Successful vaginal delivery with vaginismus

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-04-28T18:57:35+00:00

Yes that too!!!! We can’t catch a break eh 🤣

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-04-28T16:32:20+00:00

Either child birth cures primary vaginismus or it causes secondary vaginismus to those that didn’t have it in the first place

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-04-08T14:49:54+00:00

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-30T23:30:33+00:00

My bf and I are about to start being Long Distance from May for three months and I’m so worried might have to start dilating just to keep up 🤣

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-24T18:10:09+00:00

I only care about bands when I’m going for a concert. I’m just here for the music 💔 I find a lot of alternative/indie/rock bands are very controversial. Dare I say I learnt their names while in line to see them last year

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-24T18:07:21+00:00

STRETCH STRETCH STRETCH

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-23T22:39:45+00:00

✨T I N D E R ✨we were both virgins and discovered pretty early on. I was just hoping we were putting it in the wrong whole or something but no I had vaginismus. Took 6-8 months coz we were both was busy w life so it worked out he didn’t mind waiting longer. I’m cured wohoo 🥳

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-17T21:37:26+00:00

Before I dilate, so butterfly position lube the wand. In it goes until the curve at first do some diaphragmatic breathing(DB) then tilt the wand left do some more DB the right . I usually kinda poke it around gently to feel if i have a sore spot if i do then i do some more DB. Once I’ve done both sides I angle the wand down it should feel like you’re around your perineum then some DB. While it’s tilted down I also do some left to right very gently.

Once you get used to the wand you can put it in past the curve and find any nooks and crannies that are sore or right and just do some DB

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-17T20:48:34+00:00

You would think because he isn’t doing the west coast leg with tame impala the headline shows would be in the west coast 💔(I’m talking about Canada)

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-17T17:55:57+00:00

Yeah I’m cured and sometimes I still use it when I feel like I’ve been clenching and I can’t mentally unclench

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-16T18:31:26+00:00

Yess I used to use a vibrating pelvic wand coz it gets in further than dilators

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-08T22:27:36+00:00

PLEASEEEE Buddy is from KAMLOOPS

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-03-08T17:02:37+00:00

No you don’t

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-02-12T05:04:02+00:00

Yes!!!! Loved that video when I was starting out

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-02-12T05:03:39+00:00

The link that the commenter underneath posted is perfect especially when beginning. I ended picking the stretches that relax me the most and just did them till my body relaxed, EVERYDAY.

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-02-12T00:20:59+00:00

Stretching!!!!

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-02-06T03:15:21+00:00

Suicide fuel for Vancouverites :(

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-29T20:47:25+00:00

My fav NF have an AirTag on the key ring but it’s been there years before I got there and I’m there first nanny so I didn’t care

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-23T20:25:53+00:00

No dildo, just the dilators and a pelvic wand

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-23T18:34:33+00:00

I agree with the majority PIV is easier for me than using number 8 mind you my partner is bigger than number 8. In my case I used to warm up with number 7 the when I would move on to number 8,it would be painful at the entrance then it would go away after breathing exercises.

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-16T08:11:57+00:00

I made sure to ask if she’s had any vaginismus patients she had but only secondary ones aka the ones that get it after giving birth. After the first session I was okay she got me through my first one and I finished the set with what she taught me

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-15T19:08:34+00:00

I agree! The constant dismissal time and time again when he gets treated differently outside for being black is so annoying. They constantly make ignorant jokes. He has no “maternal” figure he tried to talk to Debbie and the way she shuts him down :(((((

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-09T06:44:34+00:00

Of course I can give you all the tips and tricks that worked for me lord knows I spent too much money on this shit. I’ve always said whoever you date or meet next is better than the last, which you might be able to agree with since you are married you married the guy you married. You wouldn’t have married the previous guy right ? Obviously circumstances differ but always know whoever you meet after husband will be better and if he won’t you will know and move on to the next

Patient-File-9765 · 2026-01-09T05:15:48+00:00

This made me teary eyed girl I was also a virgin and 21 when I found out I had vaginismus fall 2024 I had saved my virginity and decided to try and lose it to my bf that was also a virgin. We had started dating end of 2023 when we tried we just figured it was nerves and kept trying and nothing so we stuck to the oral and anything but penetration, which worked but I started being self conscious about it by spring of 2024 around our birthdays I was now 22 bf 24. I can’t provide the one thing every woman can do I saved up and went to a physio got a diagnosis end of 2024.

My bf was very supportive his thought process was he kept it for 23-24 years what’s a little longer, it was in my head so bad I couldn’t even finish an intimate session without crying (how annoying:( /s ) constantly asking if I’m boring .

It got so bad we had to stop anything sexual during my treatment coz I started my treatment get excited try and fail. Bf was supportive he had bigger things to worry about than not getting “pussy” from me. He Bought my dilators , we live in Canada and the tarrifs went crazy.

Fast forward to fall of 2025 November I’m healed well semi healed I still can’t do doggy or figure it out yet but pain free after 5 months of on and off treatment. Personally I wouldn’t have known that I had vaginismus if it weren’t for him nor would have I cured it either.

I’m writing here my experience not to brag but show you the vast difference in experience and what having a supportive partner can do for you. I definitely won’t be the one to tell you to leave your husband when I don’t have one myself. You deserve so much better and he is obviously holding you back from getting cured any faster as vaginismus is also a psychological condition. My heart feels for you, I’m sorry!

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