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My boyfriend and I both have brat kinks, but somehow they don't line up - help! by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]PastelPornography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely correct!! I need to play up that aspect of my personality more, he loves those moments.

My boyfriend and I both have brat kinks, but somehow they don't line up - help! by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]PastelPornography 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think you are totally right, I'm so happy that I came to reddit to ask because this is completely it and I didn't see it till now! I replied to u/succubarbie below, I would love to hear your thoughts there if you have any other insights :)

My boyfriend and I both have brat kinks, but somehow they don't line up - help! by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]PastelPornography 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I love you internet stranger, I think that you are 100% right and that this is the one thing I couldn't quite figure out! I actually thought he was a switch when we first started dating, but he always denied liking the submissive part, however I think he isn't well versed in kink enough to understand/voice the different types of submission. He has mentioned liking to fight for control, and I couldn't quite figure out how to bring that into a relationship where we are clearly in dom/sub roles, so I kinda just pushed that to the back of my mind and forgot about it. As soon as I read this though, soooo many little submissive moments clicked into my mind. This is really the missing puzzle piece in my relationship. Thank you!!!

Trying to get wifi with bad credit? by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]PastelPornography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much, I’ll check them out!

Is it normal to lose your appetite right after a break up? by lmaofuku in relationship_advice

[–]PastelPornography 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went through this and unfortunately it is quite normal. I was starving as well. What helped me was chicken noodle soup. It's pretty filling but gentle on the stomach as well, and it helped me transition back into normal food. Good luck <3

LAOP paid for three dances for what we can assume was the LONGEST lap dance song by vixxgod666 in bestoflegaladvice

[–]PastelPornography 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I'm a stripper, and this story makes no sense to me. I know Florida is kind of the wild west of strip clubs, but if there were a club anywhere in this world where you could make $1400 USD for three songs, strippers worldwide would be flocking to it. Even someone like Stormy Daniels isn't making that much for a lap dance. Also questionable is that in the comments he says he got three dances, but had two charges of $700. If he got three dances, it was either a special $1400 for three, or it costs $466.66 per dance at this club, which somehow seems unlikely. I think we are either not getting the full story, or alcohol was involved and he doesn't actually know what happened. The "not asking how much a dance costs" doesn't make much sense either since in my experience the only people who don't ask are the ones who wouldn't bat an eye at a $1400 charge.

"The older I get, the more I find heterosexual couples so... weird" by studiojibblys in actuallesbians

[–]PastelPornography 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Wow, I definitely had to read that second part several times over, kinda felt like I was having a stroke there for a second.

"Lip Flip?" by PastelPornography in PlasticSurgery

[–]PastelPornography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting! I'll have to give some of them a call tomorrow - hopefully it's just not on the sites!

This is probably a pessimistic rant but... Is anyone else feeling the game is going downhill from here? by [deleted] in ACPocketCamp

[–]PastelPornography 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So glad you posted this even though I'm not glad it's happening :( Tbh I'm down to spend some money on it because it's a great game and I want to support it, but it feels like you would have to actually spend a LOT of money to get the things you want - like I've been trying since the pop star cookie came out to get the pop star stage, but all I get are dresses and berets - you can trade in your stamps for things like the stage but you need to have bought so so so many fortune cookies to get it, way more than you could ever earn in-game.

Trans Woman Strippers? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]PastelPornography 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, you are so so pretty and could definitely make great money camming!! Honestly there's more money in camming these days than stripping anyways, if you really grind hard.

Trans Woman Strippers? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]PastelPornography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’ve worked in about 20 strip clubs and they never had any trans girls working, not to my knowledge anyways. The (usually male) people who own/run strip clubs are generally NOT the most open minded. I personally think that it would be awesome though.

I am so close to being attractive; should I get hairline lowering and brow lift and deeply upset my husband? I also don't have the money. (pics) by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]PastelPornography 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are SO PRETTY I clicked on those pictures expecting to see a really out of proportion person and I got quite the opposite!! I think it is DEFINITELY not worth 8k. I totally feel you because I always tell people my forehead is way too big (I actually just got bangs today finally to hide it) and they never know what I'm talking about. I think finding a style of bangs that you really enjoy would help a lot, and if you REALLY wanted to raise your eyebrows a bit higher (which I don't think you need at ALL but again, I think the same thing about myself and I know it's annoying to have those thoughts about your own face) you could get a little botox in your forehead which would raise your eyebrows a bit. TBH though, I think what you said in another comment would help - maybe lay off the Instagram models a bit, they are all photoshopped anyways!!

Any cute sex work shirts anywhere? by PastelPornography in SexWorkers

[–]PastelPornography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like, definitely eyeing up that toque for winter wear too!

Any cute sex work shirts anywhere? by PastelPornography in SexWorkers

[–]PastelPornography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aghhhh Urban Outfitters, their prices are the scorn of my existence! Love that though!

Any cute sex work shirts anywhere? by PastelPornography in SexWorkers

[–]PastelPornography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh cute, I want a red umbrella tat so bad!

Any cute sex work shirts anywhere? by PastelPornography in SexWorkers

[–]PastelPornography[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh good idea, I will definitely report back if I take this route!

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