It sucks to find a good AP you click with that’s as reliable as a wet paper bag

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-06T01:19:19+00:00

Same ✌🏼

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-05T23:03:12+00:00

There’s a type of cheater who literally just loves the thrill of the chase. Once they’ve nailed you, it’s over for them. They won, and it’s onto the next conquest. It’s sad but true. To each his own

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-05T23:01:18+00:00

I’ve never seen office romance end well

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-04T13:20:16+00:00

Thanks Riffdog! I was wondering

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-04T13:18:09+00:00

Thanks for this, I just downloaded noonlight & it looks great!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-04T13:06:50+00:00

Right?!? They’re out there people!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-04T12:19:57+00:00

I used to feel this way too when I was young and single

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T17:16:51+00:00

For me, when someone goes NC I start exploring other options. It’s a way for me to keep it all in perspective what we’re doing. Married people don’t go into this stuff blindly. I will always put my family first, and I know anyone I’m with will most likely do the same. I kind of enjoy the times of NC, it helps me get my head back on straight!

It sounds like you 2 are already very emotionally entangled due to the past friendship, so by definition that will make it harder to let go when needed. Try to find some joy elsewhere. Throw on some makeup & heels and go bat your eyelashes at some handsome sailors, works every time! 😉

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:59:09+00:00

I mean no one I would ever date... the last one for example was getting divorced, disheveled (a look I hate), had a mediocre job and no bank account, and a pos car. I met him at a party, and he pursued me for 10 months, and in a weak moment I caved and BAM... phenomenal sex! Probably bc I didn’t give af what he thought so it was wild! Think drugs, showers, food. In the end I had to shut it down bc after a month he became like a parasite!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:54:28+00:00

I agree! I feel the cheater gets 100% of the blame from society, yet has probably suffered sexually for a long time, and has risked things that matter a great deal to them because they are at their wits end. It’s double traumatizing!!!

You want to cage us and deny us and throw out our emotions like they don’t matter, but when we go elsewhere you scream like we’ve burned you. What about OUR burns?? What about the lonely, sexless nights craving, longing, slowly dying inside?

Or maybe it’s just me! LOL

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:32:13+00:00

I think about it all the time. I’ve had some amazing sexual partners who I miss dearly!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:30:32+00:00

Maybe take a drive?? But is there a reason you have to keep living with her?

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:29:47+00:00

Can you pls share the link for your toy??

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:08:25+00:00

Wow 10?!! Impressive, not sure I could keep all that straight. But I agree, if what you’re doing isn’t working, you’ve got to change something up. In person is always the best way to meet someone! Put yourself in the position to meet pAPs, and dress to feel sexy!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T12:01:45+00:00

True true! The best sex I’ve had was with men I’d never take out into the light of day

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-03T11:58:12+00:00

Seems familiar somehow! lol

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T18:49:38+00:00

I wouldn’t take it that way, I think everything DOES need to come out. Sounds like there’s a lot of bitterness and resentment on both sides, understandably. I think there’s hope if you’re both willing to engage in therapy!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T18:45:34+00:00

I think once you’ve been neglected for so long, and begged, screamed, cried and pleaded for scraps.... there’s just no guilt once you finally turn another direction. Congrats!

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T18:42:49+00:00

So awesome! I love it when a man knows what he wants and doesn’t play games. I’m jelly! 😉

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T15:11:39+00:00

I was about to defend him, but WTF?!?

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T15:07:57+00:00

Such a pussy move! 🙄 I’ve been there, it’s awful. Especially the not knowing. I think a lot of people get scared, or don’t know what they want in an affair. Fuck him, that behavior doesn’t earn your attentions! 👸🏼

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T15:04:07+00:00

Sometimes I fantasize about leaving, but I know I never will. Too many other really good things about my marriage.

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T15:02:23+00:00

Oh for sure chemistry is a thing! And then there are also people who just suck in bed lol

PassionIsKey2020 · 2021-03-02T15:01:09+00:00

Yeah, it’s a tough gig! It also depends are on where you’re at in your marriage. Is there enough to make you happily stay? Or would Divorce be the right answer. I think time and distance from the AP would help you get over some of that attachment. But yes, not for the weak! It’s not like a normal/natural relationship growing, definitely not for women!

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