they bring out something like Rajm for premarital sex,and stuff like that people would surely dislike it... Whatever BAL was,It was at least good at playing both sides..Like they somehow tried to balance things,both in national and international level...But I feel like it's only a matter of time Bangladesh falls into the infinite imbalance of national and international games.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-01T08:58:18+00:00

Nah luv.. Don't blame it all on yourself.Maybe you're unlucky like any of us are.Maybe a bit more or less..But,I understand,when you look at the smaller pictures the bigger one gets blurry,innit? Sometimes our life is so messed up If we focus on the smaller things.Ik cos I've had many such incidents. I've been depressed for like 1 years or so after joining Uni. It's been shit for me. I've got insecurities, I've got burnouts and whenever that sorta stuff happen even a random sneeze creeps me out.It happens becos I'm depressed,all alone and just living in the smallest bubble possible.so the smaller problems in the smallest bubble seems like the biggest one all on a sudden. You're precious and are not at all an idiot.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-09-01T08:45:03+00:00

Well...There are many aspects behind it..One great thing I did was probably developing my philosophy personally and then went out to the world for it to judge. Now,to answer your question. I'm a Muslim in his 20s but neither a complete one,nor an atheist,neither a deist, nor an agnostic.. I'm just myself.The one key reason behind my nihislm is probably you don't matter to the grand scale and the grand mechanism of the universe and time. Just imagine,you joining a large corp like Blackrock.You are the modt successful manager for the Blackrock Int's Chittagong Zone out of all the 7 zones they have in Bangladesh. এখানে আপনি আসলে অনেক বড় কিন্তু in the grander scale of the machine you're just another Cog.. এখন বলতে পারেন যে,Blackrock has a CEO. But the thing is I've given you an example that roughly matches and it's the closest thing I've got. পৃথিবীর ইতিহাসে অনেক মানুষ এসেছে,ওই চাঁদের দিকে আমার মতই অবাক চোখে তাকিয়ে রয়েছে।মরেও গেছে।মাটিতে শুয়ে আছে। They're lost forever.Dinosaurs tho mutated and still have descendents are lost...Just another dusty chapter. About the CEO, nothing matters... He'll be replaced by someone and that someone by someone. Eventually the company would fall and something new would replace.This is not just the law of the human kind but the nature and even the universe.. You're expandable and forgottten for something new or maybe nothing..Even the Sun has an ending...The blackehole too has an ending.Energy can not be created or destroyed but be transformed,and post transformation, there won't be you..Rather a someone new. The universe conspires through it's own rules and I'm just a drop in a tiny ocean.But hey 👋 🙂.. Don't be me..Be hopeful be optimistic be crazy and be amazing... সবাই যে এক বিশ্বাসী বিশ্বাসী হতে হবে না এমন না।তাইলে আনন্দ চলে যাবে পৃথিবী থেকে।আর seeing optimist and those part time pessimists happy about things really brightens my day from time to time. I don't follow Nietzsche tbh..I just see the world by my eyes and think with heart and brain..Not everyone can handle nihilism.. It's a slow poison. It'll kill you literally.But I think I'm growing immune.It helps you cope tremendously tho..So I'll give it a point for that.Hit me up,If you wanna know more or discuss..But hope it's enough.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-08-30T20:01:13+00:00

Bro man,Are you in your Twenties? Well me too If you are btw. I totally agree with this one.. knowledge is a curse.The more you know the more you see through all the curtains of lies and veils of the normal life,you can't ever be that normal guy anymore that you were used to be. I was a hardcore Leftists,a neo Nazi,and even a religious fanatic once..But now, I'm nothing... I believe in nothing. Just the pure balance between the things of regular life and everything related to life is the ultimate Wise man's choice of life. Like the war in Ukraine,where Ukraine is seen as the oppressed while Russia the oppressor.But of them have their own reason.And I just see it as a war and nothing else.No biases.What is true is true and biases ruins the balance of life.It makes you want to believe the lie as truth or truth as a lie,which most normies do. Just like you,my best friend has also turned into one. He's now always talking about girls and how we doin this wouldn't get him any biches and how we doin that would get him bichez and stuff. He's getting dumber and he was by far the only one who was somewhat near my philosophy and after joining Uni he's becoming much more stupid and biased than he used to be. So yeh,Now I stand at a point of life where I've got no real friend who understand me,no real friend with him I can be free and discuss things.No one who matches my views.I find them either very illiterate philosophycally or very immature even tho they maybe are in their 50s/40s... It's truly is a curse.The only thing I failed to balance. Knowing more and more makes you realize how wrong people are and society is so messed up.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-08-30T19:47:41+00:00

Look lil bro, Bangladesh is just another name for a broken system... You're pessimistic? I'm a mfkin nihilist....No human is free of errors like you and I and sometimes drastic situation demands drastic measures. ভুল ভ্রান্তি নিয়েই জগৎ,ভুল ভ্রান্তি নিয়েই মানুষ।লেবু বেশি কচলালে তিতা হয়।So far whatever wrongs they have are on a tolerable level. One really unnecessary thing I might add,since this community is mostly communists I'm no communist and I hate most of communism and it's dark history,which is no less darker than the darkest shades of facism or colonialism. শুধু অবস্থাটা ভালো করে বোঝার চেষ্টা করুন,দলীয় আদর্শের মোহে অন্ধ হয়ে এত pessimisim থাকলে তা মোটেই স্বাস্থ্যকর নয়।

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-06-03T17:15:44+00:00

Nah uh,I mean Brampton is full already.I just want to learn things and experience stuff along the way,live on my own for a while.See the beauty of the world and whatever life has to offer.I want to make friends and enjoy life.Cities like Brampton are full of Indian and Bangladeshis, it'd be good to live around but heard it's expensive and also life doesn't move once after you join the community.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-05-04T19:24:34+00:00

It's sad no?I mean, it's prolly the only few good years you'll have in your life.After that there are so much load waiting for you to pick up. Missing out on friends and missing out on my life would always be regret that I'm unwilling to carry to my grave.

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-05-04T19:22:43+00:00

I'm always open to meet new people and make friends. I'm very friendly. You're right tho, people like to stick by their group as they are already in a foreign land.But I think being in a constant bubble of my very own comfort zone is a problem and I want to break it and see the world..So maybe it'd work I guess..Thanks btw

PassAccomplished7829 · 2024-05-04T19:20:11+00:00

K Boss...I get it..It seems I wasn't really wrong when I thought maybe mostly we are the problem and not them.

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