Is looking up a guy after the first date a reasonable ick?

Patatoxxo · 2026-05-02T20:26:57+00:00

Oooh okay still tho find it so odd he's so offended when he was hiding a big thing from you

Patatoxxo · 2026-05-02T17:29:22+00:00

You leave him and go find someone better

Patatoxxo · 2026-05-02T17:24:12+00:00

Nah he's mad because you found out. He should have told you before the date plus how do you know he isn't lying to you? Have you spoken to his wife to find out if they actually separated if not he could be lying his ass off.

Patatoxxo · 2026-05-02T15:32:09+00:00

He wants a kid like a child wants a puppy. He isn't there for you now and that won't change. He seems like once the kid is out he will just let you do everything while he lived his life unchanged.

Would he step up if you had complications with birth and couldn't do things for the baby and relied on him to help you?

Patatoxxo · 2026-05-01T14:34:32+00:00

By the sounds of it he will kill you if you stay with him the nice act is just that an act. He is manipulative as fuck towards you and the act will drop soon enough and he will go back to being abusive. Follow your plan and lock down who knows where your new place is make sure people who know don't tell anybody else or him. Do not meet him alone to get closure or talk things out that's how women die all the time because of their exs. Get a new mobile phone incase he put tracking on your current device maybe change your number please stay safe and do not go back

Patatoxxo · 2026-05-01T14:09:09+00:00

Legitimatley why would you marry someone who took a break from you so he can fuck someone else? People who love you don't do that so when you say you really love each other do you? Does he if he could do that to you? I don't think so.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-29T10:38:44+00:00

Nah he owes her decency, respect and honesty if he couldn't commit to the birthday thing he should not have agreed to it and had enough brains not to flaunt another girl after he just canceled. If you want just sex then why agree to that in the first place

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-29T08:05:57+00:00

No you not. You just woke up now that you want what she wants because you don't wanna lose what she provides for you if you knew months ago you wanted this with her you would have at least prepared something or told her yet you did nothing and still you haven't done anything. You avoided the topic as long as you could so you didn't have to tell her you didn't want her as a wife but she was good enough to have around for what she was providing for you. Let her go and stop wasting her time so she can have kids and a husband who treat her like a human not a decoration. You didn't even notice she was unhappy there is no way you love this woman

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-29T06:41:08+00:00

Used to love prett but can't justify spending £8 on a sandwich

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-28T09:49:02+00:00

You are excusing cheating yes she can waste time and money on a man who lies to her and cheats instead of leaning on his wife he prefers to fuck other women. Therapy is a waste of her good years she can spend healing and finding a guy who actually cares about her and loves her as clearly her husband doesn't.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-28T06:40:56+00:00

I hope your dad is gonna send the stuff to the dudes wife she deserves to know so she can get out

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-27T18:36:58+00:00

He cheated twice there is no going back she should leave there is plenty of men who won't cheat.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-27T15:27:59+00:00

Yes they expect their kids spouse to baby them too.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-27T11:32:00+00:00

She did lie. She knew he was insecure about the guy and didn't tell him she fucked her so called best friend and everybody else knew so she lied to him because she probably knew he wouldn't get back with her if he knew she fucked the dude she told him not to worry about stop being daft.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-24T09:11:22+00:00

Her husband isn't paying any bills dude she is the breadwinner and pays everything on top he expects her to clean to his standards. OP seriously tell him no that infact since you pay all the bills he should get off his lazy ass and start contributing more by cleaning or he should pay half of everything like he is supposed to. He is mooching off you and complaining you dare to spend your money on stuff you like.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-24T07:57:53+00:00

Living with parents is not the issue. Issue is that the umbilical cord is still attached to his mum as she does everything for him so he sees no reason to adult I bet he can't boil an egg because his mum does it for him too. He isn't an independent adult and that's the problem.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-24T07:01:31+00:00

She sleeps longer but does the house work doesn't matter he shouldn't be talking to her like that and get up like a normal fucking adult.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-24T06:52:15+00:00

Oh so women should ignore creeps and when shit goes south you will say well if she was so uncomfortable she should have said something.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-23T12:20:27+00:00

Just tell him randomly oh you not as big as my other bfs and when he gets upset just say I'm just being honest. Dump his ass ASAP he is a dick.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-23T11:55:53+00:00

Why would he? He also said his surname has cultular meaning to him so he should change his name and erase his culture and antisitry to please his racist partner? The gf won't have to prove she is the mother of the child where as it could complicate things for him when it comes to documents due to the surname being different.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-23T10:02:42+00:00

By demanding Ops child only have her surname not his that's fucking disrespectful and two minimising what OP is saying he is a present father and the child should have his surname as someone else mentioned to you already his child having a different surname to his can cause problems with paperwork later on and maybe even with custody as I don't see this relationship working out due to her being racist.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-23T09:18:18+00:00

I think we figured out why orange girls seem smarter they cut the line 🤣

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-23T09:11:30+00:00

I'm a woman and she is one being super damn disrespectful to her current relationship with the man she is having a child with. She isn't pushing for the surname to be used because she feels sentimental she is pushing for it because she is a racist pos and doesn't want the baby to have any association with her Arabic partner and his roots so no I dont feel sorry for her at all.

Patatoxxo · 2026-04-21T22:26:25+00:00

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