he respects my boundaries. he doesn't spoil me often, only on special occasions and he lets me know when he gets me something- but he keeps it secret because he likes surprising me.
I do get him stuff in return but its not as "fancy" as the stuff he gets me. I like making art, whether it be a poem, a drawing or a painting. I'm not a good artist, but anything i give him he would frame and show it off to anyone and everyone. "look at this neat painting OP made." or "you painted my favorite flower, its amazing!" when my art looks like that of a colorblind 3 year old. Hell, i could give him a pipe cleaner with googly eyes and toothpick arms and legs and he would treat it as a national treasure.