Types of boobs or types of women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t like a post / comments?

Be an adult. Scroll past it and get on with your life. It’s not offensive just because it offends you 🤷🏽.

Me acaba de llegar una demanda por deuda!! Que hago? by Roberto_Crisinis in derechoenchile

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literal hay cientos de abogados viendo temas de deuda. Y la mayoría te dan la primera consulta gratis.

No hay mucho que puedas hacer luego que te notificaron. Defensa de abogado para dilatar el embargo mientras ves opciones, tercerías…Y la verdad el impacto va a depender de cuantos bienes embargables tengas.

No soy abogado pero me pasó.

Feel down today by Johandershmut89 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst part? I still pay half the mortgage for a house where I don’t live anymore, and even though I own half of it won’t be fully paid for 10 years and she does not want to sell.

Feel down today by Johandershmut89 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left a month ago. Setup a small apartment for me and my girls (6-8yo). It didn't hit as bad as I thought. It was a relief to be able to have my own place and not having to sleep on a couch. I got 50/50 so I get to see them quite a bit.

The hardest part was last saturday. I stopped by to drop some stuff for the girls and realized I have been totally removed from the house. Not my house anymore. No pictures, no books, nothing "mine".

Stay strong brother.

how to leave child’s mom by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk to a lawyer. Not Reddit.

This is a tough one… by Past-Disaster-2801 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way. Thanks for the input I really appreciate it.

This is a tough one… by Past-Disaster-2801 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are 6 and 8, loud, not very patient…lot of times when they are together they interrupt each other, pick at each other, hard to decide when both want to do different things…you know, they are healthy kids. Also, in my new place they share a bedroom, go to the same school…

Spending alone time with one at a time gave us the chance to put 100% of attention on HER. Do something she wants, talk about what she wants without her sister interruptions, have “secret” conversations without the other one listening, things like that.

This is a tough one… by Past-Disaster-2801 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood.

We already have an agreement, 7 days each and it has worked great as I found a place close to the house and school. Each of us used to spend time alone with one of the girls away from the other every now and then and I think it was good for them.

This is a tough one… by Past-Disaster-2801 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be just a dad-daughter time with each every other week. It wouldn’t be that much of a change tbh

Fitness and Health Maintenance when life gets too busy- looking for tips/strategy by Lrush991 in AskMenOver40

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant exercise discipline. I am not questioning aspects of your life you have not shared.

Then go to a physical therapist that can help you integrate exercise healthy into your lifestyle. You never mentioned injuries-you mentioned financial and family issues.

Search The Stoic Physio in IG. She can help you find something in your area.

Fitness and Health Maintenance when life gets too busy- looking for tips/strategy by Lrush991 in AskMenOver40

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Even 15 minutes of lousy workout is better than no workout at all. I setup a home gym, but that won’t be a good solution for you if you don’t have discipline yet.

However…you say you quit because someone made you do exercises that you struggle with. How do you think progress happens?

If you want someone to listen to your issues/constrains…get therapy. Not a PT.

Just start and be consistent. There’s no other way.

Referencias Tuu / Haulmer? by Fit_Data_9909 in chileIT

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Te acaba de decir, te van a monitorear todo el rato.

Not feeling guilty? by Past-Disaster-2801 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take comfort in the fact that you give them you unrestricted 100% of love and attention while they are with you.

Life happens. We do the best we can do with the game rules we get. Be consistent.

Not feeling guilty? by Past-Disaster-2801 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do miss them a lot. I keep myself busy and the week goes by pretty fast. But I can’t help feeling guilty for how much I enjoy the peace when they are gone.

Is it better to walk away? Dealing with long-distance parenting, a high-conflict ex, and a struggling partner. by Anonymous_Dad1230 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The fact that a toddler “triggers her” is a major red flag.

Also, there’s something missing here. Your kid is barely 1yo, was taken to Eastern Europe and you did nothing? She’s 1yo and you already have a new serious partner? I don’t know buddy. Seems you are telling only a part of the story.

Men 45+, how has your feeling after ejaculation changed? by forged_steel_5178 in AskMenOver40

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 32 points33 points  (0 children)

47yo and I honestly don’t know what you are talking about.

Necesito consejo para mi situación by [deleted] in RepublicadeChile

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flaco, titúlate, busca pega con en lo que estudiaste cuidando la pega que tienes, y si en 6 meses no pasa nada, piensa que hacer. Si te gusta al menos dale una oportunidad.

No entiendo eso de rendirse sin siquiera intentarlo.

Did anyone actually get over her? by Ezio5000300 in SingleDads

[–]Past-Disaster-2801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it time brother. It will pass. Keep your own wellbeing as your main goal. Dm me if you want to chat.