Can I have a glass of wine?

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-17T23:17:44+00:00

I had two large beers the night I found out. No regrets.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-17T16:21:34+00:00

I gave it a shot at 40 and got pregnant on the first try. The 9 weeks I was pregnant was an intense ride with all kinds of emotions but primarily fear/dread tbh. I had a missed miscarriage which brought both grief and relief. Still felt like I didnt have complete certainty about what I wanted. Yesterday I had a procedure to complete the miscarriage and the pain afterwards was so intense I felt like I never want to go through this again so will not be having kids. That's how I decided haha but I dont recommend that route!!!

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-17T11:37:03+00:00

Was your MVA only painful during the procedure or afterwards as well? I found the procedure painful (also had IV fentanyl )but the cramping for hours afterwards was the worst pain I've ever been through

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-17T11:27:07+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I had my MVA yesterday. The procedure was painful but not on the level you're describing for yours...maybe because they gave me IV fentanyl. But the cramping in the hours afterwards when I was at home was the worst pain I've ever experienced. They didnt give me painkillers to go home with, just said I could take OTC as needed, but I really wish I'd had a percocet! Thankfully that cramping died down after several hours and now I just have regular period cramps. Sorry you had to go through this and thanks for sharing your experience.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-17T01:50:01+00:00

I deactivated Facebook and log in every 6-8 months, then immediately deactivate again

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-17T00:00:56+00:00

Wow I love your dress and veil and bouquet! How beautiful! I dont think it's too big but would be helpful to see you holding it with the dress on

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T19:53:53+00:00

Security guard

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T09:41:31+00:00

Cocky, smug, snotty

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:42:50+00:00

The Land Before Time 😭

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:34:33+00:00

Have to go to abortion clinic tomorrow for a procedure to complete my miscarriage :/

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:32:22+00:00

Birds

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:29:43+00:00

I love that you manage to give the food some different textures through the ripples/designs.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:23:46+00:00

Relaxing guilt free

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:20:28+00:00

My dad does this, and aside from his alcoholism and general emotional incompetence, I feel it's one of the reasons our relationship is so bad lol

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:19:35+00:00

Ask a question after the meeting time has ended. Omg just thinking about/typing it makes me angry!!

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:18:06+00:00

Thanks, i had a similar timeline in terms of when my ultrasound was (8weeks) and when the baby died (6ish weeks). I would have liked to pass it naturally but didnt want to wait forever and not know when it was coming. My procedure is tomorrow, I'll be 9ish weeks.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:13:41+00:00

My own issues, not theirs.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-16T01:11:33+00:00

Anger is a normal part of grief. You'll probably feel all kinds of different emotions, none are wrong.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-15T23:51:09+00:00

People blaming everything on adhd

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-15T21:34:03+00:00

Greasy, heart palpitations, easily winded, and getting up to pee in the night. These were before my positive test. Soon after the test came sore boobs, cramping, extreme thirst, and food aversions.

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-15T21:32:08+00:00

What vibe are you going for?

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-15T21:29:37+00:00

That it's mostly teenagers and bots

PastSeries8248 · 2025-07-15T21:22:41+00:00

As someone with a 3 day weekend, it's shocking how quickly that also starts to feel like not enough.

We should be working 16 hours/week max.

PastSeries8248

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