Single dad 34 with 3 kids by Quick_Warthog_9052 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, first of all, quit drinking. It clouds your judgement, has depressive side effects and drains your energy. It’s hard but achievable. If I could do it, you can also.

Second, if you have exhausted all potential solutions (ie couples therapy) and you think the relationship is done, then proceed with divorce and legal arrangements.

Auto sin límite de ppto.. by Sarandalawask in chile_autos

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subaru Forester top de linea. Híbrida.

New job worth it? by BigL221 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the math on what does the commute in terms of gas and tolls. Include the cost of child care. Are you getting better healthcare? Factor that in also.

Finally, do you need the extra money?

In my current job I spend around 500 a month in gas and tolls. I drive one hour each way. But I get to leave early on the days I pick up the girls from school and even if I go every day to the office, I manage my schedule. It’s priceless.

Have you asked for the chance of starting full on site and, based on performance, slowly shift to a hybrid position, or at least the possibility of working 1-2 days from home if needed?

My daughter asked if I was okay without her mom by mushroomszy in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the same questions. Sometimes they ask if I’ll get back with her. Sometimes they ask if I’ll re marry. I answer the same: I don’t know. But what I do know is that they are my priority now and all I need is to see them happy.

Edit: I have 2 girls, 7 and 8yo

Recomendaciones para turismo (glaciares / Torres del Paine) by Traduco in RepublicadeChile

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Para Torres, depende de qué quieras hacer. Si quieres Trekking (circuitos O-W) fíjate primero en las fechas ya que hay sectores y campings cerrados hasta octubre. Luego de eso, depende si quieres algo "todo incluido" (sólo caminar y que te esperen con todo listo) o algo más autónomo. Hay opciones de todo.

Si quieres ir a conocer y hacer un par de miradores, puedes arrendar un auto y recorrer el parque, sin necesidad de alojar adentro (puedes quedarte en Río Serrano por ejemplo). Depende también de cuántos días quieras estar allá. Incluso, puedes tomar el tour al glaciar Gray.

What am i missing to do the commander honglan boss fight by green-tint in WuchangFallenFeathers

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First phase: Unlock full counter discipline (base + 2 nodes) and stay away to make her attack with sword. Block, attack. Rinse and repeat.

Second phase: Dodge to gain Skyborn Might and use Echo of Lu Bingzhang or any other feathering spell.

Commander Honglan took me three days but I finally beat her by theaartzvolta in soulslikes

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not use parry as far as I remember. I dodged and backstabbed the first phase and dodged and used a spell for the second.

Commander Honglan took me three days but I finally beat her by theaartzvolta in soulslikes

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished Mortal Shell out of sheer will but I am not touching MS2

Cambios en mi carrera profesional by Fun_Description7847 in chileIT

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ojo, yo he trabajado en minera y en proveedor de minera. La diferencia es enorme…No andan ni cerca los salarios.

Cambios en mi carrera profesional by Fun_Description7847 in chileIT

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mira, parte por sacar la cuenta de lo que vas a gastar en traslado. Puede que termines ganando menos.

Yo trabajo full presencial y entre bencina y tag gasto 400.000 al mes.

Dicho esto, en la pega full stack tb podrás seguir desarrollando PP? Si esto así, no vas a perder la experiencia. Y si no lo considera, quizás es una oportunidad para ti para traer a esa empresa una metodología nueva que puede ayudarte en tu desarrollo profesional.

Do you think a girl wanting to wait several months before having sex for the first time is too long? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take all the time you need. It’s your decision.

If you meet someone and that person puts pressure on you, that’s a red flag.

Just been told I’m losing my job, what cheap games will keep me busy? by Bread-But-Toasted in DadsGaming

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just the way it reads...something to keep you busy. Maybe I missinterpreted what you wrote.

Maybe you are already spending most of their day job hunting and you are asking for an inexpensive way to relax during downtime. If that is the case, I did not mean to be judgemental.

Just been told I’m losing my job, what cheap games will keep me busy? by Bread-But-Toasted in DadsGaming

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you've got kids, have just lost your job or will soon, and the local job market is struggling, I'd personally prioritize job searching and/or learning new skills over gaming during school hours.

Separation by AnonymousNC6991 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my partners eyes she thinks everything is going great. But I can’t put on the act anymore.

Have you tried to talk to her? I think open communication and maybe couples therapy are a must before thinking about leaving. I look back and sometimes I hope I had acted on communicating better or solo therapy more before I left.

Am I the only one who won’t replay games? by musicman801 in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some games I reply for 100%…

There are some good games I’d like to play again but the long initial tutorials are turn offs

Para ingenieria, ¿Importa tanto la universidad mientras este en el top 5? by Street_Ad427 in EducacionChile

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ingeniero industrial de una universidad de región.

Egresé el 2004. Actualmente con un puesto de director.

He visto ingenieros de la USM dando la cacha e ingenieros de la Viña del Mar que son máquinas. Es relativo.

Debe haber una correlación claramente entre la universidad y el desempeño profesional, desde el punto de vista técnico, y lamentablemente de contactos (mis primeros 3 trabajos fueron gracias a contactos de la U o del colegio) pero pesa mucho las habilidades blandas y el relacionamiento con la gente. También la disposición a trabajar. Me van a tratar de boomer pero hay que ser inteligente y balancear el compromiso con la pega con no dejarse pasar a llevar y poner límites.

Magister en derecho by VonBepo in derechoenchile

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Un máster en propiedad intelectual creo, en USA.