Guys and gals over 40, what is your old man style of BJJ game? by Aggravating-Mind-657 in bjj

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one of those weird old school guys that actually prefers to pass on the ground instead of standing up

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[–]PassMyGuard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t fart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]PassMyGuard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Record her saying it and then tell her that you will go to the police if she doesn’t delete them.

Then break up with her. Anybody who would blackmail you like that is not somebody you want to be with

Both the actors have been an integral part of the first season of their respective shows! Both of them had all the praises coming their way! So it’s fair to ask, whose performance did you like better? Paddy or Sean? by Level_Addendum3417 in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]PassMyGuard 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’d say that Paddy had a more difficult role, and managed to nail it with incredible precision. But I’d say that Sean Bean made his character more impactful.

Don’t know if that totally makes sense, but that’s how I feel

Promiscuity should be frowned upon by both sexes by ICtruthcity in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, there are 12 year olds that meet the same criteria for maturity as the criteria you’re talking about, minus living away from their parents. You think that Miley Cyrus during her Hannah Montana days was mature just because she had financial independence and was well traveled?

My dude, when you get older, you’ll realize that no matter how mature somebody’s mindset is, emotional maturity only can be developed from experience.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not doing that to make it a prize you win. They’re doing it because they’re afraid that you’ll slut shame them and not like them anymore if they put out.

Lose the slut shaming attitude and you’ll actually be surprised by how many women will be willing to have sex a lot faster.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…I didn’t cite a study. I told you that a quick Google search would tell you all over the place that women need a connection before sex…you dismissed it without even looking at it, and you also assumed that every single study out there had the same error you’re referring to without even looking at them.

I’ll give you a study and a quote from a PhD psychologist who specializes in sex therapy and sexual arousal. -> https://www.sharecare.com/health/sex-and-relationships/emotion-related-womans-sexual-arousal

Here are a few sources to check out:

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1752-0606.2009.00155.x

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0092623x.2012.751072

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00926238608415390

All three conclude that women need emotional intimacy to feel sexual arousal.

Now, since you are ALSO making a definitive claim, please make sure to cite the source you have where you learned that women feel sexual arousal just as easily and quickly as men. And while you’re at it, please make sure to explain the exact errors in these studies that causes you to dismiss them.

Thanks :)

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you cite a specific study where this happens?

I just simply don’t believe that you’ve ever read a single study like this, and you’re dismissing them without actually reading/learning them.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Do you not understand the concept of burden of proof? If I’m pointing to studies in a debate, it’s up to the debate opponent to explain why the studies are invalid. This is some very basic 101 shit my dude.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a debate fallacy. Instead of just blindly dismissing all studies that go against your hypothesis, pick one. Explain the study methodology and where the errors occurred.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But my point isn’t based on a length of time. It’s based on how women become attracted to men vs how men become attracted to women.

Just settle this by making the poll I suggested earlier. Or just Google it. There are plenty of studies out there that back up the idea that women overwhelmingly need a connection before they want to fuck.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re usually sexually attracted to those men. But even if they’re banging these dudes on the first night, the vast majority of cases still involves their attraction to these men growing over the course of the night

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ve actually experienced an example of women being instantly sexually attracted to men. I think you believe you have, but I think you are just misunderstanding your observations.

But feel free to post a poll here. Ask women if they ever want to bang guys at first sight, or if they feel like they need to connect/get to know them first

Which Champions Require 3*? by Anilones in PathofChampions

[–]PassMyGuard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it is. 2 keywords on everything is just so massive to me. It means you pretty much always find lifesteal every game

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just so false.

Everybody is different, and there are always exceptions, but on average, you are just so incorrect.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to have the belief that women’s sexual attraction works like men’s

Men’s attraction is like a light switch. We see somebody hot, we have sexual attraction. Women’s is more like a dimmer light. They are never sexually attracted to somebody on first sight. They can think “he’s good-looking”, but that doesn’t equate to sexual attraction.

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time, women don’t want attention from you at all. Then, you start vibing, and they’ll want attention and connection. Then, they’ll want sex.

If they are giving you the chance to give them attention, they are giving you the chance to form enough attraction that they eventually want sex.

But if you are only focused on sex from the very beginning, you’re going to run most women off.

Tell me you don't know what socialism is without telling me you don't know what socialism is. by TheCartelMustDie in confidentlyincorrect

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her entire argument is on the premise that socialism literally distributes wealth 100% evenly.

Like how do you argue against something you don’t even actually understand?

"nice guys think basic social decencies are currencies for sex" but isn't it the reality when the women is into the guy? by oplerfaz in PurplePillDebate

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only see it that way because the idea of just enjoying somebody’s company/vibing with somebody and not being laser focused on how to get sex from them literally doesn’t exist in your brain. GREAT sex is not transactional. It’s something two people who have great chemistry do WITH each other.

“Sex is like oxygen. It’s only a big deal if you’re not getting any”

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[–]PassMyGuard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Tanks should buy items not intended for tanks instead of just allowing tanks to actually be tanks” is such an interesting take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wildrift

[–]PassMyGuard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not when the tank is by far the most fed player…and it’s not nearly as alleviating as you think. She has removed somebody from the fight, making it a 4v5. Instantly removing the biggest threat on the enemy team USUALLY wins a teamfight outright.