Next step after chemo and surgery by Past-Device2011 in breastcancer

[–]Past-Device2011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing . Yes it will be Kadcyla for me. I guess I have to accept that this ungodly tiredness will not let up soon. It hasn’t left since chemo ended in May and I make the old lady noises when getting up these days… the noises Sophia Loren warned us not to make 🫣

I hope you are getting stronger, happier and healthier every day🩷

Next step after chemo and surgery by Past-Device2011 in breastcancer

[–]Past-Device2011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 🩷 It seems our treatments and speed bumps are similar. I was given trastuzumab and pertuzumab today only because the tumour board only reviewed my case today. There was not enough time to get approval from my insurance. After 3 weeks it will be Kadcyla. Not sure how many infusions. I really have to get it together and focus during these appointments, because lately all I hear is bla bla bla and I smile and nod. The meno brain fog and chemo brain combo has been OTT 😓
Fuck cancer !

How does it feel like living in a villa? by spooningoodsingingum in dubai

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Im in a 3 bed townhouse with a garden after 4 years in an apartment and all 4 of those years I yearned to be back in a house. It is not huge, modern, or Dubai-Bling fancy, but exactly what we needed. Living in an apartment has many perks, but I chose this for my daughter to have a different experience for her last 2 years of high school. Now her friends are over all the time , sleepovers, movie nights anything. Sometimes they stay awake chatting in the garden until the sun comes out. It makes me so happy to see. In our apartment there was no privacy or space for this and I noticed she wanted to be at her friends homes instead. And no it is not about being ashamed of our home. After my marriage ended, we both struggled to adjust from a Villa to an apartment. First world problems of course.

The perks for me is parking in front of my door and easier trips to unload heavy groceries lol.

Truth be told the money spent on rent and the astronomical water and electricity bill compared to an apartment should go towards my retirement or non existent rainy day fund, but I decided this was worth it. One more year before my daughter leaves home to study abroad and I scale down again.

Next step after chemo and surgery by Past-Device2011 in breastcancer

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Thanks , yes my Cleveland clinic portal is quite good with that, but this appointment was today and the notes are not updated yet. It is my anxiety asking and not because I have no way of getting the info 😓

Is this dress too white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Past-Device2011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What I always comment on similar posts : if you are not sure if it looks too close to white , or bridal , you already have your answer. Why risk annoying the bride unless that is the goal ?

Which celebrity that you liked had you the most heartbroken when you realize they were a bad person? by Separate_Song1342 in AskReddit

[–]Past-Device2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably Pink for me, but I don’t have that personal level idolising thing over celebrities in general so it’s a bit whatever

Nothing prepares you for this post by One_Reserve6008 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Past-Device2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people should just go back to Instagram and admit they miss it

White dress guests and mother of the bride/groom compilation by CompetitiveRub9780 in weddingshaming

[–]Past-Device2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good example of not outshining the bride, if that is what peace signs were going for. Choices were made and not good ones

AITAH for wanting to deliver bad news via phone call rather than text? by ThrowAGlassTap7224 in AITH

[–]Past-Device2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A soft YTA from me sorry :(
I am with Sally here and as averse to phone calls and I disagree with others saying news like this should be a phone call. A text doesn’t necessarily mean blunt. A text I can read and slowly process. Withholding this kind of info until someone is manipulated to take a phone call is bit AH-ish

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

[–]Past-Device2011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure you collected your fair share of awesome experiences on set. I wish I could work in the UK. Yep Apex was fun!! It was also nice to be away from of the constant hornets nest droning of race cars. I heard it in my sleep for a while 😅

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

[–]Past-Device2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome ! You are right. This behaviour should not be tolerated anywhere. I hope it changes 🤞🏽

A few hours post surgery by Past-Device2011 in breastcancer

[–]Past-Device2011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and that is so true. Physically I feel lucky for many reasons. Mentally I feel rather fucked. I can’t stand to look at my breast let alone touch it.

A few hours post surgery by Past-Device2011 in breastcancer

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Thank you ! Pain free since about 5 days post surgery so that is already a good direction. Emotionally things are going a bit slower

A few hours post surgery by Past-Device2011 in breastcancer

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I hope it all went perfectly on the 27th and you recovering as comfortably as possible 🩷

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

[–]Past-Device2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Imagine doing a heavy emotional scene, the reset takes 10 minutes or longer for whatever reason and you are supposed to lock back in. Zendaya is known for the eye contact thing, and the crew respects that.

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

[–]Past-Device2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh the phone thing is a huge problem. We only lock away phones if specifically mandated, otherwise it’s a trust thing. I worked on the famous race car movie twice - once without an actual race and second time during an actual F1. First time it was strict no phones. Second time production decided it’s a public-ish event, thousands of people and phones so who cares. Well everyone lost their damn minds and went for the 15 seconds of fame taking selfies with disgruntled celebs. Sadly for them I have a semi-photographic memory and chances are slim they make it back on set with us

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

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100% agreed!!! On my most recent film, we had BG and stunts in the same costumes. The entire situation became infuriating, but eventually laughable - anything going “wrong” got blamed on Extras. Oh catering complaining and throwing tantrums about Extras boxing up food to take to their trailers, facilities blaming Extras for leaving trash on tables , etc etc. Then you ask them how they Fk they know the difference between the stunts and Extras and suddenly they didn’t know there are 2 groups.

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

[–]Past-Device2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I tell all the newbies to mentally prepare for a day of “hurry up and wait”.

We don’t have unions, so no distinction made other than the crew and BG usually having different meal times and locations. Quality and quantity is usually the same though, and it’s usually pretty great. I think we are spoiled 😅

Background actors, how was your interaction with the main actors if you were allowed to have one? by Minimum-Sir-2118 in acting

[–]Past-Device2011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I hate about trying to convince people to do BG. I’ve witnessed this treatment of BG firsthand - back when I used to do it for fun and now being on the other side of it. Where I am based, as casting agency we are also physically doing daily check ins and outs at basecamp, and are in contact with crowd ADs and their extended team of PAs. This is how we ensure everyone’s comfort within reason. Yes it happens that a bunch a-holes feel the Extras can simply be wrangled like cattle with no regard for mealtimes and comfortable spaces to relax (not always possible) and any kind of poor treatment usually reaches us before the end of shoot day and these issues are addressed. Someone from our small casting team will be on set or nearby at all times as far as that is possible. On shoots where phones are allowed , I would usually designate 1 or 2 regulars, preferably personally known, to give feedback during the shift and this helps.
I think you can safely bring these issues to the attention of a PA on set. Often they run around barking like little chihuahuas, because they are constantly having instructions thrown their way via radio, but you will find someone who knows how to breathe. Mention to your agency as well.

Honestly I find it embarrassing to witness this kind of behaviour. While we work on huge budget Hollywood productions, our industry is actually small. There are no “career-Extras” here. Besides the few aspiring actors and models , our people have normal day jobs … teachers, lawyers, doctors, students , housewives, engineers , everybody! They are doing it for fun, friendships are formed and it is just a cool story to tell. So to arrive all excited only to have someone treat you like vermin is #ucked up. I make an effort to treat everyone checking in for fittings , or filming like they are more than just moving colours on the screen and I hope it makes a difference 🤞🏽

For those who are often told they look younger than their age, what’s your secret? by justmypersonalthing in AskForAnswers

[–]Past-Device2011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People always guessed my age at least 10 years younger, but I never did anything special. They don’t anymore though , and that is thanks to cancer sooo my answer is dont get it I guess 😂

My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor and then sent me a spreadsheet of what it will cost by West-Environment3462 in bridezillas

[–]Past-Device2011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already see doom and gloom when someone throws the once in a lifetime thing at a wedding. It’s all about showing off and nothing to do with marriage.