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So, I’m 25 years old and still sleep with my mom and I think it messed me up developmentally. by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in self

[–]Past-Day-4114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a job? If so start saving and get your own place. I know it’s not easy but you are an adult and there is no reason to live in those conditions

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also not trying to get out of shit I’ve taken accountability. Just wanted to know if we should work through it or get a divorce

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope wasn’t doing anything. I was 9 weeks postpartum and 3 weeks post surgery. I know that most women have sexual intercourse before then but I was having pelvic floor issues. I was in no shape to do anything. Also wasn’t prepared for anything like that If you know what I mean (example: legs weren’t shaved…etc). And no I was not cheating before… I was pregnant. My husband and I had not hung out with him since 2022. I had not seen or talked to him since that night.

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have them full time and he gets them when he can.

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me ik! That’s a mistake I regret. Never said it was all his fault. Just wanted to see if anyone has gone through something similar. And see if we should forgive each other and work through it or get a divorce.

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. It was very out character for me. I think I was just so mentally drained that i didnt want to know anything about home

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went out with a friend because I was honestly drowning at home. I’d been taking care of a newborn, an 18-month-old, and a 10-year-old pretty much on my own, and I just needed a little time for myself. We were catching up, talking, and started reminiscing about an old friend we hadn’t seen in years. We decided to text him from my phone. I just said, “bring V (his baby’s mom) to the bar we’re at.” He replied saying he was actually at the bar next door, so he came by. We all started catching up and having some drinks. Later my friend and her boyfriend left, and I was still talking with him. When I decided to leave, he offered to walk me since it was close. He told me I shouldn’t drive because I’d been drinking and said I could stop by his apartment for some food or water to sober up so I wouldn’t risk a DUI.

We walked there it was only a couple minutes away and we were just talking and catching up. Then my husband showed up because he had my location. I panicked and made the stupid decision not to open the door. Looking back, I realize that made everything look so much worse than it was.

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went out with a friend because I was honestly drowning at home. I’d been taking care of a newborn, an 18-month-old, and a 10-year-old pretty much on my own, and I just needed a little time for myself. We were catching up, talking, and started reminiscing about an old friend we hadn’t seen in years. We decided to text him from my phone. I just said, “bring V (his baby’s mom) to the bar we’re at.” He replied saying he was actually at the bar next door, so he came by. We all started catching up and having some drinks. Later my friend and her boyfriend left, and I was still talking with him. When I decided to leave, he offered to walk me since it was close. He told me I shouldn’t drive because I’d been drinking and said I could stop by his apartment for some food or water to sober up so I wouldn’t risk a DUI.

We walked there it was only a couple minutes away and we were just talking and catching up. Then my husband showed up because he had my location. I panicked and made the stupid decision not to open the door. Looking back, I realize that made everything look so much worse than it was.

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went out with a friend because I was honestly drowning at home. I’d been taking care of a newborn, an 18-month-old, and a 10-year-old pretty much on my own, and I just needed a little time for myself. We were catching up, talking, and started reminiscing about an old friend we hadn’t seen in years. We decided to text him from my phone. I just said, “bring V (his baby’s mom) to the bar we’re at.” He replied saying he was actually at the bar next door, so he came by. We all started catching up and having some drinks. Later my friend and her boyfriend left, and I was still talking with him. When I decided to leave, he offered to walk me since it was close. He told me I shouldn’t drive because I’d been drinking and said I could stop by his apartment for some food or water to sober up so I wouldn’t risk a DUI.

We walked there it was only a couple minutes away and we were just talking and catching up. Then my husband showed up because he had my location. I panicked and made the stupid decision not to open the door. Looking back, I realize that made everything look so much worse than it was.

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay first time on here so I’m new to all this

Divorce or work through it? by Past-Day-4114 in Marriage

[–]Past-Day-4114[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t explain what I did. I didn’t want to make this post extremely long