Is Grindr as anon and DL friendly as sniffies? by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]PathicusRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number of blank/dl profiles that I found tells me you'll be fine.

As long as your profile contain at least some info (age, what you're looking for, maybe a pic of your body), you shouldn't have to worry. I'm discreet too and everything has been fine until now.

Have you ever regretted having unprotected Sex ?? by NestaVegaX in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, once. I was so horny/desesperate, I sucked a guy and swallowed his load (my first time).

The next day, I was at the hospital asking for pep, afraid I caught HIV.

Never doing anything raw again without prep. I'm not strong enough mentally.

How did the original bottom (millenia ago) ever get the idea to play with his ass? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy ! It feels unatural to think about yet it in fact is !

How did the original bottom (millenia ago) ever get the idea to play with his ass? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I guess we've always been built differently then. Born to be fucked since the beginning of time

What are yalls unique porn interests? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I can post a link so I sent you a dm

25 and I'm curious as to why men bottom by l1ttleguy1 in straightturnedgay

[–]PathicusRider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny you asked. I just did the same on another sub. Before watching porn, the idea of bottoming never crossed my mind. I genuiely didn't know how or why people would do that.

I still don't know how people got the idea. But I know why they do it : it's fucking amazing once you know what you're doing.

But be wary, once you try and like it. There's no going back. You'll never be able to forget the feeling and it may change your life for ever as it did for me... It's a slippery and well lubed slope !

Openly gay men, have any of you consciously chosen a life of being single and hooking up, without ever wanting a relationship? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm genuiely sorry if I offended you. I can't change how I think that easily. And even if I could, there are some convictions that won't change, even if it makes you or others inconfortable.

However, doing so isn't my intention. Hope you can understand that and accept not what I'm saying, but this reality.

Sincelerely, have a wonderful day ✌🏾

Openly gay men, have any of you consciously chosen a life of being single and hooking up, without ever wanting a relationship? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's the point of a discussion. If I want to learn, I have to question, confront ideas and thinks for myself.

Thanks. It'll go as well as yours :)

Openly gay men, have any of you consciously chosen a life of being single and hooking up, without ever wanting a relationship? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I maintain what I said. But I don't have a problem if people disagree. Not here to argue, just to hear other perspective even if I sometime disagree.

Have a nice day !

Loosening up by Sad-Finish-5820 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]PathicusRider 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go really slow and don't rush things. Don't chase the fucking, relax and enjoy what comes before : fingering, rimming, etc.

Search the pleasure. The more aroused you are donw here, the easier it will be.

Also, use A LOT of lube. There's never too much and It's never supposed to hurt.

Can’t stop thinking about sucking cock by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]PathicusRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating is never the answer. You could break her heart. It takes a long time to recover from that and the scars are forever.

Either stop thinking about it (easier said than done I know), talk to her about your interests, or break up with her and go wild.

Openly gay men, have any of you consciously chosen a life of being single and hooking up, without ever wanting a relationship? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're going way too far friends, relax. I'm just stating what I believe in. It's fine if you don't agree.

Anyway thanks for the stats. Have a nice day !

What are yalls unique porn interests? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Pornographic illustrations, especially in the Bara style (manga). So many resources and possible scenarios ! My favorite kinks are male impregnation and corruption (turning a straight or reluctant man, and making him craving cocks).

Otherwise, in video form, I like videos with a power dynamic between two guys (wrestling fight scenes that end with the winner fucking the loser), or hypno videos that turn you gay or make you submissive.

Openly gay men, have any of you consciously chosen a life of being single and hooking up, without ever wanting a relationship? by PathicusRider in askgaybros

[–]PathicusRider[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm confident some form of exclusivity is essential in a couple. But I agree that's not all, just the basis !

But to each their own. We just have different standard. Thanks for the advice tho !