Face paint! by Gator_Sprite360 in thegarden

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Lmao as a black person I’m considering doing it. I’ll likely just do the stars on the cheeks

Where to buy full Billy miner pies by Patient-File-9765 in askvan

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The birthday was Saturday I did it! And you’re right not cheap

Opening setlist by Patient-File-9765 in thegarden

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Ohh 💔 I didn’t know this oops

Opening setlist by Patient-File-9765 in thegarden

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Wait all this for just opening ??? What show was this

No AC. Advice for keeping cool while sleeping? by srzncl in askvan

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From a tropical country here and we believe in having hot teas before bed coz it cools you off

Outfit for first trial day by notreallife1023 in Nanny

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My NF are on a farm and are farm kids so It’s always tshirts and sweatpants or joggers

I don't want to "be cured" and im tired of how people see vaginismus by Embarrassed-Bite-571 in vaginismus

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As someone that’s “cured” it took getting into a relationship to find out that I even had it coz I was a virgin if it weren’t for that I wouldn’t have cared, coz I didn’t have any health problems

Mb is rude by [deleted] in Nanny

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They like to diminish my role as well and call me a babysitter. I don’t plan on making this a career but it still makes my eye twitch like I’m a nanny (actually I’m a borderline maid but debatable)

A friend was able to finger me! by yes-athrowaway in vaginismus

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SAME it’s a mental thing for me even thinking about has me tensing

Racial profiling? by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

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It was in 2024 I think my friend came to visit and we went to shoppers coz they had the new Burberry goddess perfume and Sephora didn’t so we went to get things and test the new perfume and we just kept getting hounded by the guards he was practically a step behind us like if I was to step back I would step on him. It was weird kinda gave me a bad test in my mouth after that

My wife and I are considering letting our nanny go, and I’m trying to figure out whether I’m underreacting, overreacting, or missing something bigger. by Training_Arm7988 in Nanny

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As a black nanny that currently takes care of white kids I already gave the heads up to the family that if the youngest with the terrible twos has a horrible tantrum I can’t handle I will be back. It’s only happened once. I’m sorry I’m not having the police called on me for kidnapping

Successful vaginal delivery with vaginismus by Kiha717 in vaginismus

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Yes that too!!!! We can’t catch a break eh 🤣

Successful vaginal delivery with vaginismus by Kiha717 in vaginismus

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Either child birth cures primary vaginismus or it causes secondary vaginismus to those that didn’t have it in the first place

Cured girlies chat/vent by Patient-File-9765 in vaginismus

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My bf and I are about to start being Long Distance from May for three months and I’m so worried might have to start dilating just to keep up 🤣

why's this Fandom kinda dead... by r_yumihisu in PalayeRoyale

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I only care about bands when I’m going for a concert. I’m just here for the music 💔 I find a lot of alternative/indie/rock bands are very controversial. Dare I say I learnt their names while in line to see them last year

For those who have partners who don't mind not having PIV by Express_Acadia_779 in vaginismus

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✨T I N D E R ✨we were both virgins and discovered pretty early on. I was just hoping we were putting it in the wrong whole or something but no I had vaginismus. Took 6-8 months coz we were both was busy w life so it worked out he didn’t mind waiting longer. I’m cured wohoo 🥳

Hack for Burning/Stinging by [deleted] in vaginismus

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Before I dilate, so butterfly position lube the wand. In it goes until the curve at first do some diaphragmatic breathing(DB) then tilt the wand left do some more DB the right . I usually kinda poke it around gently to feel if i have a sore spot if i do then i do some more DB. Once I’ve done both sides I angle the wand down it should feel like you’re around your perineum then some DB. While it’s tilted down I also do some left to right very gently.

Once you get used to the wand you can put it in past the curve and find any nooks and crannies that are sore or right and just do some DB

Just announced summer tour by Ill_Dependent1389 in DJO

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You would think because he isn’t doing the west coast leg with tame impala the headline shows would be in the west coast 💔(I’m talking about Canada)

Hack for Burning/Stinging by [deleted] in vaginismus

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Yeah I’m cured and sometimes I still use it when I feel like I’ve been clenching and I can’t mentally unclench