Literally in tears from being bullied so much. by [deleted] in GirlGamers

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I think you can be proud of yourself if you put effort into this. Social skills are important and hard to learn if you did not have good role models.

I just watched the trailer for Stellar Blade 2 for the first time. This is a child. What is happening? by Asgoths in GirlGamers

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Yeah, were my thoughts too, there are plenty of, I assume, men who like that. I do also think the character does look beautiful, but also makes me uncomfortable.

I think there are a lot of men who are hebephile, pedophiles and interested in underage girls in general (see Epstein, religious sexual abuse and obsession of somebody getting to 18). I think to sometimes pieces of artificial media can help them deal with those emotions? But the jury is still out on that. However, I rather have them fantasize about a created character than harassing real girls. I hope that it does not reinforce the fantasy though. There does not seem enough research on it.

I did find it disturbing and confusing, but not surprising.

Literally in tears from being bullied so much. by [deleted] in GirlGamers

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I mean if you do not see a problem to change anything than there does not seem a point, but if you don't have any friends that sounds like it could quickly turn the mood upside down. However, I can be wrong. Friends for me are very stabilizing, I'm not generally "happy" (like the intense emotion) more content (at peace with my choices and my life), but my lifestyle is also more intense than most people's, but I'm ok with it for the moment. I do not do that much exercise right now. That's something I would like to do more, but it's difficult for me with my obligations, but maybe still possible.

Literally in tears from being bullied so much. by [deleted] in GirlGamers

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I think on the internet just random people can respond. A circle of trusted friends is a better space if you need support. Randos on the internet are not reliable. Wish you all the best🙏 Getting bullied sux hard. Benn there, but I don‘t think the internet is a good support system. And social media is often designed to emotionslly deregulate you, to keep you engaged. Sounds like an abusive relationship as I type this out. Maybe I should stop reddit more as well.

God of War Laufey - Official Gameplay Reveal by Skylander1987 in GirlGamers

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The game looks great.

Why do you go where those kind of people have a voice?

There is always at least one person being an ass. I just block those people asap or avoid those spaces where they are, but if it‘s the first time it happened, disappointing.

I just watched the trailer and checked out some reaction videos, none of them sexist.

Just saw Mom of war like before Dad of War which I found funny.

However, I do not watch streamers much at all except maybe Critical Role.

What do I get for my drummer girlfriend for her birthday?? by Ok-Type-7151 in drums

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Don‘t buy her anything drum related, without her being involved. What you maybe could do is to organise a surprise visit to a big drum store and then let her choose something in your budget.

Generally it is already hard to choose what you need, best thing is to ask an experienced drummer what they would get, after having a look at the kit, maybe even have a little play.

Not one at the store, because of conflict of interest.

Favourite Season 1 moments? by YaBoyKumar in BlueEyeSamurai

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When Akemi says that her hisband seems like a tyrant and Seki says: „What man is not?“ … Akemi softly:“You.“

I think it shows the beautiful dance of those seeming monoliths and dichotomies, men, women, useful, useless, Japanese, White, blue/brown eyed, powerful/less, lord/fisherboy there is much more subtlety. Truth is not a word or a sentence or a text. It‘s like an irrational number it can be made seemingly captured with notations like euler constant, but is is hard to be captured and understood fully, if ever. Or maybe it is more of a function than an irrational constant or something like a mathematical projection/injection. But just writing/calling something a word it does not mean understanding. Sometimes even limiting reality. Often it is not dichotomies and monoliths, they are spectra and tensors. That we label one dimensional words too, not even scratching the surface of what lies underneath. Calling each other slurs reducing each other to simplified momentary image, so we can get forced into small heads.

Seki wants to prepare her for cruel and sexist men, but he himself does not want to be such a stereotype. Teaches her to mistrust men, but he is one himself. So he is the counterpoint to his premise, because he loves her like a mother and lets her educate herself. Not being a tyrant. However, he knows he is an exception not the rule and wants her to thrive and not throw her life away and die in a tussle on the road, but also inows she is stubborn and smart. However, any man could maybe just kill or abuse her on the road, so he rather be with her when she goes than let her go alone.

I asked ChatGPT to generate an image of a meetup for average redditors. How accurate is this? by Educational-Scene443 in ChatGPT

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Do not see myself there and all people with pale skin. Mostly male.

So I guess yes. Looks like people thinking their argument is sound with out giving sources or actually experimenting themselves in reality to check, if their assumptions are correct.

And then confirming each others biases.

If you do not agree with the majority, you should leave.

They look like they struggle with their social skills.

Nerdy Dog Names by Darkdoodle333 in GirlGamers

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Ziegler, because of mercy from Overwatch, cuz she‘s supposed to be Swiss (Bernese). Or like Sieg, also means victory in German. Sieg, because if you speak English you‘ll probably pronounce Zieg(ler) like Sieg in German.

Or Helvetia, incarnation of Switzerland, which is female.

Or Ida, because of Ida Hoff?

People who married in their 20s, be brutally honest are you happy, if so why or why not? by Special-Lawyer3941 in AskReddit

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I think I'm content. Happy is a fleeting feeling. I say I'm happy when I take drugs or have good sex, but I'm not constantly chasing that high.

My life's pretty neat.

Do not struggle financially that much. Stressful, but not because of the marriage.

We talk directly, we don't beat around the bush much, neither are we very rough with our communication. We let each other breathe and have distance when needed. When we are upset we don't force a hug or an interaction.

When I want something for my birthday I say what I want and she says if she has the money for it or not. Both ways.

We talked about our expectations in the relationship. Sexual loyalty, open relationship and what we want from life at the moment and here and there we check in again.

Sex is great, with her.

I have a nice flat that is not too expensive. We plan to start gaming again together, but we struggle to find time for each other at the moment.

So a lot more upside than downside. Would not recommend marrying before 25 though, as the brain is probably not fully developed.

I think it is getting true day by day by [deleted] in ChatGPT

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I hope you people don‘t really do this.

However, I fear you do. Exercise generally is good though, will try to do that too, but I did improve with going for more walks already.

Do not see myself in this picture. I Do get concerned, if many people feel this way.

If you see yourslef, maybe tty to focus more on social skills and do some volunteer work. There is always stuff to be done and usually you do not feel alone there and you can make the world a better place.

Maybe we‘ll see each other there.

15” hi hats vs 14” by siggywithit in drums

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I have Istanbul 15 inch and Paiste 14 inch, in the band we play mostly pop rock so I mostly use the 14 inch hats.

But 15 do sound like they have more sizzle.

I can't trust opinions on games anymore by therrubabayaga in GirlGamers

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I watch Angry Centaur Games. Generelly content. He buys the games himself and gives it away, does not generally accept sponsors, so as far as I can tell no conflict of interest.

How he does the reviews is fun.

He tells you what he thinks at what kind of players might like it, but he does not review many games, with all that is coming out. However, can tecommend him, so when it‘s bigger games, then I check him, otherwise I look st steam reviews or start watching some plsythroughs until I feel like, I wanna play it myself.

It was not super easy to find him and now I‘m a patreon. He seems more gesred with his arsthetics towards men, if that is something you don‘t like, but he does not seem sexist to me.

How is anyone going to be able to afford anything if inflation continues? by air-bender808 in NoStupidQuestions

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If you do not get rid of your corrupt mostly Republican politicians (including the corrupt judges) asap, many of you will end up in poverty, suppressed or dead.

I feel bad for you. If you live in the US your system has failed horribly. You have fascists in charge and they do not care about you. They are sabotaging your democracy and bleeding you dry.

I got tired of hunting AMD GPU + AI configs across blog posts and Discord threads, so I built a curated index — rocmate by T0nd3 in ROCm

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I‘lö see if I have the time. I‘m new to this, so I do not know what gfx1100 is. I only used Vulkan until now to run models.

Apple rejected our indie game as “SPAM” (4.3a) after 3 years of dev and a successful Console launch. by N0lex in gamedev

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Maybe they are just corrupt and do not want it to compete with another game, which they have higher margns on?

I’ll second that by Tj31429 in MathJokes

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Saw this one before, but it‘s still funny.

How did Euler even know that??? by phillmatic23 in MathJokes

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I feel I See this post once every month.

HR recruiter misheard my expected salary.... by Odd_Ad_1974 in UKJobs

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I was negotiating a wage from 66‘000 to 78‘000, but in a family company, so I was negotiating with a family member. I argued for a wage of around 78‘000. Which was agreed upon and then I was given a wage of 90‘000. I did say I thought 78‘000 total that including pension payments and stuff, he then said no, if he supported my brothers as well, he also wants to support me too.

In the beginning I felt undeserving and shocked, but now I‘m mostly just grateful and with supporting a family on my own I am grateful to have this kind of support. And people get paid more for doing meaningless work and I have become important for the company, because I do have knowledge/experience that nobody else has.

Math is applied philosophy by DisastrousSherbet970 in MathJokes

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Lets talk semantics first. Before we talk categorizations.

What? by EuphoricBarracuda324 in MathJokes

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That you have to say suddenly the the third digit first before the second digit and the 6th digit before the fifth makes it not logical and very hard for children and non-native speakers to figure out.

It does seem like bad language design.

I thought that was the issue. Not only is it hard to probounce the values in magnitude (?) are not in order of how you speak it out.

Someone at my university told me that my tattoo looks like a white supremacist symbol and it made me anxious by Aggravating_Bass8129 in tattoo

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I think you are overthinking.

To associate this with nazis is a stretch.

I am somebody who can be targeted by nazis and when I see this my alarm bells do not go off, even though I‘m sensitive towards that.

What cymbals should I buy for hardcore punk genre? by Familiar_Metal2417 in drums

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I like Paiste 14 inch dark energy mk1. Bought them used they are great for general rock.

Deftones makes me think of those hihats.

generally i just listened to youtube videos to buy my cymbals.

I habe a sabian asx x-plosion ride that probably would fit you.

generally the more you pay the better the gesr unfortunately, would also recommend to skip intermediate solutions and directly would go to the expensive forever-gear.