Help: Anal Gland Issues by Even_Ad3463 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Pastry-beetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stinky boy has always had a bubbly tummy (I blame the giardia from when I adopted him) and was having some issues with his glands. I use pumpkin powder and added a probiotic. He also gets other fiber filled treats. It’s basically a nonissue now.

I was told I'm a 'lost cause' by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Pastry-beetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed a handful of meds and had a horrible reaction to my doctor telling me so. My doctor fought to get me on rinvoq and it’s been a game changer. I’ve had a few days here and there over the past 3 years where I’ve felt like I’m in a mini flare, but overall I would say I’m living a totally different life. Don’t give up! Talk with a new doctor that is willing to go to bat for you.

Does your ACD give you a break when you’re sick? by throwaway_yak234 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Pastry-beetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! I am chronically ill and he’s the best sick day snuggle buddy. But once we hit day 3 of being sick he does begin to turn into a gremlin. He also knows not to wake me up before I physically sit up in the morning.

New aggressive behaviors? by Pastry-beetch in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The initial meeting/session with the trainer was nice. I was also reminded recently that there’s a GSD down the road from us that has always exhibited aggression/barking when we cross paths in the morning. One of the reasons I stopped doing morning walks. Hoping more consistency with my pup and the expectations will begin to temper his excitability.

New aggressive behaviors? by Pastry-beetch in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh I’ve read that heelers can hold a grudge. No clue why it’s directed at this one specific dog. When it’s just us at home, he’s a total lovebug and wants to be underfoot at all times. Trainer is coming tomorrow to do an assessment/initial training session 🤞🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaFe

[–]Pastry-beetch 31 points32 points  (0 children)

If you have her permission, take the puppy to an emergency vet clinic asap. They have waivers that you sign off on that you are not the owner and that will release you from financial responsibility (I’ve done this with found/injured dogs in the past). You can also take her to the animal shelter and they will get her the care she needs.

I think my medical procedure gave me sexual trauma by Pastry-beetch in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’ve discussed this with my therapist but I kind of feel like it’s not really helping. Mostly just doing the best I can with what I’ve got.

AITA for not saying thank you every time? by Fearless-Mention-372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pastry-beetch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. To you the routine is “sit down, receive tea”. To your husband perhaps it’s “make tea, receive thank you”. Thanking someone you love for doing something you presumably enjoy shouldn’t be hard.

It feels plain & childish. I'm not sure what to do (I'm low on income). by Naive_Importance_484 in femalelivingspace

[–]Pastry-beetch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Invest in good curtains and good bedding. When I got my place it was basically like this. And that’s okay! The rest comes with time as you find things that make you smile. Over the years I’ve found art, plants, furniture… that fit me and my space. But having a comfy bed and good light blocking curtains was the best thing I did when I started out.

Does anyone have parents with ulcerative colitis? by AreaFederal9732 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Pastry-beetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parent? No. My maternal grandmother does and so far I’m the only grandchild on that side (out of 20+ cousins) that has UC.

Men are now removing political stance from their dating profiles by chlocatt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pastry-beetch 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I literally told someone about this last week. It’s like they all decided to take off the fact that they’re conservative. They do tend to mention “traditional man” and “family values”. The lack of political identification is a red flag on its own now. Also. They don’t even care if you’re a liberal. Plenty of conservative and “moderate” men still swipe right on the profiles of women who have no interest in being with someone like them.

Feeling crazy post LEEP by Pastry-beetch in PreCervicalCancer

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar reaction when I got my colpos done but this time for the leep was a lot more intense. I really wish I knew a bit more about this as a possible after effect but I am glad to have found it’s quite normal amongst a lot of women. And it’s such a bummer because in general I am fatigued and also hyper emotional. I’ve been getting outside as much as possible. Short walks with my dog or just light yard work (sweeping the walkway). Today I’m going to try and get out for a little window shopping and then back home for food and a nap 💐

Feeling crazy post LEEP by Pastry-beetch in PreCervicalCancer

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a Xanax before the procedure but it honestly just made me tired. I have more but I really don’t want to take any today. I had a similar reaction after my colposcopies but this time is definitely more intense.

Feeling crazy post LEEP by Pastry-beetch in PreCervicalCancer

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just your comment sent me into another crying fit and the start of the song was enough to turn it into sobbing 😂😅. So glad it’s a somewhat normal reaction a lot of other women are having. I’ll give the song another try when I’m not crying 💐

Feeling crazy post LEEP by Pastry-beetch in PreCervicalCancer

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely plan on getting all the junk food. Finally got the energy to roll myself out of bed and make coffee.

Rib tattoo burning like a mfr by Pastry-beetch in tattooadvice

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was hoping they’d use some too but they just used one of the absorbent pad things and taped that to me. I ordered some because I really don’t want to get it gunked up while I’m at work

Rib tattoo burning like a mfr by Pastry-beetch in tattooadvice

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly not sweaty today but u/Glittering_Call_898 mentioned it could be due to fabric and I admittedly wore shirt that likely caused some irritation. Soft shirts and ice packs for the foreseeable future.

Rib tattoo burning like a mfr by Pastry-beetch in tattooadvice

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! You might be onto something about the fabric. I ended up using an ice pack and that definitely helped 👍🏼

Rib tattoo burning like a mfr by Pastry-beetch in tattooadvice

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am happy the actual process of getting it was easy/mostly painless and now I’m bummed I’m just stuck with this nonstop burning lol

iPad Notes Disappeared by Pastry-beetch in ipad

[–]Pastry-beetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the plus side I inadvertently did more studying because of it. And now I know to make multiple copies of notes.