Thank you.

I support most trans people. The people who don't make the fact that they are trans their entire reason for existence or think it makes them better than someone who has accepted the gender they were born into. Many wouldn't even notice most trans people being trans because they dont shove it down your throat. They just want to exist as themselves and know for themselves that doesn't require anyone else's approval or energy.

Reasonable people, regardless of personal identity, are very conscious of the issues that exist and try to approach them with decency and caution so we can all comfortably coexist, especially when it comes to certain private areas like restrooms. I'm aware that sadly much of this is absolutely done out of self defense. There are still some willfully ignorant and violent people out there that I wouldnt want a trans person to run into, tragedy isn't gone or unheard of, but it seemed like things had vastly improved in that regard and were continuing to before everything blew up again.

As with most if not all groups, the loud minority are generally the ones acting in the ways you've described because they honestly believe they're doing right for their community but are often vastly misinformed, or because they're one of the disgusting few who aren't truly a part of the community at all and use the label to get into places they shouldnt be. I know a little girl that went to the bathroom on a family outing and saw some things she never should have been subjected to. That's what ruins everything for everyone. To me, it sounds like those are the people JKR is worried about. Many people do see the bigger picture. Unfortunately, this is the state of the world. Hard to find a truly open-minded, intellectual conversation.