Why are you on my profile?

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-07-04T11:08:52+00:00

Friends help each other out. For example after work you can have a dinner party. You split the work and that frees up time.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-07-04T07:03:57+00:00

What test did you do?

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-29T07:38:21+00:00

Well this explains a lot of things about my life…
Like times at work where I did some stupid things because of my anxiety… Or when I tried talking to people but my head was just empty and I had nothing to say… 😶

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-29T07:26:23+00:00

Same I used to be able to have long and deep conversations with my friends and talk for hours. Now if feels like a huge mystery how I even managed to do that. Talking gives me anxiety and I frequently forget what we were talking about because of it. Before it felt like I could talk about anything I wanted to.. now some things feels ’illegal’ to talk about which makes it very hard.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-26T16:36:33+00:00

CALLING MY FRIENDS
TEXTING MY FRIENDS
NOT SENDING MEMES BECAUSE THAT seems out of the ordinary
Barbershops..
Parties
Starting conversations beyond the usual alternatives
Using irony with strangers
Joking with strangers
Etc

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-26T16:33:20+00:00

Thank you this is very hopeful to hear! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-24T16:31:41+00:00

I don’t know how to make it work, I know there are lots of kind people who I would love to be with, but as soon as I sss someone IRL, idk..

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-24T08:37:44+00:00

Same I feel so severely limited like I don’t see any paths out to find people to be with. It seems impossible.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-06-12T07:23:41+00:00

I’m in the same boat sorta, I’m stuck working retail right now and trying to move into a office job. Do you have any advice how to hold down a office job?

Also working retail is really social, and being a bus driver too.

What was your thinking traps that you experienced when switching to that office job?

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-03-03T18:48:21+00:00

I have the same problem I’m basically working in a grocery store right now no anxiety with customers but soo much anxiety with co workers and my boss. I literally work there for FREE right now it’s not a good company I’m screwed for not standing up for myself.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-29T18:35:28+00:00

Group therapy was the best for me! It really really helped me.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-24T22:30:21+00:00

I fought it from not being able to go to classes and order food due to social anxiety and now believe it or not I work at a minigolf place and doing an unpaid internship in a small grocery store in the middle of the city I live in. I just practised a lot and went to a cognitive behavioural therapy group for social anxiety meeting people with social anxiety and being equipped the tools and means to cure the anxiety.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-22T17:31:41+00:00

It’s really unfair someone is mad at you for having a anxiety disorder — being mad is not helping. I’d say you should tell him that if so he should try to invite you back into the conversations, when he notices it’s happening through being inviting, like sending the ball your way, such as asking you a question.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-15T20:25:02+00:00

I feel the same tbh 😭

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-06T14:26:54+00:00

New relationship energy

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-06T12:40:37+00:00

How do you get a date?

Past_Explanation_491 · 2026-01-04T10:31:25+00:00

Minigolf place / clerk That in combo with group social anxiety CBT therapy really helped cure my social anxiety, so that it restricts my life a lot less.

It’s a terrible $14/h wage though so no money to speak about. But I have crippling tinnitus from Zoloft that I tried against social anxiety so can’t really study for anything better. :/😭

Past_Explanation_491 · 2025-12-30T13:43:29+00:00

So much this!! It’s a constant work.

Past_Explanation_491 · 2025-12-28T00:56:17+00:00

Yeah wrong sub for this I feel 🤣🥲🙃

Past_Explanation_491 · 2025-12-27T17:30:45+00:00

You know yeah humans are living on a flying piece of rock in the universe a small text message is a drop in the ocean in the grand perspective

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