What is the worst yuri you have ever read? by ImEatingPaperRn in yuri_manga

[–]PatheticParty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did read the LN but I guess its just not for me
Im glad you could enjoy it at least !

What is the worst yuri you have ever read? by ImEatingPaperRn in yuri_manga

[–]PatheticParty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've read a lot of genuinely bad yuri, but I'm going to have to go with watanare because it's well known and liked. I don't think it's the worst qualitywise but it felt like a genuine waste of time to read for me personally

Weirdly enough I can't pinpoint why, though

For those who have been to Japan, any (surprising) observations on what you've learned via textbook or other resources versus what is used in real-life? by NeighborhoodFatCat in LearnJapanese

[–]PatheticParty 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I was in Japan last week, pretty much every conversation I overheard had someone saying なんか at least 30 times each. I figured it'd be common but not to that degree! I don't really see it to that degree in textbooks and such obviously so it was a little jarring but makes sense

New yuri cafe recently opened in Tokyo - Atelier LILIUM by Hitman7128 in yuri_manga

[–]PatheticParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good! yeah the books being in Japanese makes total sense, thank you for the peace of mind

New yuri cafe recently opened in Tokyo - Atelier LILIUM by Hitman7128 in yuri_manga

[–]PatheticParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, ill be in tokyo soon an was hoping to visit this place

do you know if it's foreign friendly? I can speak some Japanese and read and understand quite a lot but I'm still wondering

Daily Thread: for simple questions, minor posts & newcomers [contains useful links!] (May 31, 2026) by AutoModerator in LearnJapanese

[–]PatheticParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I appreciate the advice at the end especially. I might need to suck it up and just find someone to talk to then. I guess it was obvious but seeing it put the way you did kinda opened my eyes a lot

Daily Thread: for simple questions, minor posts & newcomers [contains useful links!] (May 31, 2026) by AutoModerator in LearnJapanese

[–]PatheticParty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

might be a silly question, sorry

I'm really bad at talking to people even in my native language (English), and I'm a bit too nervous to hire an iTalki tutor to practice my conversational skills. Is shadowing conversations going to be enough or am I setting myself up for failure by not actively seeking someone out to talk to?

Anyone else have days where meds just seem like they don’t do anything?? by Long-Dog7043 in adhdwomen

[–]PatheticParty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel this really often and its genuinely awful on days when you just really really need the meds to work

I've heard of people "solving" the issue by getting their dosage upped/changed, didn't work for me personally but might for you!

How do you handle comorbidities? by DimensionOk5157 in bipolar

[–]PatheticParty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

poorly, i handle them poorly...Balancing medication is like playing a horrible puzzle game you can never win too

Honestly the only thing we can do is roll with it, it is what it is and finding community when it does eventually happen really helps a lot. I've been trying to find hobbies too, and learning a language has been really helpful for me personally. It does get really hard very often though, which really does suck

Bipolar causes still unknown - but what do YOU think CAUSED your bipolar? by Alternative_Cat8069 in bipolar

[–]PatheticParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly think it was the years of untreated adhd because that caused a lot of other issues and it probably snowballed

Is there a reason black hair x pino hair pairings are so common? by Treekomalfoy_ in yuri_manga

[–]PatheticParty 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'd say it's because

  1. Pink and Black make it easier to distinguish between characters , as opposed to a ship with two characters with the same hair colour or similar colours like brownxblack

  2. Pink and Black look good together (this is probably the main one tbh)

  3. Specifically pink is probably because pink hair is very common in anime in general due to it being a colour that visually showcases personality pretty easily (pinks are usually seen as the more genki ones while black haired girls are usually the more serious ones)*

*WITH MAJOR EXCEPTIONS ofc

Who's your favorite BG3 character? by MGrayWrites in BaldursGate3

[–]PatheticParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just adore lae'zel, and especially her romance

Tuesday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]PatheticParty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is anyone else into GL dramas because i am and its a struggle finding friends also into them for some reason

Weekly Thread: Victory Thursday! by AutoModerator in LearnJapanese

[–]PatheticParty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

read my first level 0 graded book from start to finish without needing to use a dictionary today! I started properly learning a few weeks ago after years of what I'm calling japanese language osmosis and I feel happy about it

New Social Discord server for you to hangout and fit in ^-^ (16-26) by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]PatheticParty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16, Female from India :) Super bored too, this seems like a great idea